Hey gorgeous girl—today’s conversation is one that is essential, not just around Thanksgiving, but for a lifestyle!
I’m sitting down with my friend, Virginia Wear Kujabi—an international speaker, author, and host of The Formed Life podcast. We unpack what it really means to live a life of gratitude, and live life beyond a transaction--"I do this for you, and You do this for me, God!"
Virginia shares how her journey with gratitude began with a friend highlighting--"I don't see any gratitude in your life." Gosh! Don't we all need those kinds of friends!?!
Through that wake-up call, she discovered gratitude as a spiritual practice, not just a feeling. She walks us through how giving thanks, before seeing the outcome, opens our eyes to God’s fingerprints all over our lives. (For more on that, read Hebrews 11:6)
Virginia shares how gratitude has become a way life and a means of intimacy with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit!
This episode offers practical insights and tactics to try as you seek to add more gratitude to your life beginning today!
💛 Share this episode with anyone who needs a little more gratitude in their lives--which is most likely everyone you know! And go check out Virginia on IG @vwear, find her podcast The Formed Life, and pick up a copy of her book, In Everything Give Thanks! (links below!)
MORE ABOUT VIRGINIA!
Virginia Wear Kujabi is an international speaker, author, and certified spiritual director whose audiences have included the Colombian government and the NFL. She is the author of In Everything Give Thanks: A Guide to Transformational Gratitude and host of The Formed Life Podcast. In 2025 she launched The Formed Life, a movement equipping followers of Jesus with spiritual practices and creative resources for intimacy with the Trinity and formation like Jesus. Virginia lives, serves and creates in Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio with her husband and son.
Link to book on Gratitude  
In Everything Give Thanks: a Guide to Transformational Gratitude
https://www.amazon.com/Everything-Give-Thanks-Transformational-Gratitude/dp/B086Y6J4KG?crid=35WW0PX40BDU1&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.UrE9vCoeewIiNrBj9CgTkH_blxvY357eGX3_9inAtOYKytHcastvkBGaB4eMlce-eAESIeVmvcjkfzJrCiTEAc56oXNi6J2FDDpUqgGwHfA.9ZJPQKi_kAVcaD0gTwdA-2Mgy4aauFIAA_Eo16eWmWE&dib_tag=se&keywords=In+everything+give+thanks+virginia+wear&qid=1759932768&sprefix=in+everything+give+thanks+virginia+wear+,aps,107&sr=8-1&linkCode=sl1&tag=virginiakujab-20&linkId=56c47990cf5e8e5eaf9c1da2f04eebf8&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl

This week, we’re joined by the powerhouse herself, Lori Snyder — co-founder of The Luxury Exchange, former all-star college athlete, devoted mom of twins for 20+ years, and now a literal rock star business owner in the world of lab-grown diamonds.

Lori’s story is proof that you can reinvent yourself, rediscover your brilliance, and rise into a brand-new calling — even after decades outside the traditional workplace.

In this conversation, Lori shares:

✨ Her unexpected midlife pivot — and the quiet internal nudge that told her it was time to step back into a career
✨ What to expect if/when transitioning from full-time motherhood to entrepreneur (the fears, the excitement, the identity shift)
✨ The questions every woman should ask herself before making a big pivot
✨ How to discern the right path forward when you feel “out of the loop” or unsure where to begin
✨ Why midlife is one of the BEST times to start something new
✨ Practical steps to re-entering the workforce with clarity, confidence, and creativity
✨ How The Luxury Exchange was born—plus the fascinating world of lab-grown diamonds
✨ Ways you can work with Lori, connect with her, and even score some incredible deals on lab-grown diamonds

Lori brings honesty, humor, and so much heart to this episode. If you’ve ever wondered:

“What’s next for me?”
“Is it too late to pivot?”
“Where do I even start?”

…then this conversation is your sign. 🌟

Tune in and get ready to be inspired, encouraged, and reminded that reinvention is always possible — and sometimes, the best is saved for the second act.

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Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/loriksnyder1/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriksnyder/
The Luxury Exchange, Co-Founder
Director of Lab-Grown Diamond Jewelry
www.the-luxury-exchange.com

And if you want to save 10% on your next jewelry purchase, email her : [email protected]

and she will help you find (or design) the right piece!

In today’s episode, I sit down with grief coach and founder of Grace for Living After Loss, Kelli Nielsen — a woman who has walked through unthinkable heartbreak and still radiates hope.
Kelli lost her mother to suicide shortly after leading her to Christ…
Then months later, her teenage son died from an accidental overdose.
She knows the depths of grief — and the path to rebuilding a life filled with purpose, joy, and peace.
Kelli shares:
🕊 Her mission to flip the outdated grief narrative on its head debunk the idea that, "You will never get over losing someone."
🧠 What happens in your brain during grief — and how you can you retrain it to move from survival to restoration
🎄 Why the holidays trigger hidden pockets of grief — and Kelli’s simple, science-backed, faith-rooted strategies to walk through this season with grace
Through a powerful blend of faith principles and neuroscience, Kelli teaches practical, grounded tools for navigating grief — especially during the emotionally charged holiday season.

More about Kelli:

Kelli Nielsen is a grief recovery coach, speaker, and neuroscience expert who believes healing isn’t random — it’s strategic.
After losing her mother to suicide and her son to an overdose, Kelli refused to accept the belief that grief lasts forever. She combined faith and brain science to create The Grief Relief Process, a proven framework that rewires the mind for peace, purpose, and joy.
Kelli is on a mission to flip the outdated grief narrative on its head and show the world that the same brain that holds pain also holds the power to heal.
Connect with Kelli!
https://www.facebook.com/kellijnielsen/
https://www.youtube.com/@Graceforlivingafterloss
https://www.tiktok.com/@graceforlivingafterloss
Main Website: https://graceforlivingafterloss.com/
Details about her signature program: https://griefreliefaccelerator.com/home-page
You're Not Crazy, You're Grieving: https://griefassessment.com/book
Free Resource: 7 Mistakes Grieving People Make That are Keeping Them Stuck: https://griefassessment.com/7mistakes

🎙️ How to Date with Divine Clarity and Avoid the Holiday Hook-Up Hype
Dating in midlife doesn’t have to feel like a game of emotional dodgeball. In this empowering conversation, I sit down with Tara Brod, a certified dating coach and mentor for midlife women who are ready to date with confidence, clarity, and conviction.
Tara helps women rediscover their worth, release old dating patterns, and align with relationships that reflect their God-given value.
💫 In this episode, we dive into:
Where to actually meet good, quality men (yes, they exist!)
What stops women from finding true, lasting love—and how to break free from those patterns
Why your energy, confidence, and boundaries are more magnetic than any dating app
The truth behind Tara’s powerful reminder: “Let them find you—you’re the prize.”
If you’ve been tempted by the “holiday hook-up hype,” take a deep breath and tune in. This conversation will help you pause, pray, and date with divine clarity.
✨ Listen now—and remember, your value doesn’t decrease based on someone else’s inability to see it.
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podcast description/bio:
Tara Brod is a dating coach and the host of Talk with Tara, a podcast for women navigating midlife love, reinvention, and real-life relationships. Blending years of executive communications experience with coaching, Tara turns big ideas into practical steps—from first dates to lasting partnership—delivered with warmth, candor, and a dash of humor.

Connect on Instagram @talkwithtarapodcast or email [email protected]. Listen to Talk with Tara on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/talk-with-tara-dating-divorce-womens-midlife-wisdom/id1792462697?i=1000732690272

This summer, I hit a breaking point. Seriously, my friends wanted to admit me for professional help.

After my most recent breakup, I was on the verge of a breakdown. Not because a man had that much power over me —but because of what his leaving exposed within me.

The breakup wasn’t the cause of my pain;
it was the catalyst that cracked open the deep places of my heart —places where old wounds and patterns had been hiding for years.

So today, I’m sharing something deeply personal.
This isn’t for him, although it's addressed to him.
This is for the woman listening right now who knows that kind of ache — the anxious heart that just wants answers, the love that feels unfinished, the pain that God promises to redeem.

And this is not just for singles--I know married women who need this healing. 

If you’ve ever loved an avoidant,
if you’ve ever been ghosted,
if you’ve ever been left wondering what went wrong,
I pray this episode brings you comfort and clarity.

Because sometimes… God uses heartbreak to bring healing.

How do you manage life's disappointments? Hopefully better than I did.

In one of my darkest seasons, I resorted to blaming God for my mistakes. I wandered off course and like the prodigal child, I squandered what was my inheritance.

Then one day I heard a voice inside me said, "Go home."

It was a command to go home to Abba Daddy. 

I knew that life wasn’t supposed to be this way. 

I felt completely hopeless. Angry. Disappointed. I truly believed God had abandoned my prayers.

This was a tough pill to swallow, because I used to be Miss positivity, and I had a crystal-clear vision for my future—and pie-in-the-sky dreams and bold faith to believe that they would all come true. 

But fast forward nearly a decade later… and nothing looked the way I thought it would.

The fire fizzled. 

The hope faded. 

The faith? Well, I felt like I was just going through the motions.

I would complete my daily "spiritual checklist." 

And without clarity and faith to believe, I wandered off course. 

I tried so many different things—side hustle and  business ideas—thinking, “This is it! This will be the one!”

But deep down… nothing fit.

It felt like David trying to wear Saul’s armor to fight Goliath—uncomfortable, heavy, and completely wrong for the battle I was meant to fight.

I tried network marketing—2 different companies. 

Affiliate marketing—2 different companies. 

I was approved as an Amazon influencer. 

I invested in and shared digital marketing. 

And then, as I mentioned small odds & ends jobs and even drove DoorDash. 

Ms. Shine with Frannie was now delivering tacos instead of testimonies.

To say I was humbled is an understatement. 

I couldn’t help but think, “Lord, where are you?! How did I end up here? This is not who You called me to be!”

But here’s the good news: God never left my side. 

In that dark and disappointing season, He spoke to me so gently:

“I know you’re hurting and it feels like I’ve left you… but remember, no one shouts when they’re standing right next to you.” 

Sis, that Truth changed everything.

And I pray it is a word in season for you, too.

I realized God was faithful and just like His word said, "He would never leave me nor forsake me." 

He was closer than ever—quietly guiding me, refining me, and reminding me who I really am.

Through that process, I didn’t just find direction—I found my identity.

And now, I’m on a mission to help others do the same.

God wants to take all of your unique gifts, talents, and life experiences and partner with you to fulfill your purpose, calling, and assignment.

Here’s what I’ve learned:
 Your purpose is why you were created.
 Your calling is the unique way you fulfill that purpose.
 Your assignment is how you’re walking that out in this season. (And yes, it changes—just like nature's seasons do!)

So, sister, if you’ve been in a season where you’ve felt hopeless, disappointed, or even angry with God—if you’ve questioned your dreams, your direction, or your worth—please know this:

 God's got you. Remember—no one shouts when they’re standing right next to you.
 If you’ve been nodding your head while you've listening to this, it’s because this message is for you.This is your sign to join me for my free mini-masterclass:

 From Confusion to Calling: Step Boldly Into Your God-Given Destiny

Monday, October 27 | 8PM EST

Let’s reignite your fire and help you get clear on your purpose, calling, and assignment—and walk in confidence as the daughter of the King you were created to be. 

Email me at [email protected] and put the word DESTINY in the subject line and I will get you all of the details. 

Shine with Frannie 2.0 is here!

After a hiatus, the Lord directed me to come back to chat with you! This time is a little different--instead of focusing exclusively on health, we are talking A L L things midlife--in fact this is the place where mid-life meets more to life.

Let's claim our authority as daughters of the King and live in the fullness of who He created us to be!

Today's episode is a 30K ft. view of what's been going with Shine the last 6 months and how God might have a message for you with these specific reflection questions! 

Tune in today and share if you think this can help another.

Want to know more about my wellness supplement or the business opportunity (working from home!) OR the link for matchmaking membership?

Today's episode is bittersweet--I share the new assignments God is revealing to me to in order to complete my God-given calling. 

For now, grace has lifted from Shine, but God has opened new doors and aligned relationships for new and exciting endeavors. I share more about this revelation 

I pray that as you listen to this message, you glean wisdom from:

Take time to reflect:

I pray this episode blesses you, dear one. 

Until we meet next time, keep Shining! 

I am curious: when do you take down your Christmas decorations?

So often the spirit of generosity and Christmas giving and living seem to fade when we take the tree, lights and angels down and store them again until next year. 

In today's episode, I invite you to dive into Isaiah 9 again and see how you can call upon The Name above every other name and add light to the darkness that might be upon your life's circumstances.