Discussing post-church sexuality and shame. How we identify the "science" or ACTUAL logic behind the darkness of exploring sex inside our previous religious beliefs and now; the damper isn't just morality or belief. We go pretty hard in to what religion has left behind for us and where we picked it up- failures and wins. The resistance to commitment post-marriage and church, the resistance to being over-lorded, and the reason the blocks for presentness and owning your own body are gone.