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Planning for long-term care might be the most important conversation your family isn't having. In this eye-opening episode, Raymond Lavine, founder of Lavine LTC Benefits, reveals why waiting to address caregiving needs creates unnecessary financial and emotional burdens for families across America.

Drawing from his personal experience caring for both parents, Raymond shares powerful insights that go beyond insurance policies to the heart of what matters: preserving relationships when caregiving becomes necessary. "Wife should always be wife, son should always be son—not caregivers," he emphasizes, highlighting how proper planning maintains the integrity of our most important connections.

We explore the three critical questions everyone should answer: Where do you want your care? Who will be responsible for it? And how will you pay for it? Raymond brilliantly reframes long-term care insurance as "a warranty on you," helping listeners understand that humans, like machines, eventually need maintenance—and having a plan for that inevitable reality isn't pessimistic but practical.

The conversation tackles common misconceptions about long-term care benefits, explains how modern policies have evolved to be more efficient, and outlines the various options available depending on your specific needs and circumstances. Raymond's empathetic approach to what many consider an uncomfortable topic transforms the discussion from one of fear to one of empowerment.

Whether you're in your 30s planning decades ahead, approaching retirement, or concerned about aging parents, this episode provides essential guidance for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions. As Raymond powerfully concludes: "Have the conversation." Your future self—and your loved ones—will thank you.

• Long-term care insurance functions as "a warranty on you," protecting your most valuable asset: yourself
• Three fundamental questions everyone should address: Where do you want care? Who will provide it? How will you pay for it?
• Family relationships suffer when spouses and children become caregivers instead of maintaining their primary roles
• Caregiving is a specialized skill that most people haven't been trained to perform
• People delay planning because insurance isn't immediately gratifying and forces confrontation with mortality
• Benefits activate based on inability to perform daily activities, not specific medical diagnoses
• Modern policies have become more efficient with streamlined health assessments and various coverage options
• Raymond's personal experience caring for his father through three extended periods shaped his approach

Have the conversation about long-term care planning now—whether with Raymond Levine, a financial advisor, or another knowledgeable professional. Contact Raymond through LinkedIn or at https://raymondlavineofficial.com/

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The walls between generations seem to grow taller each year. Teenagers roll their eyes at grandparents who "just don't get it," while seniors shake their heads at youth who "don't care enough." But what if these misconceptions are actually preventing some of life's most enriching relationships?

Licensed clinical social worker Danniel Worthen-Cullumber joins us to dismantle these barriers with wisdom gained from decades working with both ends of the age spectrum. Her insights reveal something surprising: our discomfort with older generations often stems from fear of our own aging future. By creating distance through stereotypes, we protect ourselves from confronting our inevitable journey.

Danniel shares powerful observations about what each generation truly needs. For seniors, regular interaction combats the growing invisibility they feel as society pushes them to the margins. For younger people, these relationships provide something increasingly rare: adults who genuinely listen without judgment. "Teenagers just want to be heard," Danniel explains, "and I guarantee you that senior is going to listen."

The most transformative connections happen in everyday moments, not just holiday gatherings. Whether it's teaching grandma to use a smartphone or learning about historical events from someone who lived through them, these exchanges build bridges across decades of different experiences. Danniel's simple but profound advice—"Ask the question, you'll get the answer"—opens doorways to extraordinary stories and mutual understanding.

For families navigating the delicate balance of supporting aging loved ones while preserving their dignity, this episode offers practical guidance on maintaining autonomy while strengthening bonds. You'll discover how to identify what seniors truly want versus what they need, and how asking this simple question transforms relationships.

Whether you're caring for aging parents, hoping to connect with grandchildren, or simply wanting to enrich your life through intergenerational friendships, this conversation will forever change how you approach these vital human connections.

• Danniel's journey began as a CNA working with seniors, discovering it was "the hardest job she ever loved"
• Depression rates among seniors entering care facilities are alarmingly high, particularly for those who lose independence
• Misconceptions create barriers - young people often think seniors "don't get them," while seniors believe youth "don't care" or "aren't responsible"
• Young people may distance themselves from seniors as a way to avoid confronting their own future aging
• Intergenerational programs like those at Neighborhood House demonstrate how seniors' mental capacities "light up" when interacting with children
• Communication between generations improves when focused on common interests rather than generational differences
• Consistency matters more than grand gestures - regular Tuesday visits mean more than just showing up on holidays
• Seniors provide what teenagers crave most: someone who genuinely listens without judgment
• The value of older adults' experiences and stories provides perspective that can't be gained elsewhere
• Practical advice for families: "Ask the question, you'll get the answer" to discover connections
• Maintaining dignity and autonomy for seniors is crucial - avoid taking away rights as abilities change

For those seeking support as caregivers or those working with aging loved ones, Danniel's practice Willow Medela Wellness offers resources. Caregivers face high burnout rates and often benefit from professional guidance through life transitions and emotional challenges.

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Retirement planning has a serious problem: we're living much longer than previous generations, but our financial preparation hasn't kept pace. With many retirees finding themselves 45% short of what they'll need for a comfortable retirement lasting potentially 30+ years, what options do we have?

Laura Phillips, a licensed reverse mortgage specialist with over 25 years of experience, joins us to demystify one powerful but often misunderstood financial tool - the modern reverse mortgage. She tackles the elephant in the room immediately, acknowledging the product's controversial reputation while explaining how today's reverse mortgages differ dramatically from their predecessors. "It's not your grandmother's reverse mortgage," Phillips explains, detailing the significant consumer protections now built into these loans.

We explore the mechanics of reverse mortgages in straightforward terms, from how they calculate available funds (based on age, equity, and interest rates) to what happens when the homeowner passes away. Phillips brings compassionate insight to the emotional aspects of retirement planning, addressing the delicate balance between using home equity as a financial tool and honoring the sentimental value of the family home.

Perhaps most eye-opening is our discussion about financial education and America's retirement readiness gap. Phillips shares personal experiences that highlight how unprepared many of us are for financing decades of retirement, noting that even financial advisors struggle to project 30 years into the future. Her passion for helping seniors find solutions shines through as she encourages earlier, more honest conversations about aging and finances.

Whether you're approaching retirement age yourself or helping parents navigate their options, this episode provides valuable perspective on one potential strategy for aging in place with greater financial security. Connect with Laura Phillips to learn if a reverse mortgage might be right for your situation.

• Reverse mortgages have evolved substantially with improved consumer protections
• Modern reverse mortgages require both spouses on the loan and verify ability to pay taxes/insurance
• Homeowner age, available equity, and interest rates determine how much can be accessed (42-75%)
• Older borrowers can access higher percentages of their home's value
• Reverse mortgages work best when heirs aren't expecting to inherit the physical home
• The loan grows over time but has protections against going "underwater"
• Heirs can choose to sell the home or purchase it by paying off the loan balance
• Financial education about longevity planning should start much earlier in life
• A home should be viewed as both an emotional space and a potential financial tool

If you're 62 or approaching that age and thinking about retirement options, reach out to Laura Phillips at [email protected] or call 303-817-4611 to discuss whether a reverse mortgage might be right for your situation.

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What if we approached aging with the same enthusiasm and preparation as expecting parents planning for a baby? This transformative perspective is just one of the powerful insights Kayla Cook brings to our discussion on navigating senior care with confidence and compassion.

Drawing from her psychology background and extensive experience in home health and hospice, Kayla challenges common misconceptions that prevent families from accessing vital resources at the right time. She paints a vivid picture of modern senior living communities that feel more like cruise ships than clinical facilities, with vibrant activities and amenities designed to help residents thrive rather than merely exist.

Our conversation tackles the widespread misunderstanding of hospice care, revealing how this Medicare-covered service can actually extend life while dramatically improving its quality when utilized early enough. Yet many families wait until the final days of life, missing months of comprehensive support that could transform their experience.

Kayla advocates for proactive planning, suggesting families begin care conversations at milestone moments like a 65th birthday, when everyone is still healthy enough to express their preferences clearly. This approach normalizes aging as another life stage worthy of thoughtful preparation rather than something to be feared or avoided.

We explore underutilized resources from specialized fitness training to help maintain crucial muscle mass, to educational programs like Kayla's upcoming "Senior Pathways" course. This monthly program will equip families with practical knowledge about dementia stages, available resources, and financing options without sales pressure.

Listen now to reframe your approach to aging and discover how early planning can transform this journey from one of crisis management to meaningful connection. Join Kayla's first Senior Pathways course on May 1st at Abington Senior Living in Murray to take your first step toward confident, compassionate care planning.

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• Psychology background shapes Kayla's person-centered approach to helping families make difficult care decisions
• Modern senior living communities offer vibrant social environments comparable to cruise ships, far from outdated stereotypes
• Hospice care is drastically underutilized and misunderstood – studies show it can actually extend life by about 15 days
• Families should start care planning conversations at milestone moments like age 65, long before crises occur
• Physical fitness and muscle maintenance are critical yet overlooked factors in healthy aging and longevity
• Understanding the landscape of Medicare-covered versus private pay options requires early education
• Senior Pathways course launches May 1st to help families understand dementia stages, caregiving tips, and available resources

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When caregiving for someone with dementia, the most powerful support might not be what you expect. Dr. Beth Fauth, director of Utah State University's Alzheimer's Disease and Dementia Research Center, reveals transformative approaches to dementia care that benefit both caregivers and their loved ones.

What began as an unexpected passion during her college studies has evolved into groundbreaking research on caregiver support. Dr. Fauth shares how her multidisciplinary approach—drawing from psychology, healthcare, family studies, and even architecture—creates a more comprehensive understanding of dementia caregiving challenges. "Understanding the mechanism of how something works is valuable," she explains, "but what I really want to do is find ways to help this population."

The conversation dives deep into practical interventions that meet caregivers where they are. Traditional support often requires caregivers to attend in-person sessions—adding another burden to their already overwhelming responsibilities. Dr. Fauth's innovative online, self-guided therapeutic programs allow caregivers to access evidence-based support at any hour, without leaving home. These digital interventions apply Acceptance and Commitment Therapy principles, teaching caregivers to acknowledge difficult emotions while acting in alignment with their personal values.

Perhaps most moving is Dr. Fauth's perspective on finding joy amid dementia's challenges. Rather than constantly correcting a loved one with dementia, she suggests embracing their reality—much like improvisational theater. This simple shift creates genuine moments of connection and reduces unnecessary conflict. "We can't bring them back to where we are in the present moment," she notes. "Our only option is to jump in, join their reality, and go with it."

From emerging medical treatments to growing collaboration between researchers and service providers, Dr. Fauth offers hope for the future of dementia care. Whether you're caring for someone with dementia or working in healthcare, this conversation provides essential insights for navigating the dementia journey with compassion, resilience, and even moments of unexpected joy.

• Started in dementia care through work in assisted living and discovered her passion during an adult development class in college
• Transitioned from studying caregiver stress mechanisms to developing practical interventions that reach people who need support
• Founded Utah's Alzheimer's Disease and Dementia Research Center in 2022 to bridge research and community service
• Developed online self-guided Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) interventions for caregivers
• Found that the care environment significantly impacts the progression of dementia
• Emphasizes the importance of acknowledging difficult emotions while still acting in alignment with personal values
• Advocates for "joining" the reality of the person with dementia rather than correcting them
• Excited about emerging trends in Alzheimer's treatments targeting amyloid, tau, and inflammation
• Highlights growing collaboration between researchers, service providers, and policymakers

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Kristy Russell takes us on a deeply personal and professional journey through the world of Alzheimer's disease and related dementias (ADRD). As Utah's sole specialist covering the entire state, Kristy shares how her grandmother's Lewy body dementia diagnosis transformed her perspective on memory care after initially swearing off working with dementia patients due to challenging experiences.

The conversation tackles misconceptions head-on. Memory loss is just one symptom — thinking, behavior, and problem-solving abilities are equally affected. Kristy reveals a startling reality: only half of people with Alzheimer's are diagnosed, and of those, merely 30% share their diagnosis with loved ones, often fearing loss of independence.

Communication emerges as the cornerstone challenge for caregivers. Through vivid examples, Kristy explains why arguing with someone with dementia about recent events is futile. Her "filing cabinet" metaphor brilliantly illustrates how memory works — newest files disappear first — helping caregivers understand why their loved ones can't simply "try harder" to remember.

For overwhelmed caregivers, Kristy offers practical wisdom about delegation and self-care. "The energy you put out is the energy you're going to get back from the person with dementia," she notes, emphasizing that seeking help isn't failure but excellence in caregiving. She explains respite options and encourages caregivers to maintain their own health appointments and activities.

Looking forward, Kristy shares hope about new medications like aducanumab that can remove brain plaques in early stages, signaling a positive trajectory in treatment development. Her powerful closing message resonates deeply: "You're doing a good job and you're not alone."

Whether you're caring for someone with dementia, working in healthcare, or simply seeking to understand these conditions better, this episode provides invaluable insights, practical strategies, and heartfelt encouragement for the journey ahead.

• Kristy's journey from swearing off dementia care to becoming Utah's statewide ADRD specialist
• Only about half of people with Alzheimer's disease are diagnosed, and of those, only 30% share their diagnosis with family and friends
• Early diagnosis allows for better planning and less crisis management as the disease progresses
• Communication challenges require meeting people with dementia in their reality rather than constantly correcting them
• The "filing cabinet" memory metaphor explains why recent memories disappear first
• Self-care for caregivers includes delegating tasks and utilizing respite services
• New medications like aducanumab can help in early stages by removing brain plaques
• The Utah government's WISE initiative focuses on helping seniors age in place independently

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What happens when a doctor of physical therapy who swore he'd never work with older adults discovers his true calling in senior care? Matt Hansen, Executive Director of the Home Care and Hospice Association of Utah, takes us on his remarkable journey from pediatric specialist to passionate advocate for quality home-based care.

Matt reveals how his perspective dramatically shifted when he recognized the profound similarities between life's bookends—young children and seniors often share the clearest understanding of what truly matters in life. Through candid storytelling, he challenges some of our most deeply held assumptions about caring for aging loved ones, particularly the belief that families should handle everything themselves.

The conversation tackles head-on the uncomfortable reality that well-intentioned family caregiving often fundamentally changes relationships. When adult children become caregivers, they frequently stop being daughters or sons in the same way. Professional support can preserve these precious family dynamics while ensuring comprehensive care.

Perhaps most provocatively, Matt questions the inheritance mindset that prevents seniors from utilizing their life savings for quality care. "The money my parents saved is there to take care of them," he emphasizes. "The greatest inheritance they've given me isn't financial—it's values, work ethic, and love."

Looking toward the future, Matt shares his optimism about emerging technologies that promise to transform home care. From non-wearable sensors that monitor vital signs through mattresses to AI systems that streamline documentation, these innovations may help address the serious staffing and reimbursement challenges facing the industry.

For anyone considering home care for a loved one—or as a career path—this episode offers invaluable perspective. As Matt beautifully states, entering someone's home to provide care isn't just a job; it's stepping onto "sacred ground" where you might be their only advocate for maintaining independence and dignity.

• Moving from pediatrics to geriatrics after initially being reluctant to work with older adults
• The misconception that families can handle senior care alone without professional support
• How family relationships change when relatives become caregivers instead of maintaining their primary roles
• Challenging the mindset that saved money should be preserved as inheritance rather than used for quality care
• The funding challenges facing home care with Medicare Advantage plans paying significantly less than traditional Medicare
• Technology innovations making aging in place safer, including non-invasive monitoring systems and AI-assisted documentation
• Utah's surprising statistic of over 450,000 family caregivers, many who don't identify as caregivers
• The sacred responsibility of working in someone's home and serving as their advocate

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Could changing your diet in your 70s actually improve your health, or is it too late? According to nutrition expert Amy Covington, the power to transform health through diet remains strong throughout our entire lives.

Amy shares the remarkable story of a senior who initially refused to change his eating habits but experienced dramatic improvements in his diabetes management and mobility after just six months of nutritional changes. This transformation challenges the widespread belief that older adults can't reverse chronic conditions or improve their metabolic health.

Drawing from her experience overseeing Utah's nutrition programs and researching senior malnutrition, Amy distinguishes between simply "plant-based" eating and truly nutritious whole foods. She offers practical approaches for seniors hesitant to completely eliminate animal products, suggesting an 80-20 rule that allows flexibility while maximizing health benefits.

Perhaps most valuable are her strategies for addressing decreased appetite, a critical issue for many seniors. From making mealtimes social events to enhancing food's visual appeal and stimulating appetite through light activity, these techniques help break the cycle of poor nutrition that often accelerates health decline. Amy also recommends specific screening tools caregivers can use to identify nutrition risks before they become serious medical concerns.

Whether you're caring for an aging parent, working professionally with seniors, or planning for your own healthy aging journey, these evidence-based nutrition strategies offer a path to enhanced quality of life. Discover how simple changes like incorporating more colorful vegetables, switching to whole grains, and being mindful about protein sources can significantly impact wellness in our later years.

• Nutrition changes can significantly improve health at any age – even in your 70s or 80s
• Plant-based nutrition offers specific benefits for chronic conditions common in seniors
• Small changes like following the 80/20 rule can make meaningful health improvements
• Decreased appetite is a major concern for seniors, often creating a cycle of poor nutrition
• Eating with seniors, making meals visually appealing, and encouraging light exercise can improve appetite
• Eating less red meat (ideally twice monthly) and focusing on whole grains offers significant health benefits
• Medicare and Medicaid increasingly recognize nutrition services for chronic conditions
• Simple screening tools like the Malnutrition Screening Tool can help identify nutrition risks
• Frozen fruits and vegetables are cost-effective alternatives that maintain nutritional value
• Changing the plate composition to include more colorful vegetables and fruits is an easy first step

Contact your local Area Agency on Aging through das.utah.gov/locations to learn about meal programs and nutrition services available in your county.

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Experience the enlightening journey of Connie Assiff, a passionate caregiver and Tai Chi instructor, who shares her inspiring story about navigating the challenges of caregiving while advocating for holistic health for seniors. From her unexpected start as a caregiver at 25, Connie has dedicated her life to empowering families with the tools and resources needed to ensure aging with dignity. 

In this episode, we delve into the multifaceted lessons she learned over her nearly three-decade-long journey. Connie discusses the current understanding of aging, the importance of health literacy, and the transformative power of Tai Chi for older adults. She emphasizes that exercise is not just about physical well-being but also about emotional resilience, and how incorporating movement into daily life can foster independence and joy in older age.

Listeners will also gain practical insights on how caregivers can seek support systems to alleviate feelings of isolation and overwhelm. Connie's advocacy work fuels a passionate dialog about the necessity of self-care and how it enables caregivers to continue their vital work without sacrificing their own health. 

This episode is a must-listen for anyone involved in caregiving, whether professionally or personally. Discover the refreshing perspective that “self-care is not selfish” as she provides valuable advice and strategies for integrating movement into daily routines. Whether you're a caregiver, a family member, or simply someone interested in aging well, Connie's insights hold wisdom for all. Tune in and be inspired to take action for healthier aging! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review!

• Overview of Connie's caregiving experiences
• The positive effects of Integrating Tai Chi
• Key lessons learned through caregiving
• Importance of self-care for caregivers
• Tips for younger caregivers feeling overwhelmed
• The role of movement in enhancing quality of life

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What if the future of senior care lies in the seamless integration of technology and human compassion? Get ready to explore this fascinating intersection in our latest episode of the Senior Care Academy podcast. Aaron and I delve into the trends shaping senior care in 2024, as the industry recalibrates after the COVID-19 disruptions. We uncover the significant demand for senior care services despite the stagnant growth in caregiver numbers. Join us as we highlight insights from the Utah Symposium on Aging Care, which inspire fresh approaches to meet these challenges and underscore the government’s role in supporting aging in place through initiatives like the Older Americans Act.

The promise of technology holds immense potential for aging populations, and we are thrilled to share how it’s being embraced worldwide. From the heartwarming innovation of Paro, the therapeutic robotic seal, to the capable assistance of RoBear, the nurse robot, we spotlight the ingenious solutions transforming senior care. Japan’s pioneering efforts in addressing demographic challenges offer a model for others, especially the U.S., where home care expenditure is notable. Embracing technology isn't just an option; it's a necessity for enhancing the quality of life for seniors and their caregivers.

Beyond tech, we discuss the enriching concept of community integration, moving away from isolating seniors in facilities towards a vibrant intergenerational living model. This approach not only fosters a sense of purpose but also combats loneliness through diverse activities. We explore practical steps like adopting smart home technologies to support senior independence without the intimidation of full-time care. As we embark on this exciting series of industry insights and updates, we invite you to share your thoughts and suggestions for future topics. Let’s navigate the evolving landscape of senior care together.

On this episode, we touched on...

• The importance of returning to normalcy in senior care post-COVID
• The overwhelming preference for independent living among seniors
• The role of AI and technology in enhancing elder care
• Challenges to technology adoption in the senior demographic
• Global trends in aging populations and their implications
• Strategies to combat senior loneliness through community engagement
• Discussion on future housing solutions for seniors and support systems

Timestamp to help you navigate the podcast:

1:33 – Return to normalcy

2:50 – COVID had a good impact on the senior care industry

6:30 – AI trend for senior care

12:19 – Integrating AI to the industry

14:30 – Internet can help disconnected people to be connected

22:10 – Upskilling the workforce using AI

24:10 – NORC (natural occurring retirement community)

27:13 - Combating senior’s loneliness

27:50 – Find senior’s niche community

28:27 – You dont have to be the innovator, you have to be the integrator

Watch our episode with Ezra Torres here

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