shirley's feel notes

小时候为了要买偶像的周边商品，演唱会门票，或是那个已经瞄了好久的相机、iPod。大家都会到快餐店，商场不同的地方打兼职工。用汗水换来的第一份工资超有满足感。而在这同时我们也吸取到了一些宝贵的人生经验，让后来的我们做更好的准备。

以前的你，打过什么兼职工吗？

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拒绝正能量，我就是想哭，不然你想怎样！

这期节目感觉有点像在大暴走，这或许也是抒发情绪的一种方式吧。

Stop telling me to be positive, and let me cry for all I want. We've been told too many times to stop feeling all this emotions that made us uncomfortable.

This week let's talk about how to deal with our emotions. 

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情人节的仪式感，是鲜花与红酒，还是社交媒体上的恩爱照片？

这个星期，恋爱小能手Jasmine和我们一起聊聊女生在爱情前面想要的是鲜花还是收到礼物时，恋爱的感觉～

爱对了人，情人节每天都过。

Your SOP for Valentine day does it include flowers and wines or sharing nice photos on social media?

This week,  we invited a special guest, Jasmine who've been through various big and small celebration on V day to share her thoughts with us.

Do girls want gifts or do they like the feeling of receiving gift instead? 

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朋友的定义似乎因人而异。

有些人毫不计较为朋友两肋插刀，当成在社会上的家人。那当你向朋友挥挥手，希望从他身上得到一些帮助的时候，这算是利用吗？一段友谊要怎么维系，作为朋友就应该义不容辞地伸手相助吗？

这期节目我们来听听朋友间的故事，那些曾经说要朋友一生一起走的人，今晚不见不散。

The definition of friendship differs people to people.

Some of us give our all willingly, because we see friends as the family we never had.  But when we start signalling for help , hoping that our friends will lend us a hand. Can we consider this as a kind of exploitation?

How do we maintain a friendship? Are we expected to always give in our all?

In this episode,  let's look into various stories we had and those people that we used to call "bffs".

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你是否曾觉得，我都已经放弃了年少的梦想，规规矩矩的当着上班族。每个月拿着中规中矩的工资，升职加薪也逐步进行。但是心里总是有种空虚…

小时候说梦想的时候是憧憬，长大后说梦想，它变成了希望。似乎很美，但遥不可及…

这就是活着该有的样子吗？

Have you ever felt this way? You've already given up your dream, follow the "usual" and get a job, fetched a decent salary every month, then get that promotion and salary increment when the time comes. But there is always a kind of emptiness in your heart...

We used to talk about dreams like something we yearn for. But as we grew up, dreams became hope. It seems beautiful, but so out of reach.

Is this how life should be?

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你真的认识你自己吗？从什么时候开始、我们变得越来越提不起劲，也不是因为遇到什么特别不好的事情，但总会有那么点患得患失的感觉。这可能就是我们忘了怎么给自己一点爱，也忘了其实你不需要讨好任何人。自我价值是什么，或许你的定义与我们不同。

Do you really know yourself? Since when did we start to feel sick and tired over the things around us, not because of something particularly bad happened. But just feeling a little lost. Could it be because we forget to give ourselves some love? and also forgetting that you don't have to please everyone around you. So, what's your definition of self worth? 

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我们常说自己是单身贵族，不是不想恋爱，而是宁缺毋滥。这究竟是爱情真理，还是自欺欺人？这期节目，我们两位可爱的朋友来抗议单身，到底哪里错了？？

Are you waiting for love or afraid of falling in love? We’ve invited two of our lovely friends to talk about the single life, and trust me there’s nothing wrong being a single pringle!

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分手后当然不快乐，可是还能当朋友吗？曾经的海誓山盟，突然化为乌有，看着眼前的这个人成为你的过去。有的觉得做朋友只是因为还爱着对方，可是有的觉得只要理智的划清界限。作为朋友继续礼貌上的问候，也不难啊。

Break ups are painful. But does this means that we can only be foes after a break up? Are there any possibility that you both of you can remain as friends? Some feel that the only reason you stay as friends is because you still have feelings for each other, but is this a matter of feelings or the way you determine friendship. Doesn't sounds that hard right? 

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新年快乐！天啊～2021年了。对的人，你什么时候才会出现呢？
终于，多灾多难的2020年终于过去了。2021年真的会比较好吗？这期节目我们来探讨什么是对的人，还有Julia的妈宝前任！？
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Hello The Right One, it's about time you appear???

2021 Is finally here, but is it going to be better than 2020? I would so love to find out. This episode, we discuss the qualities of that we look out for in the perfect match, Julia's Mummy's boy ex and how to become the right one for our other half. Happy New Year folks!

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第一次约会总让人又惊又喜。有的人吃饭时咀嚼太大声，有的人第一次见面就要和你定终身。第一次约会到底应该注意什么，另一个人才不会落荒而逃？

First date is either full of surprises or nasty experiences. One of us faced stressful conversation and the other hates it when people eat too loudly. What’s your biggest deal breaker when it comes to meeting your first date?

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