Lilly (30s monogamous white cis het f) went on a journey to learn to orgasm, and her larger pursuit of pleasure eventually led her to produce porn—she’s the founder and CEO of Afterglow*, an ethical porn company whose mission is to empower and educate in the name of delicious connection. Lilly shares her backstory: a conservative upbringing, a high school sweetheart she was with from ages 15 to 30, her first orgasm at 24, and her second wave of sexual exploration after shirking a lot of shoulds which her to be the change she wanted to see in the adult film industry. She shares her favorite parts of sex (hint: she named her company after it), her satisfaction in monogamy and belief that everyone’s at least a little queerious, her own control and collaboration preferences, the liberator sex couch she aspires to use more often, the Lelo vibrator she first loved and still uses to this day, and what it’s like to actually produce porn after a background in the startup world. She and Wyoh talk being single for the first time again in your 30’s, encountering penises of all sizes, wanting to like porn, exploring her own sexuality with erotic video, and wanting to make something hot that speaks to people like her—so she did, even though she had no idea how to produce a film much less a porno when she started. She shares her definition of ethical porn, how Afterglow has shifted her relationship to the industry, how awesome the performers are, the importance of lube, and the guided audio exercise that you do with your partner around cunnilingus on Afterglow—sign up at xoafterglow.com/lover

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Wyoh’s first-ever girl-crush Lauren (34 queer pansexual, poly cis woman living in Los Angeles, co-producer of Failed Films Fest) comes on-pod to share memories of all the hot ways their lives have intersected over the years—including hot makeouts when they ran into each other in Colombia, a threesome with Wyoh’s first Dom, and erotic films of mutual inspiration—and fills in her own stories of her sexual evolution. Lauren is one of the artists behind Failed Films, an adult art and film festival to celebrate the fullness of self-expression, but her origins are the same conservative farm town Wyoh is from, and they talk about how minimal sex ed and a lack of relational guidance shaped their erotic unfoldings, being a makeout queen with girlfriends and eventually putting a name to queerness, falling in love with everyone in a pansexual sort of way, and how having sex-positive friends leads to things like an orgy in Spain and a first experience receiving strap-on penetration. Lauren shares how she loves to be watched or recorded in spaces where exhibitionism is allowed, loving cunts and boobs in her face, getting to know her submissive self, a possible identity as a power bottom and also a very bad naughty brat, the hot ways she invites her partners to fuck, her love of outdoor sex and fantasies of being ravished in the woods, feelings on her go-to toys: flogger, paddle, glass butt plug, and restraints, a desire for double penetration and femme energy in her sex life, and how the fun, kinky, pervy, lovely, beautiful community of artists she’s experienced and facilitated through Failed Films continues to be an inspiration.

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A compilation episode! Lorde Destroyer went to former guest Mistress Justine Cross’ play party on a Saturday, and met Wyoh in the park on Sunday, and he talks about having so much fucking fun—kissing, makeouts, feeling at home in a queer and trans space. A ProDom in his daily life, he will bottom for Mommies, and gives us a mini punching tutorial after talking about getting to make a Mommy really happy by punching her. He talks about his specialty for work briefly—mindfucking—and likens Wyoh to a collie dog when she says she’s felt energetically like a puppy around a lover lately. Then, listener email: one about a vacuum kink with layer of happy endings, then the glorious awesomeness of aquaphilia, and a couple of hellos from listeners.

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Dr. Amber Hull (44 cis queer F physician in private practice who is a solo-polyamorous free agent) returns to share how she’s revamping sex ed, cultivating honest conversations about healthy human sexuality with clients, and supporting them wherever they are in their journey through her Confidential Consults.

She shares stories of teaching fellow doctors and adults the latest in sexual health and safety practices in her Sex Ed Reboot online class, DoxyPEP details, tells us what a joy friend is, normalizing ethical non-monogamy, equipping kids to enforce their boundaries and negotiate what they want, and why you should get vaccinated against HPV.

Dr Amber's Sex Stories from August 2023 | Erotic Audacity, Wellness & Luxury

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Jay (42 Black straight cis m married, Colorado-based creator) is usually a stag, but tells us the moments he finds himself leaning into more of a cuckold dynamic, and he joins to share sex stories about what it’s like to kiss his wife goodbye as he hands her off to another man—and also what it’s like to stay and play or document. With his first wife, a curiosity around threesomes and a TV special about the lifestyle led them into what used to feel like the secret underworld of swinging, and he was a hot commodity in the predominately white space, noticing undeniable size differences. He shares how his experience as a bull has informed his own turn-on, explains what “fuck licking” is, what he likes to have done to his nipples, and talks about what it’s like to be a hotwife couple whose friends have no idea. Jay also talks about connecting through touch from a young age, how he developed his own masculine wisdom, his butch grandma’s lesbian porn connection, how he and his wife manage their sex life with a newborn, and he and Wyoh share a fantasy for a play room with built-in lighting and camera setups.

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Kathy Kay of Strictly Anonymous Confessions returns to hear the details of Wyoh’s great spanking skirt success, updates on the amazing encounters while exploring phone sex via sextpanther.com/wyoh even if they have not *yet* resulted in a traditional phone sex call, and Kathy shares her own story about the time someone tried to have phone sex with her when that was not what they were doing. Wyoh shares details of cuckold fantasies, trampling, goddess worship, and some incredible cock-stroking tutorials, gives updates on her flogging practice, explains why her solo staycation away turned out to be less sexy than planned, and shares inspirations from Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries for a future pod/art/porn-watching-and-maybe-creating staycation, the idea of a fuck-sandwich retreat, and a potential September devoted to focusing on a possible back-to-self-pleasure school masturbation research project in September (noodling on this; let me know if you’d follow along!). And what IS Wyoh’s perfect relationship? And what’s a reason to be in a relationship? We talk Cuckqueen/slut and hotwife dreams, Sex Stories in the Park, and what’s coming next.

🔗 KATHY LINKS | strictlyanonymouspodcast.com / instagram / twitter

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Ruan (40s she/her bisexual f) masturbates while working, but also takes breaks for dedicated self-pleasure. Sex toys exploded her pleasure life in her 40’s—not too long ago—along with her literotic revolution as an author when she started a naughty twitter and began adding meaty sex scenes to her romance novels. She tells us about discovering her body, her journey from a shame-inducing pleasure void of an upbringing to owning dozens of sex toys and proudly self-identifying as a “clit junkie.” Ruan shares details of clit mapping with her Zumio, a very precise sex toy, talks about her love of all things outdoor-sex-related, learning about microphilia and macrophilia through narrating shrinking and giantess erotica, and she and Wyoh talk about writing commissioned stories, what romance actually is, what it’s like to be endlessly full of ideas, noodling on the ways the sex acts we like don’t (or maybe in Wyoh’s case, do?!) define us, turn-on and turn-off words, wanting people to experience massive amounts of pleasure in their bodies, and dreams of sex swings.

🔗 RUAN LINKS |  linktr.ee/ruanwillow

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Will GG (30s cis f queer actor writer comedian sensual artist) fuck just anyone? Do you need a wife for a week? Or a tickling party? The Goodass Goddess shares exciting updates about exploring sex work and her hottest, most taboo kink at Sheri’s Ranch Brothel. GG shares details of what it’s like to be a teaching unicorn, how she facilitates connection between couples professionally, the hot hot threesomes that result, and what it’s like to then go back to her life in Los Angeles as an erotic artist and writer—and you can find her work in Cosmopolitan (link below!). GG and Wyoh also talk self-love and how it’s reflected in negotiations of all kinds, living in and celebrating the present moment, loosening assholes and her current soul-o sex moment.

GG Sauvage's Sex Stories from September 2021 | Hyper-Catholic to Sugar Babe

🔗 GG LINKS |  linktr.ee/ggsauvage

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Mala Marquez (professional MILF based in the Bay) is full of wisdom—and has been a big part of Wyoh’s whorearchy research, via Mala’s Patreon, The Siren Sciences where different types of sex work, magic and the frequency of beauty are go-to topics of wonder in a community built for fellow service providers. Mala reflects on her fifteen years as a sex worker and performing in a service role: craigslist led to middle-of-nowhere stripping, which has evolved into working as an independent Domme and phone sex worker, sharing insightful and juicy details about erotic hypnosis, staying present, sensitive cocks, allowing a dick to be as hard or soft as needed, satisfaction in a multitude of ways, work that feels like play and receiving magic cum tributes. Receiving little guidance growing up, sex work has allowed Mala to study human desire with the curiosity of an anthropologist, and talks about developing her own sense of sexy, taking her time, the hotness of femmes who nap, satin, and silk, and what it’s like to be de-calcified, embodied and multi-orgasmic. Observations on how stripping dialogues with society, the dark recurring fantasies she’s noticed in her beloved cuck clients, the erotic patterns of finsubs, and the underbelly of masculinity, fantasies of magenta, mermaids, limpia spaces, endless time lots of vibrators and sensations, and the playfulness of sex and connection to ourselves and magic—and she tells us about servitors (but both she and Wyoh know more now, so go check out her Patreon if you’re really curious). 

🔗 MALA LINKS | The Siren Sciences Patreon / instagram

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Erin (30 bisexual w cis f in a monogamous relationship) is enjoying a sex life that’s the best it’s ever been—she’s exploring, and has so far learned that she loves spit (on her, in her mouth, doggy and bum area) and her ass is a champion. She loves hands and dominant energy, feels sexy in outdoorsy situations (maybe primal?), has a very sensitive gag reflex and is a straight-for-the-clit kinda girl. Her shame is low, and she recalls a creepy sex ed puppet, getting mad at her mom for not warning her she would learn about wet dreams, and recalls that she was a “shy little horndog” who would rub up against pillows and jumbo beanie babies, discovered the perfect hot tub jet, and recalls growing up with attractive girls she described as fellow freaks. Erin says she’s bad at blowjobs but tells us why it works for her, and we get an amazing story about a fucking minivan, awkward nudity in a condo complex, the benefits of guy roommates, an educational rough sex face slap story that is a cautionary tale and surprise happy ending, nipple worship, pussy pumps, Daddy explorations, loving porn, sharing her first masturbation video, and an amazing fantasy of a drive-in theatre for making out, slow turn-on, and maybe fuck-a-long orgy porn. 

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