She is His Podcast

What is biblical goodness—and how is it different from just “being a good person”?

In this episode of She is His, Lyndsay sits down with Tanya to talk through the Fruit of the Spirit: goodness—not as moral pressure or performance, but as holiness in action produced by the Holy Spirit. Together, they unpack how goodness is life-giving and aligned with truth, why God’s goodness isn’t always comfortable in the moment, and how believers can stay anchored to the Shepherd’s voice in a culture full of competing “truths.”

They also respond to a listener question: “How do you spot toxic people?” (and why “brokenness” is often a more biblical, compassionate lens), plus how to practice goodness with wisdom—boundaries, discernment, and a soft heart.

Scripture anchors include Psalm 119:68, Romans 12:9, Galatians 6:9–10, and Titus 3:8—with a practical invitation at the end: get close to Jesus, learn His voice, and let goodness grow in you the way fruit is meant to grow—over time, through abiding.

Listen in, and ask with us this week: “Lord, what does Your goodness look like in my life right now?”

Kindness isn’t the same as being “nice.” In this Fruit of the Spirit episode, Lyndsay sits down with Lori to talk about biblical kindness—tenderhearted, Spirit-formed, and sometimes costly. What do you do when you’ve been hurt, dismissed, or betrayed… and God is still calling you to stay soft? We talk about mean-girl dynamics in adulthood, why women’s relational wounds cut so deep, and how kindness can disarm hostility without making you a doormat. Plus: boundaries, bitterness, and why God’s kindness is meant to lead us to repentance. If kindness feels impossible right now, this conversation will point you back to the only place it can begin—receiving His kindness first.

Patience—it’s not glamorous, but it might be one of the most powerful fruits God grows in us. In this episode, Lyndsay and Alex talk honestly about what it means to wait well, to trust God’s timing when nothing seems to move, and to keep loving when the answers don’t come quickly.

They explore:
🌿 Why patience is more than quiet waiting—it’s active trust
🔥 What “the long burn” looks like in relationships, prayer, and parenting
💛 How to love prodigals and loved ones without trying to “fix” them
⏳ Why patience is actually an act of worship

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a season of waiting—or wondered how to stay faithful when God feels slow—this conversation will remind you that He’s still working, still writing, and still growing something good in you… in season.

🎧 Subscribe for the full Fruit of the Spirit series, and remember: stay rooted in His love, rest in His timing, and trust that He’s growing patience in you.

Peace is something we all long for—but often struggle to hold onto, especially in seasons of chaos, relationships, and overwhelming expectations.

In this IN SEASON episode of She is His, Lyndsay is joined by Gay Idle to talk honestly about biblical peace—the kind that doesn’t wait for life to quiet down, but steps into the middle of the noise. Released during Peace Week of Advent, this conversation weaves together Scripture, personal stories, and practical wisdom on protecting peace without hardening your heart, setting godly boundaries, navigating the opinions of others, and staying anchored in Christ when life feels anything but calm.

As we reflect on Jesus as the Prince of Peace, this episode is an invitation to stop striving for peace as a feeling and begin receiving peace as a Person—present with us, even in the chaos.

✨ Whether you’re in a season of waiting, conflict, or emotional overload, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, breathe deeply, and let the peace of Christ rule in your heart.

’Tis the season… but it doesn’t have to be the season of overwhelm.

In this short holiday episode, Lyndsay shares three simple, powerful ways to walk through Christmas with joy instead of regret. You’ll learn how to practice gratitude expressed, slow your pace with intention, and create Christ-centered memories that actually matter.

If the holidays tend to feel rushed, heavy, or chaotic, this episode will help you breathe again. Slow down, savor the moments, and rediscover a slower, sweeter Christmas — the kind rooted in Jesus.

Joy isn’t something we manufacture—it’s something God grows in us, even in the middle of hardship.

In this conversation, Lyndsay and Tanya dig into the kind of joy that endures through discouragement, disappointment, and difficulty. They unpack the myth that joy and happiness are opposites, explore what it really means to “count it all joy,” and share personal stories of how God has refined their joy in seasons of suffering.

From laughter about “joy filters” and early mornings to honest reflections on pain, healing, and faith, this episode reminds us that joy isn’t pretending everything’s okay—it’s trusting the One who always is.

Key themes:
• The true meaning of biblical joy
• Joy vs. happiness in Scripture
• How suffering produces lasting joy
• Choosing a “joy perspective”
• Practical ways to stay rooted in joy

“The joy of the Lord isn’t fragile—it’s fortified by His presence.”

Lyndsay kicks off the new series, In Season, with Angie Reese to explore the kind of love the Spirit grows—Abba’s father-heart, love as action (not sentiment), and why healthy fences beat isolating walls. They get honest about fear as the biggest barrier, share real stories (classrooms, mission trips, hard conversations), and tackle a listener question about loving someone wounded by the church.

Scripture touch points:

Galatians 5:22, 1 John 4:19, 1 Corinthians 13. 

Discipleship isn’t just about following Jesus in public—it’s about seeking Him in private. In this episode of She is His, we dive into the power of prayer and the secret place, where intimacy with God shapes every part of our lives. Discover why the hidden moments with Jesus are the fuel for bold faith, lasting transformation, and daily obedience.

Following Jesus isn’t just about Sunday mornings — it’s a daily choice to lay down our comfort, our plans, and even our reputations to walk in His way. In this episode of She is His, the team gets real about what it means to count the cost of discipleship: surrendering our will, embracing sacrifice, and trusting that Jesus is worth everything. If you’ve ever wrestled with the tension between cultural comfort and radical obedience, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to go all in.

Pull up to the Sonic with us! In this episode of Dear Younger Me, Lyndsay, Gay, and Lori park the car, sip on their favorite drinks, and share raw, real conversations about faith, friendship, and what they’d tell their younger selves if they could. From laugh-out-loud moments to heart-deep wisdom, this drive-in chat reminds us that discipleship isn’t always polished—it’s lived out in everyday places.