We each must take responsibility for our actions, the things we do, the decisions we make. Pastor Ray Bentley puts it in perspective. We always want somebody to blame. But guess what? We are the sum total of the choices that we have made in life, and therefore all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. And there's nobody to blame but me. Do you know what Jesus is saying? But be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world.