Sex Positive Me Presents Date Nite with The Lunas

2019 has been a roller coaster year for us. We started on the mend when Angelique has neck surgery. However, we ended the year with a blast, with FIRE, Sex Down South, Florida Power Exchange and presenting 2 workshops on a Bliss Cruise. John started hormone therapy and spent some time in South Florida for Pig Week.

For next year we're rebranding to "Sex Positive Me", but don't worry, we're still going bring you interviews from the swinger, fetish, BDSM and sex-positive worlds. We already planned out an entire year of workshops and presentations and hope to see you there.

We adventured to Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa to teach our "Navigating Bisexuality” workshop during their LGBT Tuesday theme night. Sponsored by Fairvilla

We chatted we attendees post-class to find out what their thoughts are on bisexuality and how we can create an inclusive environment for all bisexuals!

We discussed the gap between women and men. As women in the swinger world, they are expected to be bisexual and men are not supposed to be. Which makes exploration challenging for men. That is why we stress the importance of communication, negotiation, and consent before any playtime can take place.


Curious about Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa / Club Secret?

Here is some information:

LGBT Night EVERY TUESDAY. Join us and enjoy this electrically charged night This night will be filled with erotic music, dancing, and fabulous friends! Enjoy drink specials in our huge night club, or take a dip in one of our two clothing-optional pools & meet new friends in one of our indulgent hot tubs.

Prepare for your night with our complimentary dinner buffet and Happy Hour from 6 pm-9 pm, and two pool-side bars. While you're here, grab a few new accessories at our on-site boutique, Fairavilla’s Sexy Things. We offer multiple indoor playrooms where you can put on a show, meet new couples, visit our dungeon, and create your wildest fantasy! Any way you look at it, Secrets Hideaway is your getaway from the workday blues.

FEATURES:
* Clothing Optional Private Membership Resort
* Complimentary Dinner Buffet beginning at 6 pm
* Complimentary omelets served after 11 pm
* Professional DJ
* 8000 sq ft of Playrooms
* 5 Stripper Poles
* Playroom open until 4 am on Friday and Saturday
* 2 - 12 person Hot Tubs
* 65 ft. Heated Conversation Pool
* 55,000 gals clothing optional pool
* 2 Outdoor Tiki Bars
All this and so much more….Come see all we have to offer.

Secrets Hideaway
Remember, What happens at Secrets Always Stays a Secret!
https://www.secretsfl.com/
https://www.facebook.com/SecretsHideaway/
https://twitter.com/SecretsHideaway

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While at Florida Power Exchange 2019 we interviewed Master Oakman and Slave Diamond. This power couple talked about starting in the lifestyle, their collaring, the brandings, being a pony and the dungeon they run called the “The Space”. Things truly got real when they opened up about having major surgery and how it affected their master / slave relationship. These presenters, educators and international competition winners were a wealth of knowledge and gave a fantastic interview.

FETLIFE: Master Oakman https://fetlife.com/users/29010
Slave Diamond https://fetlife.com/users/18291
South Florida Community10 https://fetlife.com/groups/111215

Master Oakman’s Bio:
Master Oakman, a Leatherman and Educator, has been in the Lifestyle since 1992. He collared (2001) and branded His adoring slave diamond in December of 2002 and they have been together ever since living a 24/7, M/s, BDSM Lifestyle. slave diamond has been in the Lifestyle since 2001. Master Oakman and slave diamond are past Presidents of S.P.I.C.E. Master Oakman in 2004 & slave diamond in 2007. Past Presenters at Community Link, Y Not, The Florida Bash 2006 & “2007” (where He re-branded slave diamond) & 2011 - 2013, Florida Power Exchange 2015. They have also presented at Beyond Leather 2008 - 2015. They have educated many with their classes on Branding, Florentine Flogging; Whip play/Cracking, Knife Play, Scene Dynamics, Pony play as well as a Communication class for relationships in the Lifestyle. They competed in the 2011 Intl Pony Play Championships at Beyond Leather and won Reserve Grand Champion and Sexiest ponygirl. They competed in 2012 International Pony Play Championships and won Intl Grand Champion and Best Horsemanship! Master Oakman and slave diamond now Co-Direct the International Pony Play Championships held at Beyond Leather. Together they founded Sf.Community10, A BDSM Club in South Florida formed in 2010 as well as South Florida Pony Corral and Whips in Oakland Park groups. They host Groups at SFC10 such as the Beyond Leather play parties, Women of Leather Florida, The South Florida Littles, The South Florida Bondage Club, The South Florida Rope Group, The Critter Ark and the Fetish Foto Club of South Florida.

E87: Power Exchange 2019

How has power exchange changed your play, your relationships and your life? This is the question we asked in a roundtable format at Florida Power Exchange 2019. Several of us in the kink community have grown up knowing we were different. We lived knowing something was missing but wasn't sure what. We were unable to be our authentic selves. For many, power change has give structure to our lives and a freedom we can no longer live without.

Florida Power Exchange
WEBSITE: https://www.floridapowerexchange.com/
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/floridapowerexchange/
TWITTER: https://twitter.com/FlPowerExchange
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/events/270741743844119/
FETLIFE: https://fetlife.com/groups/74342

We had a fun wine filled interview with Mr B, author of "Every Woman Wants 4 Men, Every Man Wants 2 Women" and his wife, Mrs B. No, this book isn’t about group sex but instead discusses several tools and techniques to move anyone to the path for a lasting, fulfilling relationship. He revealed something we all should have, a relationship plan. We discussed the 4 men and 2 women and how they are the roles we all want and need in our lives. Mr B also revealed the backstory and inspiration for writing this book and gives us a preview of his next book. Weather you're single, dating, engaged, married, or in a same sex relationship, this book has something for you. We were even able to relate these stories to a rough time in our relationship when we lost each other as best friends.

Mr B
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorMisterB/
AMAZON: https://amzn.to/2phkpqO

Amberly Rothfield is a author, presenter, business & talent coach and a veteran phone sex operator. Now she is our first 3 timer guest.
She has authored 2 books, “How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator” and “Financial Domination: Tales of an Online Mistress”. During this interview, our discussion took several unexpected tangents from fearing Alexa, to the follies of publishing on Amazon, to her encounters with Coolio. Yes the rapper Coolio. Join us as she talked about her adventures at Exxxotica, XBIZ and AVN.

Amberly Rothfield
Site: https://amberlyrothfield.com/
Twitter: @AmberlyPSO
Facebook: amberlyrothfield
Instagram: amberlyownsyou
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Amberly-Rothfield/e/B07D1VDJNS%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

Nü Sensuelle are fairly new to the adult toy scene and they are not old school. Not only do their products contain the most powerful motors on the market, they added a turbo button! Combined with a new and innovative design, we had a blast trying out these products. Especially the tongue feature! However, beyond the products, we actually found a small, family run business. Listen in as we chatted with Kristin, Nü Sensuelle's International Brand Ambassador.

Nu Sensual
WEBSITE: https://www.nusensuelle.com/
INSTAGRAM: @nusensuelle
TWITTER: @NuSensuelle

In this episode we traveled west to Louisiana for NAUGHTY IN N'AWLINS, a 2600 attendee, 2+ hotel lifestyle convention. Among the parties, parades, playrooms and dungeons we were able to get to time with Reverend Jamal, who is not just an ordained Baptist minister but host of the The 2nd Cuming Show. So why is a Reverend at a swinger convention? Listen in as we discussed our spiritual sexuality.

In this episode we talk with Dr. Lea Lis about her new upcoming book "The Shameless Psychiatrist’s Guide to Parenting”
We discuss her years of therapy and why she believes this book is needed. We agree after hearing some of the stories from the book.

People issues with sexual desires. Not able to comfortably talk to children about sex without shame. How to deal with the conversation about masturbation and alternative lifestyles to other family members. That is always an interesting holiday conversation to have. Oh boy!


WEBSITE: www.drlealis.com
INSTAGRAM: @shamelesspsychiatrist
TWITTER: @shamelesspsych
FACEBOOK: @drlealis

Part 2: As we approach the 7th year of Florida Power Exchange, you may ask yourself how did this event come together? How has it evolved over the years? Why do the organizers and staff sacrifice their time, effort and ocasionally sanity to put it all together. Well wonder no more cause we gathered the owners and several members of the staff together to discuss the "behind the scenes” antics that go on that you rarly hear about. From the safety socks and energy drinks to snow machines and wack a sub, we heard the stories you won’t hear on the conference floor.

Also remember, Florida Power Exchange 2019: The Fabric of Us! in held on September 19-22.
Get your tickets before they sell out.

For more information about Florida Power Exchange you can find it at
https://fetlife.com/groups/74342
https://twitter.com/FlPowerExchange
https://www.facebook.com/FlPowerEx/
http://www.floridapowerexchange.com/