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The biggest obstacle between you and your next client isn't your strategy, it's the four inches between your ears.
Renee Hribar unpacks why so many talented service providers and consultants convince themselves their sales strategy is broken when the real problem is how they're interpreting rejection. Drawing from a recent coaching conversation with a client who nearly quit her business despite just landing a new one-on-one client, Renee breaks down the difference between disappointment and data, and why one unanswered email or a thinly attended workshop doesn't mean your offer, your niche, or your business model is wrong. She revisits SW4, the sales rule she learned cold-calling in 1990s Manhattan, and explains how to tell the difference between discernment, testing intentionally and adjusting, and defensiveness, deciding something doesn't work because it felt uncomfortable. The conversation moves from networking rooms and referral fatigue into the real inner work of selling: building trust, starting conversations, and tolerating uncertainty long enough to find the room where your ideal clients are actually waiting.
Renee closes with a simple written exercise to help listeners identify the one sales activity they've been avoiding and the fear underneath it. It's a practical, no-fluff nudge toward doing the outer work of selling without letting inner resistance quietly run the show.
Mentioned in this episode:
Podcasting for Your Spiritual Business - Kim Parkinson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/051-honor-the-season-your-podcast-is-in-and-grow/id1814692686?i=1000752864110
Learning Experience Design for Changemakers - Renee Koster: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/learning-experience-design-for-changemakers/id1896864819
That's Good Parenting - Dori Durbin: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-good-parenting-expert-tips-to-reduce-parenting/id1667186115