Sex With Your Ex

After a hiatus, we're back with our friend Natasha who is all healed up from her knee surgery. She is back on top and super happy about it! We're all over the place on this one - talking responsible pet ownership, sex toys, and how varied our "parts" are down there [for both men and women]. --@sexwithyourexpodcast

OM = Orgasmic Meditation. Everything you should know about it, and why you will probably want it. Right now. ;) ...Dustin cowers in the presence of his old friend Ana who is back to visit New York City this week. Dustin met Ana in [what he remembers as being] a very provocative place where you can't hide behind any walls - an introductory course for a practice known as Orgasmic Meditation (OM). In this episode [there is a lot of awkwardness on Dustin's part, and] nothing is off the table. Our guest, Ana discusses her experience with the practice of Orgasmic Meditation, her previous marriage, as well as her current romantic endeavours.   -- About Ana:  Ana Del Castillo is a certified coach and has been coaching, leading courses and publicly speaking for over 20 years.  Ana specializes in relationship and power dynamics between men and women, and mining the liminal spaces, (the space between what has been and what’s yet to be), and tangibly building confidence and self-esteem in individuals and groups.  Ana is an actress and singer and has performed on broadway and on national tours such as Les Miserable. She is also a story-teller and has been featured with The Moth on NPR, at Lincoln Center and in their recent book, Occasional Magic.  Ana lives in San Francisco where she coaches, speaks, and is writing a second draft of her one person show. -- @sexwithyourexpodcast

Ever had a bizarre one night stand...that turned into a consistent booty call...eventually evolving into a grey area relationship? We imagine that most of us have at some point.Our friend Kevin joins us to talk violent kink on the first hookup, how a love/hate dynamic can lead to great sex, and how girls are also prone to "negging," when hitting on dudes.--@sexwithyourexpodcast

This one is a thank you to our listeners for all of the downloads, streams, shares, etc. so far. We totally love that there are people out there having fun alongside us with this show!In this episode, we get into what period flu is and why men should give women a pass when that time of the month is upon them. As well, we discuss how starting a collaborative, creative project can help grow and enhance communication in any relationship -- and, possibly give you a better success rate by testing how you operate under pressure together. --@sexwithyourexpodcast

Our first ex (who isn't one another), Tovah, joins us to reminisce about her relationship with Dustin -- one that happened during a time of turmoil for both of them. We discuss recognizing and acknowledging that everyone is making sacrifices in relationships, to some degree. As well, we get into the importance of taking time to be alone in order to get to know and understand yourself, and why doing so can lead to healthier, happier relationships filled with depth and passion.Guest: @TovahAvigail | @TheVibehaus--@sexwithyourexpodcast

Dustin's friend Natasha is looking to up her BJ game, so she stops by to meet Septima and grill her on her "triple threat" technique.As well, we get into the [sometimes extreme] lengths that women go to, to ensure they are better sexual partners.--@sexwithyourexpodcast

One of Dustin's besties, Cyrus joins us tackle some listener questions. And, while Dustin and Septima give their [very strong] opinions on the subject(s), Cyrus remains fairly diplomatic - insisting that relationships are too subjective to advise on.True. But, what would the show be without Dustin and Septima's clash of opinions?Turns out though, the answer to pretty much all relationship issues is simple: Communication.Also, find out why, if you ever end up dating Dustin, Cyrus will inevitably become your new best friend.Lastly, we’re going to call this “Pt. 1”, because it’s highly likely we’ll be taking on more listener questions in the future, and sharing our [super biased and extremely unqualified] opinions. So, send questions if you have 'em!—@sexwithyourexpodcast

Why do men prefer Bumble over the other dating apps? HINT: Less responses. Better odds.Apps have changed the way we date - for better or for worse. In this episode, we talk our own experiences with swiping, and go over male and female perspectives on different dating apps. Which ones should you be using (depending on your objectives)? Or, should you be using any at all?Also, why you should stop using dating apps to self-promote. It's fucking annoying. --@sexwithyourexpodcast

This one is about cheating folks!Getting cheated on, cheating on others, hooking up with people who we know are cheating on their spouses to be with us, etc. Where do we draw the line? All relationships is different. Different people. Different boundaries. But, is cheating (to some degree) inevitable in every relationship? --@sexwithyourexpodcast

You will hear the faint sounds of sirens in the background for the first 5 minutes of this one. Which can only mean one thing - we're back in NYC! The magical land filled with emergency sirens, car horns, and a whole whack of people saying "fuck you" on the daily. What's not to love?In this episode [back by popular demand], we have a special treat for you! The ever-so-delightful, Erik (who joined us on Episode 4) was over the other day, so we decided to hit RECORD and roll with it.What we got was a whole lotta [juicy] randomness.We ended up talking hall passes, polyamory, why men try to get women back after they fuck up, and the hell that is the ultimate walk of shame - a b-line through your hook up's extended family breakfast, on Thanksgiving weekend.Gobble. Gobble.--@sexwithyourexpodcast