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Hello Spring! Let' s catch up and discuss what I have been up to, the things I am getting into this Spring and all the things I am planning and looking forward to! 

What am I watching: 

Laguna Reunion, it was so well done! Honestly I did tear up! Makes me want to watch that all over again! RHOBH, it makes me sad to see them all behaving that way, I am anxiously awaiting Summer house reunion! Below Deck, my goodness this season is drammaaaa! I am here with Captain Jason. RHORI, this is what the show is meant to be, it’s sooooo dramatic and so much going on. Love a good brunette cast too! I am so excited to see how this goes! I have a huge watch list and honestly I have been prioritizing reading! There is so many movies coming along, Devil Wears Prada, Scream 7 the funny one. 

What am I reading:

Campus Series by Elle Kennedy: The Deal and I am on the 3rd book! I am finishing probably 1 book a week or 2. I am basically getting ready for my books that will become movies or shows soon! 

What am I listening to: 

Unwaxed is done! I am soooo sad! I caught up and now it's over. Let’s be Honest, she's been killing it, a little known fact, she had live/prerecorded questions on it and I was one of them! I am catching up on Unwell and Call her Daddy. I can’t believe Alex & Alix are fighting

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Let's catch up and see what going back to the roots is not so bad! 

Watching: RHOBH, kinda boring, but good insights from Erika, Southern Charm and that reunion was brutal. Salley is odd to me, can’t place why. Age of Attraction, now that is a wild ride and then a reunion is coming. ooooffff! Love on the Spectrum is coming back! Yay! I am catching up on the Rookie, Below Deck, Southern Hospitality and Love Story. I know the ending and need a night where crying again for JFK Jr. and Carolyn is okay. I lived that as a kid, so sad!!!

Reading: 
Finished Wildfire, which is a series and Icebreaker is the first. It was so good, and I really want to find a hockey player or a pitcher lol Now I am reading Torn and this one is sooooo good! I am back in my reading era! I love it

Listening to: Let’s Be Honest & Unwaxed, also there is a Poet Josie Balbka that is great too! 

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Let's catch up! I talk about the hilarious Girls "relaxing" getaway weekend. Adjusting back into my apartment, the chaos it has been.

Watching: RHOBH, kinda boring, Southern Charm is losing the charm, Craig is nuts, sorry. Love is blind was serving the Troll Chris, then Alex still sucked. Age of Attraction, now that is a fun show! I am wrong about everyone's ages! I can’t wait to see the rest of the episodes.

Reading: 
I am back in the mix of reading a lot! I finished Reminders of Him. I finished that book in 2 weeks and basically took myself on a date to go see the movie. I loved it and will wanna see it again with my friend when she finishes it. I am currently reading Wildfire, which is a series and Icebreaker is the first. I am ready to finish this by the weekend and start another

Listening to: Let’s Be Honest & Unwaxed, slowly getting back into them since I lately get over stimulated on my phone.  

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Well the curve ball that I was not expecting was to have my home, my apartment, my bachelorette pad get filled with water. That I would have to be out of it for a month while it's being repaired. We are safe, but we are in a hotel and things you realize you need, you're without, simple things and then also, simplify things in my own life. Maybe this was to teach me to be a bit more prepared. Also, forgot to mention, my bestie told me this is showing me one of my words on my next 6 months, how to Perseverance is being shown to me! 

Watched:

-Wuthering Heights, I could talk about this movie all day and have a whole episode on it. It’s ruined modern dating, the yearning, the love, the unexpected, the chase, the sadness of what you want but cannot get, the tragedy. I just LOVED it. 

I will add my new TBR list later, I will update with new shopping lists that will be helpful if you're ever in need. I will show you what I am in need of in these times.

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Oh boy, running into a Ghost is always fun, or is it? Let’s chat Valentines/Galetine’s Day and define talking stages …again! Why I deleted dating apps, what funny mischief will I experiment with now!

What am I watching: Traitors, The Rookie, Tell me Lies, Below Deck, Southern Charm, The Valley, Persians, Real Housewives: Beverly Hills (maybe that's it), Bridgerton!

Reading: The Housemaid, How my Neighbor Stole Christmas, Onyx Storm (yes still)

Listening to: New Heights, Let's Be Honest, Skinny Confidential Him & Her, Khloe in Wonder land, Unwaxed, The Breakdown with Josie Balka, Hot Mess, took a break on Call Her Daddy. 

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I am in a new spot! Home, in my office, welcome to Northeast Snowy ted talk on how to create the Life You See for YOURSELF, but NOW! 

Make the changes, make the moves, plan it out, do the damn thing. I made changes without even knowing in 2020, then I actually put the plan in action in 2023. Things do not just happen, you must plan ahead! I am now 2 years later and I am evolving more, making small changes to have the life I always wanted. I think my little bits of advice can help you make the changes, if you are looking to do that! (Episodes I refer to: Ep. 1 & Ep. 15 (there is other to detail more crazy)

What am I watching:

Heated Rivalry, Traitors, The Rookie, Tell me Lies, The Rip, Keeping up with the Kardashians, Below Deck Med, Southern Charm, The Valley, Persians, Real Housewives: Salt Lake City & Beverly Hills (maybe that's it), rewatch Stranger Things

Reading: The Housemaid, How my Neighbor Stole Christmas, Onyx Storm (yes still)

Listening to: New Heights, Let's Be Honest, Skinny Confidential Him & Her, Khloe in Wonder land, Unwaxed, The Breakdown with Josie Balka, Hot Mess, took a break on Call Her Daddy. 

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Let's chat about funny dating stories that I have heard about. My opinion on dating and why I feel someone becomes a ghost, the switch up is beyond easy to read and it's sad how predictable these dudes can be. Boy math jokes being read out loud! Boy Math edit: "wanting no kids, but doesn't bring condoms"! Linked: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTSfMqADNEn/?igsh=MWFvZzJidXNmOXc0dg==

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Let's recap what I did for a new traditions during the Holiday's, starting with Winter Solstice, why I took off from recording. What I did for Christmas Eve/Day, between the black hole before New Year's Eve/Day. Let's get to understand why starting traditions and incorporating self care is so important during this time of year. I made my dream board for January - June, selected my words for the year! What are your words? Let's manifest the best 2026 we can get!

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Wellll I am! I have big goals I want to accomplish! Just sharing the things that help me and who my medium is! What we have discussed. I will find a way to share my June-December vision board looks like on social media! 

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Let's chat about the Holiday's, things that I do that may help you if you're feeling stressed out! The Holiday's can be stressful and overwhelming, but they do not need to be! I Hope these help, they do wonders for me! I alter it all each year a bit. Where I donate to, what is coming up, touching on a few things that make me happy during the busy holiday season!

Wow let's discuss the Piddy Documentary 

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