Recorded in Indianapolis, IN. Riley sits down with Jenny [she/her], a friend of 20 years — and the familiarity makes this one feel different. When you've known someone that long, the conversation goes places it simply can't with a stranger. Jenny opens up about her experience with sexuality during and after pregnancy, and they really get into it together in a way that's both funny and tender. A love letter to the kind of friendships where nothing is off limits.

Topics: sex during pregnancy, postpartum sexuality, sexuality after childbirth, long-term friendship, motherhood and desire, body image after pregnancy, intimacy and parenthood.

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Recorded in Lexington, KY. Luke [he/him] is a demisexual man — and this conversation is as much philosophical as it is personal. He shares his outlook on life, various sexual experiences over the years, and what he's genuinely looking for in his future. But the most remarkable moment comes when he arrives at a real-time realization mid-conversation about where his demisexuality likely originates. One of those episodes that reminds you why this format is so powerful.

Topics: demisexuality, sexuality and emotional connection, sexual philosophy, male vulnerability, self-discovery, demisexual identity, emotional intimacy.

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Recorded in Chattanooga, TN. Nora [she/her] takes us on a full journey through her sexual and romantic life — starting from her first time at seventeen, through her feelings about oral sex, the emotional terrain of long-distance relationships, what it's been like to date married men, and — trigger warning — an abortion. She doesn't flinch from any of it, and neither does Riley. A candid, wide-ranging conversation about the full complexity of a woman's intimate life.

Topics: first time, oral sex, long distance relationships, dating married men, abortion (TW), female sexuality, sexual history, women and desire.

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Recorded in Cleveland, GA. Alex [he/him] and Doug [he/him] were born and raised in north Georgia and have been together for over 15 years. They talk about what it was like to come out as gay in high school — and how empowering rather than devastating that turned out to be — the fantasies they act on and the ones they keep just between themselves, and what it looks like to still be genuinely curious about each other after a decade and a half. One of the warmest, most quietly joyful conversations on the show.

Topics: gay relationships, coming out in high school, long-term queer relationships, sexual fantasies, couples and exploration, gay men in the South, relationship longevity.

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Recorded in Atlanta, GA. Pinky [he/him] has been seeing professional Dominatrixes since his twenties — and he is very specific about what he gets out of it and what they make him do. But this conversation takes a deeper turn when he opens up about his experience with prostate cancer, how it permanently changed his orgasms, and the unexpected way it completely reframed how he thinks about his body, his pleasure, and his life. A conversation that starts in one place and ends somewhere much more profound.

Topics: professional dominatrix, BDSM, kink, prostate cancer and sexuality, orgasm changes after cancer, male sexuality, illness and identity, sexual healing.

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Recorded in Midway, GA. John [he/him] is Sarah's husband — and this episode is part of something special: getting to hear both sides of the same relationship in their own words. He talks about what it's been like to explore kink and polyamory for the first time, what it truly means to be a partner to someone living with Dissociative Identity Disorder, and some of his biggest fantasies. Honest, thoughtful, and made richer by knowing Sarah's episode exists right alongside it.

Topics: polyamory, kink exploration, Dissociative Identity Disorder, DID and relationships, sexual fantasies, first time non-monogamy, marriage and identity, couples and kink.

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Recorded in Midway, GA. Sarah [she/they/fae] lives with Dissociative Identity Disorder — and this conversation is a generous, thoughtful exploration of what it means to make peace with all the different modes of yourself. They also talk about beginning to explore kink and polyamory with their husband, and how even when the road to get there wasn't easy, it's been completely worth it. Best listened to alongside John's episode for the full picture of a relationship navigating all of this together.

Topics: Dissociative Identity Disorder, DID, multiple identities, mental health and sexuality, polyamory, kink exploration, non-binary identity, marriage and DID, healing and self-acceptance.Love this show? Support it and get early episodes at Patreon.com/SexWithEveryone

Recorded in Jacksonville, FL. Kim [she/her] is approaching her sixties and she has a lot to say. She talks candidly about going on hormones to revive a faded libido, her nuanced perspectives on sex work, and what it actually feels like to go through a divorce after 30 years of marriage. She also gets into something that doesn't get discussed nearly enough — how her sexual preferences have evolved over time. Refreshing, frank, and exactly the kind of voice that belongs on this show.

Topics: women over 60 and sexuality, hormone therapy, libido after menopause, sex work perspectives, divorce after long marriage, sexuality in later life, women and desire at every age.

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Hey I'm Riley and I'm a nomad, and I interview people along my travels about their sex lives, history, relationships, identities, and everything in between and outside of those things. Unfortunately so often we are made to repress, deny, or be ashamed of this side of ourselves that we all have. I'm so stoked you're here and that I get to share these intimate conversations with you and hopefully prove in some small way that this side of ourselves isn't so scary or different after all. To me, there is simply no better way to really get to know someone than being vulnerable and open to having this kind of heart to heart. So please join me as I discuss sex, with everyone.