She's The Realist On Relationships

It’s so easy to meet someone who is not available yet justify why you will allow him or her into your life anyway. Sometimes there is a table turned and they may leave to be with you. The question is, do you know what you’re getting?

What if you could physically and emotionally take back your love from someone undeserving that you wasted so much time on? Well unfortunately we can’t. But what we CAN do is forgive both them and ourselves, and being careful not to give ourselves away so quickly going forward. Keeping our love for the right person is very much realistic!

In a world of social media, the unrealistic demands for women to be perfect and look like the modified photo in magazines, and the dating website shenanigans, it throws trust and choosing the right partner out the door. Is anyone true anymore??

Our world and experiences shape who we are.  If you have had the privilege of people speaking life into you on a regular basis, if you have been in the most respectable marriages, friendships or relationships, and if you have basically had a really awesome life, you are blessed beyond measure.  Some people have experienced the total opposite, and many times over.  Listen as I share how I purged the negative things in my heart and mind, by facing my pain instead of trying to run from it.

We are all GOD’S children and we look up to our Shepherds to guide us and teach of GOD’S Word. We can’t picture them in any form of immortality. In this episode I talk about my first ever, experience with major deception that hurt my soul!

Don’t run from the pain or mask it with seat fillers to get you by after a break up. Allow your heart to stay open so that it can eventually heal. Grab your headphones! I’ll explain....

It’s ok if he’s not perfect, but if he’s not willing to meet you in the middle for what you’re looking for in a relationship, stop holding onto nothing!

This episode is to just tell the truth about what we are putting under our clothing, or a lack thereof, and causing ourselves to be looked at in a negative way. You want him to respect you? It starts with us! We have to respect ourselves.

My true story of how I got married 3 times without a proposal of any kind.  If you have ever known how it feels to be cheated on, you will also be able to identify with being short-changed or being cheated out of what should have been yours! This is the last episode for Season 1! We made it. Stay Tuned for Season 2!

Doesn't the title say it all? I've seen this scenario many many times, Please don't settle people! If you get what you really want the first time around, you will be content with what you have!