Sex Positive Me Presents Date Nite with The Lunas

A Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra Practitioner, and International Pleasure Coach and self-professed "Kinky Bitch"! That's how our guest described herself and we touched on all the bases. Tyomi has a long impressive resume but when shared her latest adventures we were on the edge of our seats. Do you want to know about the latest evolution of her "Cowgirl Workout" and how it combines exercise with sexual liberation? Listen in now!

Tyomi is a Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra Practitioner and International Pleasure Coach with 9 years of experience in the sexual health field. Her down-to-earth approach to sexuality has garnered the views of millions of eyes around the world via her advice-based Youtube channel and interactive social media presence. She is the founder of Sex Ed blog Glamerotica101.com and emphasizes sexual empowerment of black women worldwide. Tyomi's advice has been featured on several platforms and traditional media publications including Essence.com, EBONY Magazine, Blackdoctor.org, Huffington Post, Comedy Central, The New York Times, SHAPE.COM, Blacklove.com, Vogue.com, Cosmopolitan.com, Washington Post's The Lily, Clear Channel Radio, CBS Radio, Sirus XM, Playboy Radio and dozens of others. Tyomi currently serves as the Resident Sexpert and Seminar Coordinator for the Exxxotica Expo and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. 

Website: Glamerotica101.com
https://members.thecowgirlworkout.com/
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This week we decided to take one for the team! Meaning you, our audience.  HBO MAX has a documentary called 'There is no "I" in threesome' and holy train wreck. Everything that we teach, preach and talk about Ethical Non-Monogamy as things NOT to do, is in this documentary. We honestly thought it was a mockumentary based on how the story was going. 

That is why the title is  "Just saved you 88 minutes". We wanted to save you from the horror of the movie. The ending twist was worst than the Sixth Sense. But if you are truly interested to see people make immature, obvious, and stereotypical mistakes attempting an open relationship, feel free to watch it.

Just know we are here for you and holding space. We are available for coaching session in case you are in need of guidance.

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"There's no point in having sex if you don't enjoy it!". That's a quote from our interview with Ms. Meka Nicole and we couldn't agree more.
Meka is the creator of Sex and Sensuality® an educational burlesque show but that's just her side gig. She's also a licensed professional counselor, sex educator, author, motivational speaker, and CEO of In-to-Mate Counseling Services, LLC in Atlanta.

Sex and Sensuality® takes a fun and funky twist to traditional burlesque with hearty doses of seduction, games, and audience interaction. The show combines dance with a steamy storyline and a hint of sex ed to both entertain and open minds. Previous shows have included scenes on threesomes, BDSM, and voyeurs & exhibitionists. Listen on to how this production was created and how it's evolved over the years.

If you're in Atlanta, don't miss their next show coming up on March 20, 2021.

Ms. Meka Nicole's Bio
Ms. Meka Nicole, the creator of Sex and Sensuality® an educational burlesque show that utilizes dance, acting, seduction, audience interaction, and more to help women, men and couples confidently express their sexual desires, hails from Atlanta, GA and emerged as nationally recognized for providing dating, relationship, and intimacy counseling services to individuals, couples, and families to help them live a more fulfilled life. Founder and CEO of In-to-Mate Counseling Services, LLC, Ms. Meka Nicole, is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Sex Educator, Life Coach, Author, and Motivational Speaker specializing in trauma, infertility, maternal mental health, intimacy, LGBTQI, and grief therapy.

Ms. Meka Nicole's Social Media
Website: https://sexnsensuality.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/SexnSensuality/

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Real research on sexual stimulation! By real, we mean research under strict reproducible scientific guidelines. Not for the purpose of reproduction but for pleasure, physical health, and mental health. Our first question was "Why weren't apart of their study?". That was a part of our conversation with Nicole Prause, Ph.D. She is a sexual psychophysiologist, with specialized training in neuroscience, statistics, and addictions and has worked with the Kinsey Institute, World Health Organization, and Harvard University.

Her research was enlightening on the effects of clitoral stimulation in relation to feelings of closeness and the need to have a romantic connection. Science says you don't need a romantic connection to reap these benefits of a good orgasm. This led to our discovery that science has proven a connection between arousal and hunger. Imagine a diet where sexual arousal was a recommended remedy for dealing with hunger! You gotta love science!

She shared her personal experiences on the discrimination and persecution against the doctors and researchers who study sex. There is a real danger, professionally and physically, caused by unfounded conspiracy theories and intensional fake news. This was shocking that in the 21st century, there are still groups that believe some knowledge forbidden.

Nicole Prause's Bio
Nicole Prause, Ph.D. is a sexual psychophysiologist, with specialized training in neuroscience, statistics, and addictions. She is a consultant to the World Health Organization and a faculty member for the doctoral program at the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. She has over 80 peer-reviewed publications. Her research has focused on the general health benefits of sexual stimulation.

Nicole Prause Social Media
Website: www.LiberosCenter.com
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/NicoleRPrause
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiberosCenter

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In this episode, we interviewed Meg "the Dildo Queen". This self-described "kinky mofo" has come a long way from her internship at Disney where no sex toys or dildos were allowed. That repressive environment quickly brought her rebel side out. Since then she's been in adult sales, store management, product development, and adult modeling. I guess you could say she went from Disney to dildos. Now she's created her own line of unique products.


Meg's Bio
Meg is a jill of all sexy trades. She’s worked in porn, taught classes, ran tradeshow booths, done published toy reviews, and managed adult stores. She’s a true sex toy nerd. Her ultimate goal is to open up conversations around sexuality so people can make educated choices for their own bodies. You can join her in getting the conversation going via social media. Check her out on IG/Tiktok at @thedillyqueen and Onlyfans/pornhub @thedildoqueen. Her heart-shaped paddles and awful waffles can be found on Etsy/IG at @queenofhurtsco

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TikTok: @thedillyqueen
Etsy: @queenofhurtsco
OnlyFans/Pornhub: @thedildoqueen

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"My sister gave me a sex swing because her new boyfriend did not want it because of her old boyfriend.  From a previous business, we had a very expensive stitching machine.  Move forward a few years we manufacture several swings and slings and sell them on sexswing.com." The was the origin story from Angela Alexander, a serial entrepreneur who made the move from creating baby carriers to sex swings. 

In this interview, we discussed the many products, positions, and stories she shared from her years in the business. We also had the pleasure of testing out the "Screamer" with a few additional accessories.

Angela Alexander's Bio
Angela Alexander is a serial entrepreneur with a passion for travel and shock n awe. It’s only fitting she found herself in the sex toy industry. But to feed her love of travel and culture she and her husband designed a company, SexSwing.com, that allowed them the creativity of design and manufacturing and the freedom to travel. It’s a complicated formula with dedicated employees but has worked amazingly for them.  She spends the summers at the company’s warehouse in Michigan designing, sewing, and packaging and the rest of the year wandering this world with her husband and their 4 children. 

Website: https://www.sexswing.com?ssc=1122
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexswingcom/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheSwingExpert

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In this episode, we chatted with Joli Hamilton a research psychologist, AASECT certified sexuality educator, and a sex & relationship coach. She has a new & exciting book, Project Relationship: The Entrepreneur's Action Plan for Passionate, Sustainable Love. This book does read like a business book with assessments, action steps, and tools that are related to relationships. Not what you normally think about a relationship book but offers several exercises that are eye-opening.

We discussed the importance of why it is important to do action steps and to have the money talk. Most of us see this as an uncomfortable topic but it's a must-do for successful relationships. Also, did you know you can design your own unique relationship and create a ritual to successfully keep the flame of desire going?

We also discussed her great TedX Talk about Comperison - The Opposite of Jealousy. She explained why comperison is so important in a relationship and creating the type of relationship you want to have.

Joli Hamilton
Website: https://www.jolihamilton.com/
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Ekaterina (Kate) Timofeeva is a Food Freedom & Pleasure coach who helps women end their food & body obsession, and tap into their sexuality so they can experience full-body orgasms. We always said mind, body, and spirit are all connected. Listen in as we discuss sacred sexuality, trauma, orgasms, and how they are all connected to food.

Ekaterina (Kate) Timofeeva
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What's your New Year's vision? We mean your sex and relationship vision! Are you looking for love, for play, for new toys, activities, or new partners? For us, it's open minded friends and playmates and deeper intimacy. We started the year right by staying at home but we did find a small house party on January 1st. Best of all, it was a bi party so we already made some new friends.

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On this episode, our guest was Heather C. Montgomery, founder and CEO of the sex-positive social platform, PleazeMe
(PleazeMe.com). She created this entertaining and informative site as a means to open the conversation about healthy sex and sexuality, especially for women.

After only achieving about 5 orgasms, she was trying to find a safe place to ask questions and could not find one that felt safe, or shame free. She did the logical thing she created PleazeMe.com!

We discuss what makes it different from the Facebooks, FetLifes and other social media sites. It is empowering for the sex positive community and given them the ability to share their knowledge, classes, podcast and videos uncensored! It is so liberating for us to freely talk about everything and anything with no censorships. It is free to join and you have to be 21 and up.

Then the fun part of any adult website run by woman is raising capital to launch a site, run and maintain it. We talked about the challenges and the fundraising campaign on iFundwomen.com they are currently running to help grow PleazeMe. Any amount will help grow the website to be a great go to resource for anyone wanting to explore about their sexuality curiosity anonymously in a safe zone.

If you are looking for a safe place to learn about sex and ask questions without shame or fear, then check out PleazeMe.com and spread the good word of a safe space.

Where to find PleazeMe:
Website: https://pleazeme.com/?ref_code=b8632596
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pleazemesocial/
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pleazemesocial
Fundraising site https://ifundwomen.com/projects/pleazeme
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