Sex Positive Me Presents Date Nite with The Lunas

We have the honor to chat with Jess O’Reilly & Marla Renee Stewart about their new book “The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay” We discuss the reason for writing the book as well as the juicy contents in the book. Not only you learn how to seduce your partner sexually, but you will also learn that some of the information can be applied in a non-sexual way.

The book is written for anyone in any type of relationship. Solo, partner, vanilla, or kinky. There is something for everyone in the book. It can be an erotic book as some of the examples and stories really can get your juices flowing.

We love the fact that there are homework assignments, tips and questions to ask your partner. Making you think outside of the box of seduction and foreplay. It is not always about being Nekkid and going straight to sex. There is no right or wrong way to define sex for you. Everyone has a different definition of it. Just need to clearly discuss it with your partner and what their definitions mean.

Enjoy the laughs, the science, and the discussion about Seduction & Foreplay!

Wine and music was the topic of this interview with Nashville-based singer-songwriter, performing artist, and wine enthusiast Arianna Lyrist. How does this relate to sex positivity you may ask. Well we believe sex is an experience of the body and mind and what better way to bring them into alignment then with wine and music.

Arianna is a Nashville-based singer-songwriter and performing artist, wine enthusiast and currently working toward her Wine, Spirit, Education Trust Level 3 certification. She is the host of treble & Vine, a podcast dedicated to the people influencing the music and wine community.

Site: http://trebleandvine.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/pages/category/Community/Trebleandvine-2173892182831350/

Make me Cum! No, that’s not a request but it is the title of the book we just read. “Make Me Come: The Hard Truth About Mutual Satisfaction” wrtten by a married couple, Mickey and Emma-Jean Kapko. "Make Me Come" is your in-depth guide to learning mutually orgasmic sex and increasing intimacy with your partner. By discussion of communication, masturbation, foreplay, orgasm technique, sex positions, and much more, "Make Me Come" will give you the tools needed to find the mind-blowing sex you've been searching for.


Mickey and Emma-Jean Kapko have been married since June of 2014, having known each other since 2011. Emma-Jean has been working as a licensed practical counselor since 2015, after obtaining her master’s degree from Cornell University, where she also studied psychology as an undergraduate. Mickey is entering his final year of a biochemistry Ph.D. program at Cornell University, where he studied chemistry at the undergraduate level. They have no children, but they do have two shi-tzus names Rocky and Binky. They currently reside in Ithaca, New York. In their free time, they enjoy exploratory sex and jigsaw puzzles, in addition to playing with Rocky and Binky. Mickey and Emma-Jean have taken their unique sexual experiences and the challenges they have faced and overcome within their marriage and created this literary piece to help other couples in similar situations.

Site: bit.ly/makemecome

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/make_me_come_book/

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Make-Me-Come-Mutual-Satisfaction/dp/B086L2RK5Z/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1586041620&sr=1-1

Unlearning Sex is a feature documentary film that follows Zanah's six month journey through sexual trauma therapy and healing. In addition to audio clips from therapy, this film features interviews from trauma therapists, sex educators, and activists. Zanah's goal with this film is for people to learn about sexual assault, trauma, and sex education, while watching someone heal in real time. In our conversation with Zanah she opened up about the making of this film and how it changed her life.

Unlearnign Sex Trailer: https://www.zanahthirus.com/unlearningsexdoc

Zanah Thirus, MS
Producer + Director
Zanah Thirus Productions, LLC
W: www.zanahthirus.com
E: [email protected]

Zanah is an actress, producer, writer, and director from Chicago IL. After being homeschooled until she was fifteen years old, she began her college career. Her love for filmmaking sparked after years of acting in a drama team, and various independent films. She received her master’s degree in cinema production from DePaul University at the age of twenty two, and began her career in independent filmmaking and content production in 2015.
In 2016, Zanah won Best Female Director for her short film “Hourglass” at the Cineplay Film Awards. Her festival credits as a filmmaker include Official Selection - Chhatrapati Shivaji International Film Festival (2016), Best Student Documentary - London Independent Film Awards (2017), Semi Finalist at The German United Film Festival (2018), and Finalist at Cinema Los Angeles Film Festival (2018). In addition to her international credits, five of her films are streaming on Amazon Prime Video.
Since launching her brand, Zanah Thirus Productions LLC, Zanah has shifted her focus to merging arts and activism though documentary and narrative storytelling. Her films surround subjects such as gender, race, politics, and mental health. In 2019, her feature documentary- Black Feminist - was an official selection at the Bronze Lens Festival of Atlanta. That same year- her short film, Demons, was also nominated for Best Short Film at the Content Creators of Atlanta Awards. Shortly after her most decorated year, Zanah was named one of Diversity in Cannes Top 10 Filmmakers of the Decade.

Stuck inside? Under a "stay at home" order or quarantine. So are we! Want some ideas on how to spend your time? We have a few and it's much more fun than anything you can binge-watch.

Well, we’re confined to our homes. Schools are closed. Bars & Restaurants are only open for take out. Social distancing has quickly become a requirement and yet we all still have needs. Let’s try to stay safe during this fearful time but remember not to forget about our sexual and mental health. A lack of touch and intimacy can lead to anxiety and depression. Listen for a little advice we have for staying sane and sexy in this new norm.

Educating, destigmatizing, & advocating for the responsible use of cannabis. That's become the mission of one South Florida chef name Angie, better known as The Green Baker. After witnessing, first hand the medicinal qualities of CBD and the changes it’s made in her special needs child, she’s expanding her 20 year culinary career to include this misunderstood plant. She is also the cohost of Ganja Beach Radio. But how is this sex positive, you may be thinking? Listen in as she shared her experiences joining CBD, intimacy, sex and even BDSM together in her polyamorous relationships.

The Green Baker - Angie
The Green Baker LLC
Instagram: The.Green.Baker
FB: The Green Baker LLC

Ganja Beach Radio
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Facebook: ganjabeachradio
Twitter: ganjabeachradio

Valentine's Day is an event usually filled with heart-shaped gifts, chocolate candies, and thoughts of love, at least for most people. But what if your view is a little different. What if you believed acts of love should be an everyday occurrence and not once a year obligation? Or perhaps you think in the 21st century, Valentine's Day should be planned by all parties instead of being a male’s chivalrous responsibility. How do you handle this holiday if you're in an alternative relationship and more than 2 parties are involved? These were the subjects in this special Valentine's Day episode of Sex Positive Me.

We discuss our latest adventures from skin discrimination and being ghosted to talking about really bad dating adventures from the past. The stories we have are unreal but they really did happen to us. We are just happy that we have our podcast so we can tell you.

We did not think that the skincare industry discriminated against men for taking care of the skin, which shocked both of us. The treatment we received was equivalent to a woman car shopping with a man and the salesperson only paying attention to the man. Shocking I know!

We talk about our dating rules and why it is important to have them both as a single person or a couple. Rules exist to protect boundaries and ensure that everyone knows what the expectation is on a date. The fact that people do not respect our rules and then ghost us is despicable.

Ghosting : the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.

Of course, some ranting of what is going on with our lives and adventures.

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We met with Eleanor O’Brien before her show at the Orlando Winter Mini Fringe. Her show is "How To Really, Really? REALLY! Love A Woman” to talk about her inspiration for the show, her background and the sex positive community in Portland OR.

Totally hilarious about the truth of the lack acceptance of pleasure. How we do not give ourselves permission to have sexual pleasure. She is definitely starting a revolution! Best part if you are not able to see her show at the Orlando Winter Fringe, you can join her Patreon page to watch the show.

Show Description
From the ancient goddess cults to the Vagina monologues, humanity has long sought how to honor the portal of life. Dance Naked artistic director Eleanor O'Brien (GGG: Dominatrix for Dummies, Lust & Marriage) gives us a hilarious (and informative!) how-to on what makes the pussy purrrrrrr......

Eleanor O’Brien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Productions, a Portland, OR based company known for provocative, sex-positive theater. She premiered her first solo show GGG: Dominatrix for Dummies, (Quite remarkable bit of theatre...it’s a captivating, wholly uplifting experience ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐- Edmonton Sun), in 2005, which proved to be a smash hit on the fringe circuit. She toured the fringe in 2009 with her ensemble production Inviting Desire, (If you're looking for the sexiest show at the Fringe, this may well be it - CBC), and returned in 2015 with the solo show Lust & Marriage (It is just so damn refreshing to see a sex show with its big girl pants on. See this show! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐- CBC). She is the curator of the Come Inside Festival of Sex & Culture, and runs the monthly event Stand Up Smut.

Eleanor O’Brien
Website: https://www.dancenakedproductions.com/how-to-reallyx3-love-a-woman
Patreon (where you can stream a video of her show): https://www.patreon.com/DanceNaked

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