She’s So Blunt

the internet is so heavy again. this obsession with caresha is scary and ya'll are trying to write a thesis on sza. ya'll make me tired. spend some time with me focusing on everything you need for a successful 2023.
here's everything you need: 

• a planner you love
• mindset shifting
• routines
• mental check-ins

link to my planner: rifle paper co 17-month planner
let that shit marinate: the hard things lead to the good things. the seasons that test your strength, the situations that feel uncomfortable, and the decisions that require courage, are the very things that will lead you towards true fulfillment.

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brittney griner is coming home. sza has arrived & child locks in ubers are mad wild.
today i wanted to take a moment to chat with you all about openness and how we need to invite more positivity & "yes" into our lives. because what you speak, you believe, and what you believe you become.

did i mention?
jay shetty's on purpose podcast:  trevor noah's guest episode
new year's resolutions are overrated podcast episode

notes for uber safety: 

• be on the phone for real or for fake
• share uber / trip status
• share your apple location 
• check the child locks

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mia found audacity on sale for black friday, robin is a whole joke, gizelle wore a two-piece pant swimsuit & peter be in the women's business honey. i'm just sick of it all.

this is the exact reason why we need to chat about feedback & accountability. all feedback is good feedback. you can learn from it or you can get in your feels about it but it doesn't change how other ppl perceive you or how you present yourself 

let that shit marinate:
build a circle of friends who are genuine, who are safe energetically, who are mature spiritually, who hold space and not animosity, who hold compassion and not judgment, who take time to check on you and your process, who grow through life with you, and genuinely wish you well.

did i mention?
find me on tiktok: she's so blunt

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mantra: you will know what I choose for you to know. I do not owe you strength when I am weak. I do not owe you answers because you ask
and stop playing w me lol

learning to say no is a struggle but here's the questions you should ponder when you're thinking about whether you should say or no:

1. do i have time and space for it? do i feel like it?
2. does it align with my values and goals right now?
3. does this serve my energy? or does this deplete my energy?
4. i am being pressured into participating or showing up?

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you must learn to love yourself FOR yourself. nothing is guaranteed - including any relationship. so you must have enough self-love yourself to survive and protect yourself as well.

today we're chit-chatting about self-love and the power it has once you have it. self-love is truly the foundation before you can give or receive love from anyone else.

check out Gi's youtube channel: soul care | social media detox, ending out 2022, time alone, hearing from God

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there's no hbcu in the world like ours & there's definitely no homecoming like ours. prairie view a&m university celebrated homecoming this past weekend and as the first official homecoming since covid, this was one for the books.

join brandon and i as we recap our hbcu & 2k22 homecoming experience as pvamu alumni returning to the yard.  thanks, brandon for being a part of the show!

if you missed brandon's first episode on the show check it out here: EP 15

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ever wondered how to reinvent yourself? like really thought about how to transform your life? well here goes and cheers to being a better YOU.  to be honest, i'm on like my 6th life LOL -- today's takeaways on reinventing yourself:

• decide who it is you want to be 
• clear out your space and your inner circle 
• declutter emotionally
• is isolation necessary?
• having self-esteem & confidence

encouraging you all to be bold & brave!

check out this episode: your friendships have red flags
check out this episode: your friend circle has an energy leech
therapy resource for men: https://therapyforblackmen.org/
therapy resource for women: https://therapyforblackgirls.com/

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we have roughly ten weeks left in the year. shaaat. where did the time go? it's been chaotic, it's been challenging and it keeps changing. so how do we get back on track? 
i'll be doing a nine- week mini series that focused around how to reset, restart and recharge. today i'm shedding some light on the why and where we're heading as we gear up for 2023. as the takeaway reflect on a few things as we start this series:

• five things you are proud of 
• five things you like about yourself 
• five things you can identify as opportunities for yourself  

get ready because next week we're chatting on what it means to reinvent yourself and how you do it
did i mention?
hailey gamba's youtube 

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this is what choosing hard & choosing your heart looks like cheers to part 3! we're talking about what's next for dating and moving forward. would we consider getting married again? never say never! tune in to hear our closing thoughts, a close of a chapter, and a new beginning. 
"your self-love must be stronger than your desire to be loved"
 
if you missed the episode w brandon and I: check it out here
check out the episode "i'm content asf"
again, be sure to follow our bestie gang @jo.janay

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ready for part 2? let's go! we're discussing things we're accountable for and what's next for us in this new chapter

jordan stopped by to give her perspective on her healing journey as she navigated through her divorce from her marriage of 6+ years. so excited for her to share her story with me and where she is in this season. so grateful for her courage, authenticity, and her truth. we're both navigating into a new season hoping that in the end - you always choose YOU.
follow our bestie jordan on socials @jo.janay
did i mention?
the year of yes - shonda rhimes

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