Sexual Craftsmanship

Dirty Talk is one of those things that a lot of people like the idea of, and yet aren't sure how to do it. Where do you even begin? Won't it be awkward? What if I say something that offends my partner?

In today's episode, we nail down the basic of dirty talk to help you get started. It's simple, and it's fun!

Together we cover:

• What NOT to do
• How to have a conversation about dirty talk with your partner
• Four solid approaches you can use to start dirty talking NOW, including examples

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

There's nothing inherently harmful in taking a masturbation vacation. Where you need to be careful is in your intentions. Not masturbating won't hurt you, but feeling coerced or acting from a place of sexual shame definitely is.

Today, we cover:

• What is NoFap?
• The history of similar practices throughout time, paying some particular attention to sexual mores during the Victorian era
• Reasons why people choose NoFap
• Things to consider in deciding if NoFap is right for you

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

Exciting times, Craftsmen! Welcome to a NEW recurring feature of the Sexual Craftsmanship podcast: Her Side interviews.

Each Her Side interview features the experience of a woman who dates men in STEM. This is your opportunity to catch a glimpse from the other side. What resonates with you? What can you take from this story to apply in your own life?

In this episode, we'll meet Maple, who met her current partner at a maths conference, and learn more about the amazing, and not so amazing, parts of sex and relationship life shared with a nerdy guy. 

This is an excerpt from my extended interview with Maple. If you're curious to hear more, head over to Patreon - the extended and only roughly cut and edited Her Side interviews are available to Patrons only.

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

There's no denying it: seeing someone who is hungry for you, who desires you as a sexual being, carries a unique and potent erotic charge. It's totally human to want to feel wanted. The big issue is the way most of us go about trying to feel desired is temporary at best, and actively damaging at worst.

Today, we cover:

• The four negative side effects of chasing after being desired
• The two questions you need to ask yourself to start feeling sexy AF
• What you can start doing every day to become powerfully desirable

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

I feel like shouting from the mountain tops: rejection is awesome! And, it's not rejection itself that sucks, but our fear of rejection. I mention two studies: first, that the pain social rejection causes is real (Kross, E. et. al., 2011) and that we feed our fear of rejection by making rejection mean something about us (Blackhart, G. et. al., 2014).

From there, we dive into:

• The 5 reasons rejection is wonderful and something to welcome into your life
• 6 ways you can become more comfortable with rejection starting NOW

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

We start off celebrating - this is the inaugural episode of Sexual Craftsmanship and I'm just bursting with excitement!

We quickly get down to brass tacks and cover:

• A working definition of desire for the purposes of Sexual Craftsmanship
• Why it matters
• Three ways you can start becoming aware of your desire
• The Reduction Technique: a method you can use when you're really clear on what you don't want... but less clear on what you do want

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin

First, you'll hear from several different men as they speak aloud the challenges that they face in dating, sex, and relationships. Does any of this sound familiar? If yes, you're in the right place! 

Then, Sarah Martin will introduce the podcast and why it's been created. You'll also hear from three of Sarah's clients about the results they've experienced. The episode closes with a mission statement and a call to arms: to celebrate your sexuality and move forward toward sexual confidence and ease.

If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/

Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.com

Connect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! 
Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lg

Support the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin