Sex Life Unleashed

Have you ever been tied up or tied someone up?  Or maybe just curious about it.  This week we have expert tier, Anastasia shares about the world of Shibari.

Shibari is the act of tying up a person for aesthetic purposes— in a pretty or intricate pattern, typically by using some form of rope. And while shibari can be used for sexual pleasure, it's also used as a form of meditation, relaxation, and trust-building practice between two partners.

In this week's episode,  Anastasia share's the different sides of shibari and what it can provide for people.  From an act of self-care to full body suspension whatever piques your interest it's in this episode.

Learn what type of communication is necessary if you're the tier or the model, explore what trust looks like, the art of aftercare and untying,  and understand the types of rope to use.  We cover all the bases.

You can follow Anastasia @voudouropes and you can access her course here, and check her out on youtube here.

Speaking of courses my free Masterclass - Sexual Self Awareness: The first step to having an incredible sex life is available here.

Are you curious about what happens behind the dungeon door? Do you want the inside scoop on what the life of a Dominatrix is really like? 

This week Lady Pim generously shares the ins, outs, and nuances of being a professional pleasure/pain/fantasy collaborator and provider.

If you've ever wondered...

What does a dominatrix do when she's having a rough day and doesn't want to go to work?

What does a great day at work look like?

How do you vet clients?

How do you navigate between personal relationships and work?

What does safety look like?

We get into it all this week!  So enjoy and get ready to use your safe word ~ kidding.

 Lady Pim is a Professional Dominatrix at The Ritual Chamber, Toronto. You can book a session at https://theritualchamber.ca/lady-pim.

And you can follow her fire socials:

@theladypim1 on Twitter

@theladypim on Instagram

If you're curious about kink and what it takes to create a really healthy power exchange relationship..... Kathleen tells all from her early mistakes and missteps to her current D/s dynamic.

In this episode, you will learn how to spot red flags from far away,  how to avoid the most common pitfalls submissives make, how to set boundaries with your Dom, how to find other play partners to join you and your partner, how to deal with people who kink shame you and so much more.

Kathleen has taught extensively in the fields of sexuality studies and health policy at Western University, Queen’s University, University of Toronto, and Trent University.  And we were so thrilled to have her as a guest!  

If you want to take our relationship to the next level come hang out with me on Instagram @drdewit

Carlyle Jansen is a sex therapist (RP) and the founder of Good For Her, a sexuality shop and workshop centre in Toronto.  She is the author of Sex Yourself, a book on self-pleasure for cis-women, and Anal Sex Basics, a guide to anal pleasure for folks of all genders.  And so much more...

In this episode, Carlyle shares how she went from being terrified of a penis to becoming both an anchor and beacon of sex positivity in Toronto and North America.

If you're curious about having "sex worth wanting" and the steps to create it, what a Feminist Porn Award is and how to start an International Porn Festival, to a sex toy shop hires employees, to wondering if sex is a skill or a natural gift this is the episode for you.

You can find her and her store at goodforher.com or carlylejansen.com.

Improving your sex life starts with understanding your sexual self.  Take the first step and download your personal Sex Menu here.

Have you ever met someone that appears to have lived several lives in one lifetime? Shirley Rivers is one of those magical people.

In this rollercoaster of an episode, Shirley shares the highs and lows of her personal journey and how she used that to propel her professional success. From a Gynecologic Teaching Associate to a Midwife to providing training to private medical providers, medical schools,
VA Hospitals, universities, and rape centers around the world.

This week we cover:

What it takes to learn how to orgasm after 38 years of marriage?

How to advocate for your sexual health?

The dangers of toxic sexuality.

The most interesting lunch hour of my entire life!

For more information, Shirley can be reached at [email protected].

If you want to expand your sexual self-awareness and understand your sexual self better download your sex menu here.

Have you been unhappy with your vagina?  Or has your vagina ever been unhappy with you?  Don't worry, it's OK.  Adrienne is the Yoni Nutritionist! A Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Sex Educator with a passion for women’s health.

 In this week's episode, we talk about the importance of nutrition and holistic lifestyle practices to maintain their vaginal health and help them manage and eliminate symptoms of chronic vaginal infections.

We take on disclosing to partners, shame and advocating for your own sexual health.

You can learn more about Adrienne's programs here.

And you can follow me on Instagram here.

Have you been silenced by just a look?  Were you taught to speak up for yourselves in all areas except sex?  Did your parents shield you from sex? 

In this episode join me as I talk with Shelley Dee about how, as a Catholic daughter to Indian-Goan parents, she's navigated her sexual journey with lots of twists, turns and laughs along the way.

Shelley's Podcast "Just Out Of Curiosity with Shelley Dee" is coming May 2022.

And if you want to transform your relationship with sex the Sex Life Unleashed Academy is open for enrollment in June.  You can join the waitlist at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist.

Thanks for joining me for Season 1. I couldn't have done it without you! Through 15 episodes I've learned and grown a lot and I hope you have too.

Taking a break to focus on two passion projects:

The free masterclass "A Great Sex Life has Very Little to do with Sex: 4 Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Sex Life (and what to do instead)" that you can sign up for here.

And launching the Sex Life Unleashed Academy 12 week online program that you can sign up for here.

Look for Season 2 to be coming back late March.

Until we meet again, remember the more we understand about ourselves and each other, the less we have to fear, the more love is here. So here's to happy days and living a sex life unleashed!

You may be stuck.... Like millions of other people.

But you don't have to stay stuck!

In this episode I do a deep dive into the benefits you can personally reap from working on your sex life beyond just better sex.

I distilled the most common life-altering changes that clients consistently experience in their life.

I share how working on your sex life actually sends ripples throughout your entire life.  Being a more confident, authentic, and happy person can dramatically alter how you interact with the world around you. 

The waitlist for the sex life unleashed academy is now open.

If you want to transform your sex life in 12 weeks and want to be the first to know about the program click on the link  sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist

Are you curious about what a sexologist's sex life is like?

Do I walk the talk? Do I live a sex life unleashed?

In this episode, I share my personal story of sexual transformation, from the sad to the salacious, I will take you on the journey that covers the missteps, the darkness, the epiphanies, and the celebration.

I share parts of me I haven't publicly shared before.  Get to know the man behind the doctor.

The waitlist for the sex life unleashed academy is now open.

If you want to transform your sex life in 12 weeks and want to be the first to know about the program click on the link  sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist