Desire discrepancy is one of the most common challenges in relationships. It happens when one partner has a higher or lower sex drive than the other, leading to frustration, miscommunication, and emotional distance. Sexual desire isn’t static—it changes based on life phases and relationship shifts.     •    Instead of seeing it as a “problem,” view it as a journey of discovery together.     •    The goal isn’t perfect alignment but understanding, compromise, and pleasure for both partners. In this episode, we explore what causes desire gaps and how to bridge them for a more fulfilling sex life. In this episode, we explore what causes desire gaps and how to bridge them for a more fulfilling sex life. Remember: Your pleasure is my passion!

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Sexx Talk With Khrys, I sit down with Todd Windham as he lays it all out—the scars, the lessons, and the wild truths of his post-divorce journey. From heartbreak to healing, from redefining manhood to navigating the dating world, Todd gets real about what most men won’t say out loud.

We dive into:

 The emotional & sexual aftermath of divorce  How society shapes (and sometimes stifles) men’s sexual freedom  The reality of dating after marriage—sex, expectations & shocking surprises  What men really wish women knew about their desires Healing, growth & embracing pleasure without shame

This one’s raw, real, and unapologetic. If you’re curious about what goes on inside a man’s mind after love, loss, and a second chance at pleasure, hit play now!

Are you truly getting the pleasure you deserve in the bedroom? In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we’re diving deep into the power of advocating for your pleasure and communicating your needs with confidence. I break down:

• Why speaking up about what you like (and don’t like) is essential for a satisfying sex life
• How to express your desires without fear, guilt, or shame
• Effective tips for guiding your partner in a way that feels sexy and empowering 
• The importance of open dialogue in creating intimacy and deeper connection

If you’ve ever struggled with telling your partner what you want—or felt frustrated when things just aren’t hitting the right spot—this episode is for you. Your pleasure matters, and it’s time to claim it!

Listen now and learn how to confidently take control of your satisfaction!

 Your pleasure is my passion! 

In this episode of, Sex Talk with Khrys, we dive deep into the ways religious teachings—especially in the Seventh-day Adventist Church—have shaped women’s understanding of pleasure, desire, and personal empowerment. From the silence around women’s sexual fulfillment to the lack of education on pleasure and desire, we explore the unintended consequences of these missing conversations. What happens when women aren’t taught to embrace their pleasure or advocate for themselves in relationships? And how can we begin to unlearn the limiting beliefs that keep us from fully experiencing life’s pleasures?

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Seventh-day Adventist teachings (and other religious influences) shape views on women’s sexuality and desire.
• The impact of purity culture and the silence around women’s pleasure.
• The consequences of not being educated on
• Real-life pitfalls women face when they aren’t given these essential tools.
• How we can reclaim our right to pleasure, financial freedom, and self-awareness.

In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we’re diving deep into a powerful truth: your sexuality is YOURS, and no one else’s limited thinking or outdated rules should dictate how you experience pleasure.

Too often, we allow societal norms, cultural expectations, or other people’s opinions to hold us back from fully embracing our desires. Well, it’s time to break free.  

In this episode, we’ll explore:

• Why other people’s sexual hang-ups are NOT your responsibility. • How to recognize and release the limitations placed on your pleasure. • Practical steps to reclaim your sexual freedom unapologetically. • Why living YOUR sexual truth is the ultimate act of empowerment.

It’s time to let go of the shame, the rules, and the outdated beliefs that don’t serve you. You deserve a life of unfiltered pleasure and connection.

Listen now and learn how to step into your sexual power without hesitation.

Your pleasure is my passion, and this episode will show you how to own it unapologetically.

Fantasies are a natural and powerful part of human sexuality. However, they’re often misunderstood or stigmatized. On this episode we’ll discuss why fantasizing is essential for a fulfilling sex life, how it can enhance intimacy, and tips for sharing fantasies in a healthy, positive way.

Oral sex is a very intimate interaction. When is the perfect time to perform this yummy act? On this episode we really break down what that really is and what really takes place.  Oral sex is a beautiful thing however it should approaches with knowledge and caution.  Happy listening.

Women are supposed to be strong. We’re supposed to work, have and raise kids, clean the house, and our build careers.  When we choose ourselves it looks ugly to others.  It’s OK to stand up for yourself and desire more  at all cost.  In this episode we discuss some really good examples on what that looks like in real time.

Women have for so long been taught that we are supposed to be in a particular box operating on what others feel is best for us.  With experiences we gain a understanding of us and our pussy’s.  Lori Harvey is a true example of living out loud. So enjoy the episode and afterwords ask yourself…living her best life”….. or whoring???