Sex Life Unleashed

Stephen, how did you become a Sexologist? And, what do you actually do?  Two of the most common questions I get.

In this episode, I take you on the journey of my professional life for the past decade and share the twists and turns the ups and downs. I pull back the curtain and share what it took to get me to where I am today.

If you've ever asked yourself who the heck is this Stephen guy? And you want to get to know the man behind the mic or if you're interested in the field of sexology this is the episode for you.

The waitlist for the sex life unleashed academy is now open.

If you want to transform your sex life in 12 weeks and want to be the first to know about the program click on the link  sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist

Are you ready to throw in the towel and resign yourself to a life of bad sex, celibacy, or growing old where the only bedroom excitement is when you drop your dentures into the Polident on your bedside table?

Sometimes you may think that you can't.

Sometimes you need to hear it a different way.

This is the episode for you.

There's nothing horribly wrong with the fact that you haven't figured out how to have a great sex life right now. Sex is one of the most loaded topics out there.

But when you take on your sex life and transform that it causes a ripple effect in the rest of your life.  You become more confident, you are able to easily have difficult conversations, you develop a deep love and appreciation for who you are.

Join the Sex Life Unleashed Academy waitlist 👉 sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist

What's not working in your sex life?  Do you know why?

I know it seems like it sometimes but you're not the only one who has challenges when it comes to sex.

I took inventory of all the women I worked with over the past year and in this episode, I am sharing them with you.

If you are struggling with your sex life, it's ok.  It is part of being human. Which ones do you relate to the most? 

If you want to create a great sex life this year the waitlist is open for the sex life unleashed academy. 

In this 12 week online course, you will go from feeling stuck and frustrated with your sex life to feeling confident and empowered as you learn how to move past the past, find your voice and design, discover and create the sex life of your dreams.

You can get on the waitlist by visiting sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist

Are the holidays sexy?  Do you have that special someone... or two... or that new person?

Or are the holidays full of family, food, stress, busyness, travel and you can't find the time to feel sexy let alone have sex.

Well never fear in this week's episode I am going to share my top advice on how to maximize time for yourself and optimize that sexual connection time.

So grab a glass of eggnog, a gingerbread cookie, and settle all in for a fun episode!

I have also created a Happy Holiday Humping Guide. You can download it at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/holidays.

Happy Holidays!

NEWS FLASH! None of your partner's body parts vibrate 200 times a second... And that's OK!

If you've ever heard "you have the real thing right here, why do you need that 'thing'"? Or you've been shamed because you have pleasure products.  Never fear this week's episode will solve all your problems (or at least point you in the right direction).

This week we cover what to do if your partner has sex toy tantrums, the conversations to have, the options to explore, and what to do if you're at a stalemate.  And I'll also cover the myth around desensitizing your clit and what you can do to resensitize that oh-so-important part.

Enjoy, leave a review and share with someone who needs to hear this! 

*For ease of explanations in this episode I use heteronormative language as that has been my overwhelming clinical experience.  I invite you to map over your specific relationship(s) to get the most out of this episode.

There are thousands of pleasure products to choose from and that can get a little overwhelming.  If you're buying for the first time or looking to upgrade your current collections.

In this week's episode, I share the questions to think about to ensure you get the right fit for you.

And then I dive into the lovely world of lube and review the three main categories so you know which slippery stuff is best.

The holidays are coming and pleasure products are truly the gift that keeps on giving.  So treat yourself or someone you love.

You can grab the Pleasure Product cheatsheet here - sexlifeunleashed.com/toys

See you next week!

Have you ever faked an orgasm? More than a few?  Maybe you're hitting double digits? And maybe, just maybe you've pretended to enjoy a position that you hated because you thought that it would look hot or you thought your partner liked it? Or maybe you get anxious thinking about having sex?

Chances are you're stuck in the performative sex trap... And it's ok many people just like you are AND that's why I recorded this episode to help you break free!

In this episode, I will share what performative sex is, some scenarios you may find yourself in, the key indicators that you do have performative sex, and what you can do to break out of that trap.

I have also created a Cheatsheet for you that captures the Sex Matrix exercise. You can download it at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/matrix.

This episode is for you if you want more pleasure and to put a stop to performing.

Transforming your sex life is a journey... I'm sharing my journey over the last 2 years of working with clients and evolving as a sexologist.

And sharing the journey I can take you on over the next few months to transform your sex life.

If you're interested in becoming a Founding Member click here to learn more: www.sexlifeunleashed.com/foundingmember

What I do know is it will be 12 weeks, starting Feb 1st.  

• weekly live classes/assignments
• weekly live coaching 
• monthly events 
• one on one coaching (exclusive for founding members only) 

All with the support of the community, in a safe and confidential space.

Would you like to uplevel your sex convos? Become masterful at communicating your needs, wants and desires?  Don't we all.

In this week's episode, I share the most popular communication technique that I have shared speaking across North America and on national TV.  And it continues to be one of my most requested communication strategies.

I also cover how and why it is necessary to carve out time to talk about your sex life with your partner(s)... and then a fun way of communicating your fantasies.


I have also created a Sex Communication Cheatsheet for you that captures all the topics we covered. You can download it at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/lita

This episode is for you if you want to empower yourself with simple, straightforward ways to share what you REALLY want your partner to hear and understand.

Do you get tongue-tied when it comes to talking about sex? Have you avoided awkward sex convos?  Do you shut down when hearing anything less than YOU'RE A SEX GODDESS or YOU'RE A SEX GOD?

Out of all the weird, wild, wonderful things that we can do with our mouths when it comes to sex talking about it is the most powerful! But we suck at it.

In this week's episode, we cover why we struggle so much with talking about sex, the different timing of conversations, paralinguistics (fancy word right ;).

I introduce the concept of self consent and the secret "Three Things Questions" that can take your sex life to the next level and lots more.

I have also created a Sex Communication Guide for you that captures all the topics we covered. You can download it at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/communication1

If you're avoiding or have avoided talking to a sex partner (I think we all have) this is the episode for you.