If you’re a woman in a relationship with a man… this episode is a MUST listen.  

We often hear A LOT about how men should love and treat women, but what about the other way around? 

How can we as women really love up on our men? 

Not in the way we want to be loved. But truly honour & understand how they desire to be loved. 

In this episode, we will explore the art of loving a man and offer some practical tips and insights for women who want to deepen their connection with their man. 

We dive into…

• A man’s desire to serve something greater than himself
• Having patience for the emotional process
• Redefining vulnerability and courage for men
• The overarching narrative of “boys don’t cry” in our culture
• Bringing awareness to tension in the body through physical touch
• Your man is not a hairy woman
• Offering your love to a man through non sexual touch
• Creating a sense of nourishment and safety
• Offering respect
• Creating experiences for your man to honour you and show you his gifts
• Celebrating your man for the things that he already does
• Being playful in service of love
• Why we used to do “single saturdays”
• Giving space to your man
• And so much more

LINKS:

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Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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The feminine comes alive when she gives herself fully to whatever wants to move through her whether that’s deep sensitivity, tenderness, grief or any other feeling.

There is an art to loving a woman and providing her with the safe, emotional space that she needs to open her heart and fully be in the moment.

This is for anyone who has been, is or will be in a relationship with a woman or as a woman.

We dive into…

• The different operating systems of men and women
• Providing information to your man
• The heart as the doorway to a woman’s p*ssy
• Emotionally holding space for a woman
• Bein willing, as women to open your heart and speak into the relationship
• Why f*cking with closed hearts is a no for our relationship
• Owning your needs and desires
• Staying attuned to whether your woman’s heart is there
• The responsibility of a man in a relationship
• The goal of orgasm inhibiting a man’s ability to inhabit his body
• Meeting your partner in the experience
• Honouring your woman’s emotional range
• How to stay with an love a woman in her emotions
• Releasing distractions and offering a depth of presence
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill

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It’s time for another juicy Q & A session.

Here’s a taste of the questions that we dive into in this episode:

• “How often do you guys have sex each week? And is it something that ebbs and flows?”
  • We are all about quality over quantity
  • The amount of sex and when we have it is something that changes as Meg’s cycles and our lives change too
• “How do you make space for sex?”
  • For us this is more about making space for deep moments of intimacy and quality time
• “How do you have anal sex?”
  • This answer is a brief one, but lube!

We also chat about:

• Having technology free nights
• Speaking your fears around trying new things
• Factors that influence sex in a relationship, especially over time
• Cock worship and BJ’s
• Honouring the energy before having sex
• Making space for sexual polarity
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

Often in relationships we withhold or lean back in moments of tension and when we feel disconnected and wait until the storm passes. And this becomes a cycle that leads to resentment or a neutral relationship.

If you want a long term relationship that reaches the depths of intimacy and cracks your heart open this is for you.

Join us for this juicy conversation and a little story from us about leaning back into your partner and into your relationship in moments of tension.

We dive into…

• Consciously building a relationship with discomfort
• Why rites of passage and initiations are important in modern day culture
• Jacob’s relationship with authority
• Expectations around sex
• Being present and attuning to the truth of the moment
• Expressing how you feel in the moment
• Why we teach that someone doesn’t have to be right and someone wrong in tension
• Releasing the part of you that wants to be right
• Seeing your partner as a teammate
• Jacob’s journey to communicating in the moment or shortly after
• Feeling conflicted emotions simultaneously
• What to do when you lean in and your partner leans back
• Staying with your heart open even when it hurts
• Finding your edge
• A practice to break the cycle of leaning back
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

This is for the woman who aches for her man to ‘be more Masculine’.
 
For the woman who so deeply desires to feel her man as an unshakably trustworthy force in their relationship & the world. 

When we met, and in the early stages of our relationship, Jacob was the nice guy, which on the surface level often seems like a great thing, but since then, as our relationship evolved and grew we’ve been on a journey away from Jacob being the nice guy, and that’s what we’re sharing today.

We dive into…

• A woman’s role in emasculation
• The dynamics of our early relationship
• Meg the puppeteer
• How Jacob being the nice guy made him willing to go against his internal compass
• The archetype of a nice guy
• The belief that a woman knows better
• Meg’s discovery that she wanted a man who she could push and he wouldn’t fall over
• Finding “no” sexy
• Moving beyond the surface level of what you want in a partner
• Wanting your man to lead
• Jacob standing his ground and following his calling
• How Meg allows space for Jacob to be a man that leads
• Following through and trust in yourself
• Honouring all parts of yourself at once
• And much, much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

There is a BIG difference between ‘good sex’ & sex that cracks your fucking heart wide open. One is simply about the body and the genitals. The other requires SO MUCH MORE. And today we talk ALL about it. 

Join us for a very deep & juicy conversation.

We riff on… 

• Meg’s recent ‘dark night of the Soul’
• Big shifts in Meg’s business/ brand 
• Being devoted to the truth of the moment 
• How to have sex that ‘cracks your heart open’ 
• The importance of letting your heart arrive during sex 
• The #1 practice for women who desire mind-blowing pleasure 
• Staying in the darkness to find liberation
• Allowing space for partners self-pleasure
• The stigma around sharing your emotions as a man
• Releasing the end goal of sex
• Why women often struggle to orgasm
• The sex that is possible when a man brings safety to the relationship
• Carnal desire and animalistic sex
• Being devoted to being honest and releasing resentment in yourself and relationship
• The importance of accessing vulnerability
• And much much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

Join us for this beautiful, juicy and full conversation as we begin unpacking so much around desire.

This conversation starts with the question “Have either of you ever desired another man or woman whilst in the relationship?”

The short answer is yes.

There is so much around desire that needs to be unpacked that can allow you to bring yourself more fully into your relationships and ultimately choose each other in a deeper way without becoming a running commentary of everything you desire.

We dive into…

• Acknowledging that desire happens in monogamous relationships
• Bringing desire for someone else into your relationship 
• Creating distorted channels to have needs met
• Meg feeling safe to speak about her desire towards someone else
• Choosing each other in a deeper way
• Our different experiences with contact dance
• Navigating jealousy with an open heart
• Beginning conversations so your partner feels seen
• And so much more! 

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

Join us for a sexy conversation about the first time Meg did a strip tease for Jacob. HINT: It was kinda awkward.

We dive into…

• An edge of our relationship that Meg is NOT keen to lean into
• Where Jacob’s desire for privacy and space comes from
• The first time Meg stripped for Jacob
• Feeling awkward as a rite of passage on the way to becoming a fully expressed human
• Vulnerability being different for each person
• Stretching into the edges of your relationship
• Getting clear on what you REALLY want
• Jacob’s resentment
• The gift of Jacob being direct and Meg softening
• Attuning to the desires of your partner
• And so much more

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

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From porn & masturbation to trying to have sex in Jacob’s childhood home & our relationship to self pleasure… this is one juiiiiiicy conversation. 

Meg & Jacob take you on a behind the scenes look into their own journey of exploring their bodies & pleasure as teens to what ‘touching themselves’ looks like these days.

We cover:

• Jacob’s childhood bathroom
• How our journey with porn and masturbation has changed
• Conscious prom consumption 
• Understanding sexual energy and how to use it
• Our commitment to quantity over quality
• How we cultivate the hunger for sexual exploration
• Meeting shame on the journey to becoming a SEXUALLY ALIVE HUMAN 
• And so much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

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If you desire a relationship where ALL OF YOU is seen & celebrated… you must BRING ALL OF YOU. 

Yes. This is true. Very true. 

AND… 

This is not a permission slip to ‘vomit’ your projections all over your lover. 

This is about learning to bring ALL OF YOU with an open heart. 

In this episode we explore:

• How bringing “all of you” can play out in relationships in an unhealthy way
• What the healthy expression of bringing “all of you” looks like
• How this can bring deeper intimacy and connection
• Embracing the messier and darker sides of being a full spectrum woman
• Where anger and rage can detract from connection
• Why you can’t force your partner to celebrate all of you
• How Meg welcomes all emotions and moves with them
• And so much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

ONE WEEK LEFT TO APPLY: Get all the juicy details and join Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here.