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We start off with a content warning about CNC. (Consensual Non-Consent)
I explained why I missed a couple of weeks thanks to pneumonia. I'm better now.

Merf:  It feels like the end of the world. ALL of the progress that we made have been erased.
Chrystal knows 4 people who have checked themselves into a mental health facility. Life is dark right now. Merf gives us lots of great info about coping skills and all of us just trying to survive. (Supreme Court, Roe v. Wade, Covid, Massacre after massacre.

Reversing Roe v. Wade is taking all of our rights and it includes people who are using IVF to try to have a baby. Trans people will be denied health care. People will continue to get abortions, but they will not be safe. Merf reminded me of the Debbie Reynolds discussion about having to carry a dead baby a few years before Roe v. Wade.

HOPE: Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson gives me hope. We need more justices who are in touch with Americans. We need more justices that will NOT force their religion and their beliefs on the rest of us.

I finally saw the 10 million additional white women that voted for Trump the second time. Frightening. So many white young women were excited that Roe v. Wade, And, YOUNG WOMEN.  So gross. I saw them on the news and was so sad. WTAF? Merf tells a story about when she was at work making a presentation and presented to the people that there is sex trafficking in the Sacramento area.  Her audience was sure that there was no sex trafficking in their area.  WILD!

Fat Babe Armor

Chrystal starts the discussion about "performing feminity" and always makes an effort to look nice, look smiley, and be easy to approach. LIke Merf, I always want to smell great so we can dispel the "fat people are stinky" trope. Merf is focused on smelling good and looking approachable, too.  It's so common for all of us to prepare for battle. Many people are "afraid" of fat bodies and they often have this belief that we are MEAN or crabby. Merf and I both agree, that we are VERY nice at first and then if we get pissed off, it's ON!

We talked about how my friend from Fat Brunch (who I believe they may be non-binary) talked about the next level that Black people experience.  They feel they perform being "respectable" due to being Black.  This is very common in marginalized communities due to White Supremacy. In our country, White is the default.  Black fat people who are non-binary or trans have to be in "fight or flight" mode 24/7 due to their skin color and the response they may receive from white people

At about 27 minutes, Merf tells an amazing story about her "butt arm" and an experience when she had an exchange with a woman who told her, at the time, she was fat - but she was the good kind of fat. ALL FAT BODIES deserve respect, dignity, and love. Small

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