She Just Got Real: Real Talk About Life, Entrepreneurship, Faith, Relationships, Health & More!

In this episode, Kahlea Nicole shares her story and how she started pursuing her entrepreneurship journey at age 17. She shares how she continued to pursue this calling God had placed on her heart even when no one believed in her to keep chasing it. After years of hard work, Kahlea now works and creates content for high-end brands, created her own course (N2N) to help others learn to work with brands and it is her FULL TIME JOB! She is killing it as a brand-collab coach and content creator. Kahlea knows the struggle of battling toward her goals but also knows that hard work and trust in God are worth it! She also shares applicable advice for young entrepreneurs wanting to start and don't know where to start. This podcast is for you also if you are pursuing your business goals alone or trying to find the motivation to keep going.

Listen in to hear the whole conversation and learn some amazing tips from a brand expert!

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What is a red flag?

Google says usually a warning of Danger

For this generation, it is almost always used in reference to bad quality or an alarming character/personality trait or action that a person is doing.

God’s word tells us to Guard our hearts: Proverbs 4:23: Above all else, guard your heart,

for everything you do flows from it.

proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

Ephesians 5:6-10 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them. For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) 10 and find out what pleases the Lord.

There is no denying that we are to guard our hearts and also be discerning when it comes to life but also our relationships.

In this podcast episode Part 3 of the Dating: the good, the bad, the red flags.

I’m going to go over the red flags you need to look for when dating/pursuing a relationship!

Let me be clear - sometimes when you are pursuing a relationship and dating someone you are really interested in - sometimes you miss the red flags bc you desperately want the relationship to work. 2

The red flags you ignore in the beginning are usually the same ones that end the relationship.

The person you are interested in does not mix well with your family or friends.

the make you compromise your values

They make you feel guilty for doing things with your family and friends instead of them. And try to isolate you to where you only hang out and focus on them.

They do not take responsibility but place blame elsewhere.

You guys are not on the same page with it comes to your relationship with God.

They constantly tear down others just to make themselves look better.

No matter what you do or say, they are always unhappy and frusterated about something.

They dismiss your boundaries and try to make excuses to cross them.

Green Flags:

They respect your boundaries and encourage you to pursue your relationship with Jesus

They put forth effort and respect towards your parents and friends.

They support you by pushing you towards your goals and dreams

They are their own individual person and are not co-dependent on you.

Their words match their actions

They admit when they are wrong or have done something wrong or have hurt your feelings and apologize.

Open to honest conversation.

Listen no one is perfect but that doesn’t mean you should continue to ignore red flags that you know deep down are red flags.

If you find yourself constantly making excuses for the rude or immature behavior of the person you are dating or interested in… really reflect on if the relationship you are in is good for you?

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If you've been someone who has struggled with bad relationships and bad dating experiences, this episode is for you. I hope Part 2 of this series gives you some helpful tips and advice on learning how to ask the hard questions on the front end of the relationships you are pursuing.

You don’t have an end goal, so there will likely be more confusion as to what the relationship is moving towards

If you aren’t intentionally dating and you have not had open conversations about the future with each other, you might end up falling in love with someone that doesn’t see a future with you

Even if you are just in the “talking” stages or getting to know each other, it’s a good practice to open up about your intentions and ask the person their intentions. The more you communicate upfront about your intentions in talking/ going on dates - the more likely to avoid heartbreak and disappointment

Questions to ask:

Ask yourself why do I want to date this person?

Do they have godly characteristics I want in a future spouse?

Are they genuine?

Are they going to church or being a “good person” just for you or are they following Jesus Separate from you?

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Dating in today's world can be extremely complicated, difficult, confusing, overwhelming, and disappointing. But what if instead of dating to just date, you could date with a purpose? What if by focusing on the WHY behind your reason to date, would actually simplify the dating process? Finding clarity starts in asking yourself the hard questions first instead of expecting someone else to answer those questions for you. Determining now how you date, will actually lay out the course of how you communicate, relate, and connect with your future spouse. What you do now, matters. How and who you date today, matters. You have the choice today to understand not only the good parts of dating, but the Godly parts of dating. Who are we to be and how are we to act in the dating world? What does God's word say about this? Listen in to this week's podcast to hear a full discussion on this topic!

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In Episode 30 of the She Just Got Real Podcast, Emma Mae shares her heart for encouraging women to remember who they are because of who God is. In this conversation, Tessah and Emma dive deep into a conversation focusing on why Jesus is enough for us and the ultimate definer our who we are. You don't want to miss the amazing truths that are discussed in this episode. Let us know if you LOVED this episode and remember to leave us a review!

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Madison Jarrett and Tessah have a fun conversation about living in a new season of life while balancing being a newly wed, fulltime jobs and side hustles, creating a health life style and more. Jump in on their conversation to learn how they are balancing all the adulting things and how you can do.

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Where are all my people that are adulting?! I know the good, the bad and the ugly that you are facing in this season. It can be hard navigating the real world, with real problems, real jobs, and real questions. I'm sharing my best pieces of advice and things I've learned as I have started navigating this season as well. We are in this together and I hope this episode encourages you to keep going and know that none of us have it all figured out.

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We are diving deep into what Easter means to us as Jesus followers and how we can apply that to our lives and in the world we live in today. Happy Resurrection Week! The tomb is EMPTY! If you enjoyed this podcast please leave a review ❤️

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Have you ever wondered or questioned whether motherhood could keep you away from your dreams? Lindsey Roman challenges the standard and shares her story of how she once was afraid becoming a mom would ruin her dream of entrepreneurship, traveling, and living her life to the fullest. But motherhood created quite the opposite for her. In this podcast, Lindsey shares all the things of balancing being a Co-founder of her company, the Heart University, a mom, a wife, and all the things. Motherhood has empowered Lindsey to a whole new level. Motherhood is not a stopping point for your dreams, it is simply a new chapter. Lindsey also shares applicable advice for 20 something year old women that are wanting to explore entrepreneurship but are not sure where to start. This podcast is full of so many good, fun things.

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Sometimes in our lives it is hard to listen and understand what God is doing in our lives. Maybe you don't even know how to listen to God's voice in your life. Or maybe he seems super silent in your life right. This podcast is the encouragement you need to be reminded that God is with you and for you and wants to move in your life. Becca, an entrepreneur, mom of three who has lived and learned how to obey God in the small things and big things that life throws our way. I truly believe this episode will bless your life!!

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