Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective episodes:

• 04.19.2024

  SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are men infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions

  March 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a...

  
• 04.01.2024

  SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding

  SWM 126 - Unspoken nuances of understanding. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Marriage is a cosmic tapestry, a constellation of souls woven into the fabric of time, where vows echo in the heart's language,...

  
• 03.22.2024

  SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex”

  SWM 125 - Rethinking Duty Sex. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I've had a lot of conversations with couples as well as husbands and wives individually lately about what often gets called "duty sex"...

  
• 03.15.2024

  SWM 124 – My daughter’s speech – A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism

  SWM 124 - My daughter's speech - A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Today I've got something a bit different than the usual fare. Last year, for...

  
• 03.09.2024

  SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

  January and February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:The monthly masturbation challengeHow do I make anal sex enjoyable...

  
• 03.01.2024

  SWM 122 – How to make your spouse more attractive to you

  SWM 122 - How to make your spouse more attractive to you. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. If you look online, you can find tons of videos, articles, podcasts, products and more about how...

  
• 02.16.2024

  SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work

  SWM 121 - Why marriage should be hard work. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I made a post on social media some time ago saying, “Marriage is hard, divorce is hard, choose your hard,”...

  
• 02.02.2024

  SWM 120 – How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective

  SWM 120 - How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. A few years ago, I was talking to a client during a coaching call, and we...

  
• 01.27.2024

  SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more

  November and December 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:How do you use a vibrator?Is roleplaying marriage a sin?Will...

  
• 01.12.2024

  SWM 118 – In sickness and in health

  The traditional wedding vows go something like "I take you to be my wife/husband, and I do promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful husband/wife in plenty and in want, in joy and...

  
• 12.15.2023

  SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?

  SWM 117 - Why do I want sex when I'm sick? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season.  So, of course, the last couple of weeks,...

  
• 11.30.2023

  SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help?

  SWM 116 - Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Lately, I've noticed a trend on social media where famous creator couples make videos...

  
• 11.10.2023

  SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins

  October 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Can I use a strap-on on my wife?My husband’s ex-girlfriendWhat’s a foreskin...

  
• 10.27.2023

  SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage

  SWM 114 - Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I had a wife ask, Sex should be a gift given freely, and if I don’t have...

  
• 10.12.2023

  SWM 113 – Orgasms and age, calling your spouse daddy, guilt from initiating

  September 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:A husband's changing orgasmsCan widowers masturbateHusband won't stop masturbation habitCalling husband "daddy"Feeling...

  
• 09.22.2023

  SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations?

  SWM 112 - Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This podcast episode is answering this question I received from our anonymous Have A Question...

  
• 09.08.2023

  SWM 111 – Sex in heaven, oral sex positions, recovering from affairs, wanting to be a mom

  August 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Sex in heavenOral sex positionsHow to recover from an affairI want to...

  
• 08.25.2023

  SWM 110 – Noticing other women, forgotten anniversary, disconnecting during foreplay and more

  July 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:My wife feels disrespected because I notice other womenWife is hurt but...

  
• 08.11.2023

  SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t

  June 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:CrossdressingReframing "duty" sexWife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn'tAfraid to...

  
• 08.05.2023

  SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?

  SWM 108 - What does the Bible say about hell? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. This podcast episode is a Bible study about the topic of hell. One of the most confusing subjects in...

  
• 07.21.2023

  SWM 107 – May 2023 Anonymous Questions

  May 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Wife wants too much sexCouple needs counsellingKeep having the same unproductive fightMake...

  
• 07.15.2023

  SWM 106 – Nude pictures, sex toys, asexual wife, wife not in love with me, wish my wife had a bigger butt

  April 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other?Limon...

  
• 07.06.2023

  SWM 105 – Threesome temptation, aversion to manual and oral, penis size, falling asleep during sex

  March 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Threesome tempationsAversion to receiving manual and oral sexPenis sizeFalling asleep during sexy...

  
• 06.02.2023

  SWM 104 – Do women control men, beauty vs lusting, playlist for sex, and are men polygamous by nature?

  February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to...

  
• 05.10.2023

  SWM 103 – Phone sex, oral sex to completion, are pictures okay, increasing female libido, toxic wife and more

  January 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Phone sexOral sex to completionForgiveness and trust after betrayalAre pictures and videos...

  
• 04.09.2023

  SWM 102 – Wife conflicted, orgasming during sex, BDSM, wife doesn’t like clitoral stimulation and holding your spouse accountable

  December 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Does my wife know what I'm doing to her?I want to share...

  
• 04.04.2023

  SWM 101 – Why does my spouse always push for more during sex?

  SWM 101 - Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today I'm answer this question I received in my inbox: Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction...

  
• 03.12.2023

  SWM 100 – My daughter’s speech – The crisis of my generation – transgenderism

  This is episode 100, and I wanted to do something a little different for our one-hundredth episode, and I was struggling to figure out what that should be.  Then an opportunity presented itself.  You see, my children are in 4H,...

  
• 02.17.2023

  SWM 099 – Spouse fell asleep, revealing clothes, public sex, dreams and encouraging your spouse to be healthier

  November 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Spouse falls asleep during romantic getawayHusband wants her to wear revealing clothesPublic...

  
• 01.20.2023

  SWM 098 – Energy, mutual masturbation, orgasm struggles, desire type quiz and meeting other couples

  October 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Where does the energy come from?Mutual masturbationSharing fantasies and machinesMasturbation due to...

  
• 01.07.2023

  SWM 097 – Location, bruises, God’s role vs my role, how to stop faking orgasms, where do I get my “garbage theology”

  September 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Where are you?How to hide bruisesWhat role do I have in God...

  
• 12.18.2022

  SWM 096 – Why men being submissive is problematic

  Why men being submissive is problematic. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. A reader posed the following question: Hi. I wanted to know if there is any reason that the man can't be the submissive...

  
• 11.30.2022

  SWM 095 – Faking orgasms, diapers, wet and messy/humiliation fetishes, does oral sex equal love, pre-orgasmic wife and more

  August 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Coming clean about faking orgasmsWanting wife to wear a diaperWet and messy...

  
• 11.14.2022

  SWM 094 – Who is more righteous?

  Who is more righteous? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. A reader posed the following question: There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series...

  
• 11.04.2022

  SWM 093 – Crossdressing, counseling not working, should I share fantasies, facial hair, Viagra for women and many more

  May and June 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:CrossdressingCounseling not fixing her sex driveShould I keep fantasies to...

  
• 10.08.2022

  SWM 092 – How do you know if you’ve had an orgasm

  Today we’ll be talking about female orgasms and how to tell if you had one.  This is prompted by the following question I received from our anonymous Have A Question page. If the number of women who reach orgasm from penetrative...

  
• 08.25.2022

  SWM 091 – Explaining romance and foreplay, should both spouses enjoy sex, is my wife faking, nipple orgasms and more

  April 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Is it okay to masturbate as a widow?Explaining romance and foreplayIs it...

  
• 07.31.2022

  SWM 090 – March 2022 Anonymous Questions

  March 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Husband who gets defensive about possible porn useDid I change my mind...

  
• 06.10.2022

  SWM 089 – February 2022 Anonymous Questions

  February 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Fix the alcohol abuse before trying to fix your sex lifeWife who...

  
• 04.15.2022

  SWM 088 – My Vasectomy Experience

  My Vasectomy Experience. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Last month someone emailed me telling me just how amazing they were doing after going through our Sexploration List.  I posted some of their testimonial on...

  
• 03.20.2022

  SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions

  January 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Low Drive / Low T HusbandWife won't talk about sexNot attracted to...

  
• 02.11.2022

  SWM 086 – Sex with a well endowed husband

  How do you have sex with a well-endowed husband? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: I’ve been married for a few years now, and before I got married I was...

  
• 02.02.2022

  SWM 085 – December 2021 Anonymous Questions

  December 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Wet DreamsMoney and MarriageHandjobs and controlIs my dead husband still with me?Are...

  
• 12.31.2021

  SWM 084 – November 2021 Anonymous Questions – Last post of the year

  November 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Wife becoming less adventurousHow long before porn memories fade?What counts as premature...

  
• 12.16.2021

  SWM 083 – What is “feeling naughty”?

  What is feeling naughty? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of "feeling naughty"? And I guess there are other questions...

  
• 11.30.2021

  SWM 082 – October 2021 Questions – Consensual adultery, caught masturbating, handjobs with condoms and more

  October 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Why do people think it's okay to commit adultery if their spouse...

  
• 11.16.2021

  SWM 081 – The Limon by Minna – Product Review

  The Limon by Minna - Product Review. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Get $50 off the Limon by by clicking here and using the coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY. This month our most popular resource is...

  
• 11.11.2021

  SWM 080 – Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer?

  Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: Hi Jay, I have a question for you / your podcast....

  
• 11.02.2021

  SWM 079 – September 2021 Questions – Guarding fantasies, low libido, not wanting sex, pain during sex and more

  September 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Wanting your wife to have sex with other menHow to handle a...

  
• 09.24.2021

  SWM 078 – August 2021 Questions – Catching spouses with porn, birth control, Zoloft and PE and more

  August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Snoopy wife caught husbandIs orgasming the same as cumming?Is OMGYes okay?Ejaculate colour...