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Sex: What you need to know before sleeping with someone
In this episode we will discuss when you should sleep with someone for the first time. Sex is a big step in any relationship, and it’s important to make sure that you’re ready and comfortable with the person. This podcast will help you understand yourself and your partner, as well as navigate the pressures and considerations that come along with the decision to have sex for the first time. Episode highlights and time stamps can be found below.
Highlights
(01:28) - When should you sleep with someone and why does sex complicate things?
(02:49) - Should you talk to your partner about sex, or just do it if it feels right?
(05:36) - What advice do you have for people who feel pressured to have sex before they’re ready?
(06:33) - Should you have the exclusivity conversation before sleeping with someone?
(07:49) - Should you use a condom?
(08:36) - What if he doesn’t try to wear a condom, what should you say?
(10:20) - What if you’re not very sexually experienced?
(11:12) - Should alcohol be involved and if it is involved, does that make a difference?
(12:43) - You had sex, now what?! Do you sleep over? What happens the next day? What changes?
(15:35) - What if you do NOT have sexual chemistry?
(16:44) - What if you DID have sexual chemistry. How do you know if it is just lust or is it love?
(18:52) - Do men lose interest after sex?
Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel
Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker
Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
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By Janis and Carly Spindel
3.5
1313 ratings
In this episode we will discuss when you should sleep with someone for the first time. Sex is a big step in any relationship, and it’s important to make sure that you’re ready and comfortable with the person. This podcast will help you understand yourself and your partner, as well as navigate the pressures and considerations that come along with the decision to have sex for the first time. Episode highlights and time stamps can be found below.
Highlights
(01:28) - When should you sleep with someone and why does sex complicate things?
(02:49) - Should you talk to your partner about sex, or just do it if it feels right?
(05:36) - What advice do you have for people who feel pressured to have sex before they’re ready?
(06:33) - Should you have the exclusivity conversation before sleeping with someone?
(07:49) - Should you use a condom?
(08:36) - What if he doesn’t try to wear a condom, what should you say?
(10:20) - What if you’re not very sexually experienced?
(11:12) - Should alcohol be involved and if it is involved, does that make a difference?
(12:43) - You had sex, now what?! Do you sleep over? What happens the next day? What changes?
(15:35) - What if you do NOT have sexual chemistry?
(16:44) - What if you DID have sexual chemistry. How do you know if it is just lust or is it love?
(18:52) - Do men lose interest after sex?
Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel
Books
- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year
- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker
Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography
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