In this emotional Mother’s Day episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee dive into the complicated feelings motherhood can bring — pride, guilt, grief, healing, disappointment, and unconditional love.

They open up about the pressure and expectations surrounding Mother’s Day, the pain of feeling unseen, and how becoming mothers changed the way they viewed their own parents. From difficult mother-daughter relationships to breaking generational cycles, this conversation explores how childhood wounds can shape adulthood — and how healing begins when we choose to self-reflect instead of repeat patterns.

The episode also touches on learning to let go of unhealthy relationships, parenting with emotional awareness, apologizing to your children, and raising kids differently than we were raised ourselves.

This is an honest conversation about motherhood in all its forms: the beautiful, the heartbreaking, the messy, and the healing.

Because sometimes becoming a mother forces you to finally confront the child within yourself.

Thank you for being here! And remember, you are NOT alone and you are Not done.

xxx Andrea & Kouelee

Here is where you can find us online:

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In this introductory episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee share who they are, where they come from, and why this podcast exists.

From divorce and motherhood to marriage, identity, and the unspoken realities women carry, this conversation sets the tone for what’s to come: honest, unfiltered discussions about life, relationships, and everything in between.

They open up about the shame and silence often surrounding divorce, marriage struggles, mom guilt, intimacy, and emotional honesty — and why they believe these topics need to be talked about more openly. The goal is simple: to create a space where women feel seen, understood, and less alone.

This is not about having it all figured out — it’s about sharing life as it is.

Because we’re not done.

Thank you for being here! And remember, you are NOT alone and you are Not done.

xxx Andrea & Kouelee

Here is where you can find us online:

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdonepod/

Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@shesnotdonepod

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In this episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee dive into the reality of modern motherhood, partnership, and the constant mental load that comes with trying to “do it all.” From working moms to stay-at-home moms, they unpack the invisible expectations, the guilt that follows every choice, and the impossible standard of being everything to everyone.

They talk openly about intimacy in long-term relationships, the struggle of balancing career and parenting, and the emotional weight of never feeling fully “caught up” at home or work. The conversation moves between personal stories and honest reflections on divorce, marriage, identity, and what it really means to be present.

At the heart of it all is one message: no matter what path you choose—working, staying home, or somewhere in between—you’re still not done figuring it out, evolving, and redefining what success and motherhood look like for you.

0:00 – 1:18 – Exhaustion, intimacy, and introduction to motherhood realities + hosts
1:18 – 4:14 – Mom guilt: real vs taught + expectations vs reality of motherhood
4:14 – 8:50 – Working mom vs stay-at-home mom + mental load and identity
8:50 – 12:32 – Parenting styles, judgment, and “I could never do that” comparisons
12:32 – 18:23 – Identity pressure, sacrifice, and the reality of doing everything imperfectly
18:23 – 24:20 – Mental overload, social media comparison, and constant judgment
24:20 – 30:11 – Career gaps, missed opportunities, and long-term trade-offs
30:11 – 38:20 – “She’s Not Done” mindset + emotional load in relationships and divorce dynamics
38:20 – end – Redefining guilt, presence, family life, and what quality time really means

Thank you for being here! And remember, you are NOT alone and you are Not done.

xxx Andrea & Kouelee

Here is where you can find us online:

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdonepod/

Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@shesnotdonepod

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SHE'S NOT DONE is the podcast for the woman who is rebuilding her life while still showing up for everyone else.

Hosted by Andrea and Kouelee, two mothers of two navigating different chapters (one married, one divorced) - this show dives into real conversations about motherhood, identity shifts, healing, ambition, and rebuilding when life doesn't look how you planned.

No pretending.

No sugarcoating.

Just honest conversations for women in their "figure it out" era.

If you have ever felt behind, overwhelmed, or like you're quietly starting over...you're not broken - and you're definitely not done.

If this resonated with you, then this is for you. 

New episodes weekly, starting May 12th, 2026.

Thank you for being here! And remember, you are NOT alone and you are Not done.

xxx Andrea & Kouelee

Here is where you can find us online:

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdonepod/

Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@shesnotdonepod

Youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/@Shesnotdonepod

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https://linktr.ee/Shesnotdonepod?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio