From porn & masturbation to trying to have sex in Jacob’s childhood home & our relationship to self pleasure… this is one juiiiiiicy conversation. 

Meg & Jacob take you on a behind the scenes look into their own journey of exploring their bodies & pleasure as teens to what ‘touching themselves’ looks like these days.

We cover:

• Jacob’s childhood bathroom
• How our journey with porn and masturbation has changed
• Conscious prom consumption 
• Understanding sexual energy and how to use it
• Our commitment to quantity over quality
• How we cultivate the hunger for sexual exploration
• Meeting shame on the journey to becoming a SEXUALLY ALIVE HUMAN 
• And so much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

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If you desire a relationship where ALL OF YOU is seen & celebrated… you must BRING ALL OF YOU. 

Yes. This is true. Very true. 

AND… 

This is not a permission slip to ‘vomit’ your projections all over your lover. 

This is about learning to bring ALL OF YOU with an open heart. 

In this episode we explore:

• How bringing “all of you” can play out in relationships in an unhealthy way
• What the healthy expression of bringing “all of you” looks like
• How this can bring deeper intimacy and connection
• Embracing the messier and darker sides of being a full spectrum woman
• Where anger and rage can detract from connection
• Why you can’t force your partner to celebrate all of you
• How Meg welcomes all emotions and moves with them
• And so much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

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Our trip to a sex dungeon

Join us as we sip wine & tell the story of how Meg surprised Jacob with a trip to a sex dungeon at 10am on a Thursday. 

Note: This episode is intense. NSFW and definitely not suitable for little ears. You’ve been warned ;) 

Get ready for a play by play of Jacob's experience being dominated + all that arose for him along the way.
We explore…

• Creating safety in spontaneity
• Bringing your sexual energy out in the daytime
• How to hold space for your partner to surrender and lose control
• Confronting your fears and edges
• Managing expectations in the bedroom
• Communication and trust as the pathway to epic sexual experiences
• Getting out of your head and releasing judgement of yourself
• The dark masculine & dark feminine energies
• Moving through shame
• And so much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

Here's the truth... Tension is unavoidable in a relationship. When you're living & building a life with someone... of course there are going to be moments of hurt, disagreement, discomfort, stickiness. 

This episode is devoted to learning how to lean into those moments of conflict & use them as a portal to DEEPER CONNECTION.

And as always we share the real, raw, honest behind the scenes of conflict & tension in our relationship. 

We explore... 

• The inconvenient times Meg likes to 'process' tension
• Meg's NEED for physical comfort 
• Embracing and owning your “too muchness” as a woman
• Being Jacob & Meg as individuals in a deep relationship
• Seeing your partner as an important part in your evolution
• Jacob growing up feeling responsible for other people’s feelings
• Meeting your own shadows and taking ownership of your feelings
• Coming together as a team on the other side of conflict
• Why we practice “Can I have another go of that?”
• And much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

It’s time for another Q+A episode. You’ve submitted a bunch of saucy questions. And we spend time answering them. 

Here’s some of what goes down in this episode: 

• “Feels on having children?” 
  • Jacob’s VERY enthusiastic about this one!!!! 
  • Our deeper WHY around desiring children    
• “Have you guys discussed what your days would look like when you become parents?” 
  • Our deep devotion to creating a family and being together and present as parents
  • Meeting the changes to our relationship and sex life when we get there
• “Do you feel pressure to keep up appearances in being seen as having an amazing relationship because of what you guys have built?”
  • Jacob’s feelings of shame around abandoning himself
  • Our work on becoming more resilient in our relationship
  • Why we’re so unfiltered with our relationship
• “How did you guys get to know each other?”
  • The lighthearted and playfulness at the beginning of a journey
  • Meg’s enthusiasm and hand shaking
  • Where our lives were at when we met each other
• And much more!

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill And DM us with questions for our future Q+A episodes. 

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“If I hear another man in the online space telling a woman to ‘just surrender’… I’m going to lose it.” - Meg

Buckle up, my friends. Meg gets REALLLLLL, REALLLLLL fired up in this one. 🔥🔥🔥

Join us for a BIG conversation around… 

• The harm dogmatic ‘sexual polarity’ teachings can have on women 
• The Feminine is NOT just about ‘surrender’ 
• Weaponising the ‘Masculine’ & ‘Feminine’
• The importance of attunement & embodiment 
• The ‘uninitiated’ man 
• Porn + Masculinity 
• The importance of men’s work 
• It is NOT just the Masculine that leads in relationship 
• And much more. 

LINKS:

The Unfuckwithable Feminine

The Gathering of Men

"I didn't like my engagement ring." - Our imperfect engagement story 

Okay, friends. This is a vulnerable one. 

We got engaged back in December 2021. It was beautiful & magical. And VERY IMPERFECT.

Meg DID NOT like her engagement ring. And for the first time, we share the full story of how it all unfolded. And why it brought us even closer together.


LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men  here. 

Welcome to our first Q+A episode. You’ve submitted a bunch of saucy questions. And we spend time answering them. 

Here’s some of what goes down in this episode: 

• “Tips for keeping a long term relationship fresh & fertile.”
  • Our realisation of spending too much time together 
  • Deciding not to talk to each other one day a week 
  • The Feminine urge to spend every single moment with her partner 
• “Butt stuff. Yay or nay?” 
  • Why Meg loves anal sex
  • The shame + tabooness of exploring butt stuff as a hetero man
• “What makes you feel most sexy?” 
  
  
• “How to communicate what you want when dating without being OTT?” 
  • The fear of being too much while dating/ in a relationship. 
  • Holding your standards whilst dating 
  • Cultivating deep trust in Life while ‘finding’ your person 
• “What is cock worship?” 
  • Falling in love with blow jobs 
  • Tit-for-tat energy in sex   
• “Do you go through slow periods with sex? So many ppl in the polarity space seem like sexy, happy rabbits ALL THE TIME?”  
  • Quality vs. Quantity of sex    
  • Feeling the pressure to have lots of sex 
• And much more. 

“We expect one person to give us what once an entire village used to provide, and we live twice as long.” - Esther Perel
 

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

And DM us with questions for our future Q+A episodes. 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.

Let’s talk about sex.

We’ve been together over 8 years now and our sex life has expanded & evolved A LOT during this time. We spend this episode diving into the many, many ways our sex life has changed (for the better!) & how we meet the ‘practice of sex’ differently these days.  

We talk about…. 

• The first time we had sex
• Sex as a performative action for women vs for pleasure
• Expanding our definition of sex
• Male-centric sex + pleasure 
• Porn
• How a linear view of sex can leave women feeling broken
• Female arousal
• The emotional experience of sex
• Jacob’s learning around holding space for Meg’s emotions and heart
• Moving from having sex for pleasure to having sex for intimacy
• The importance of a self-pleasure practice
• Sex born from expectations and pressure
• Meeting your partner in an intimate moment
• Confusing neediness with desire
• And much, much more

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.

This is for the woman who has ever thought… 

"I just want a man to melt into. "

“Where are all the conscious men.” 


If you’ve felt frustrated etc. 

This conversation is for you. 

We talk about….
+ The importance of feeling connected before we have sex 

+ The desire to be deeply met by a man 

+ Becoming a woman willing to be held 

+ Relationships as an initiation 

+ Typical husband-wife dynamic in pop culture - we’ve been conditioned to ‘nag’ 

+ Emasculation NEVER works 

+ Jacob’s history of being a YES man

+ Offering our partner grace while he learns to ‘hold us’ 

+ The ‘dark side’ of polarity 

+  How we nearly broke up 6 months into our relationship

+ Vulnerability as the portal to deeper partnership 

+ And much, much more 

LINKS:

Come say hi on Instagram - Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill 

Join the Full Spectrum Woman Mentorship waitlist here.

Buy a ticket to The Gathering of Men here.