Silly Sheep

In this episode, we take an honest look at the subtle (and not-so-subtle) things we lean on to get through hard days in motherhood. Whether it’s distractions, comforts, or habits we turn to in survival mode, these “crutches” can quietly become substitutes for the deeper strength and peace we truly need.

Together, we unpack what a motherhood crutch really is, why we reach for them, and how to gently shift our dependence back to Christ—the only source that truly sustains us. This episode invites you into freedom, awareness, and a renewed reliance on God in the everyday moments of motherhood.

Key Topics Discussed…

• What a “motherhood crutch” looks like in real life
• Common crutches (comfort habits, distractions, control, numbing)
• Why we turn to these things in stressful seasons
• The difference between healthy support vs. unhealthy dependence
• Re-centering our hearts on Christ instead of temporary relief
• Finding lasting peace, strength, and identity in God

Many moms rely on things like “coffee, shopping, or social media” to cope, but these only satisfy temporarily—true, lasting help comes from Christ 

Encouragement for Moms…

If you’ve been leaning on something just to make it through the day—you’re not alone. Motherhood is heavy sometimes. But you don’t have to carry it in your own strength or escape it through temporary fixes.

God meets you right in the middle of the chaos, the exhaustion, and the overwhelm. He isn’t asking for perfection—just your dependence.

_ _ 

Resources/ links:

Mark 2- story of paralytic

Mark 5- story of bleeding woman

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

Are you tired of feeling like nothing you do as a mom is ever enough? In this episode, Ashley and Amanda open up about their personal struggles with perfectionism and the pressure to “do it all.” They explore how perfectionism shows up in everyday motherhood and share practical steps to help you break free, embrace grace, and find joy in your journey.

Through biblical encouragement and real-life examples, this episode reminds moms that God’s grace is sufficient, and your worth isn’t measured by perfection but by faithfulness and love.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How perfectionism shows up in daily mom life
• Biblical encouragement for overcoming unrealistic expectations
• Practical steps to embrace God’s grace and let go of self‑criticism
• Ways to focus on faithfulness rather than flawlessness
• 
  

Scripture References:

• 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you…”
• Ephesians 2:8‑9 – Our identity is in Christ, not performance
• Philippians 1:6 – God’s work in us is ongoing and faithful

Practical Tips Shared:

• Rest in God’s love and mercy
• Seek accountability and support from trusted friends
• Embrace weakness as an opportunity for growth
• Focus on being faithful, not flawless

_ _ 

Resources/ Links:

Story from John 21:15-19

Biblical encouragement: 
1. 2 Cor 12:9- God's grace is sufficient
2. Eph 2:8-9- Our identity is in Christ 
3. Phil 1:6- Sanctification is a process

Practical steps to overcome perfectionism
1. Rest in God's love
2. Seek accountability
3. Embrace weakness
4. Focus on faithfulness, not flawlessness

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

The New Year is here—but some things never change! In this episode of Silly Sheep, Ashley and Amanda dive into what it really means to start a new year with intention, joy, and faith. They encourage listeners to reflect on what matters most, set meaningful goals, and embrace rhythms that support spiritual growth—all while keeping a sense of humor about the everyday chaos of life.

Whether you’re a mom juggling schedules or simply looking to approach 2025 with fresh perspective, this episode reminds you that you don’t have to have it all figured out to make this year count.

 Key Takeaways…

• New Year reflections: How to think about goals without the pressure of perfection.
• Spiritual rhythms: Simple ways to grow closer to God throughout the year.
• Faith over comparison: Focusing on your own path rather than measuring up to others.
• Practical encouragement: Tips for prioritizing what truly matters in your life and family.

Resources Mentioned…

• Dream Guide by Jennie Allen – clarifying personal goals
• Inventory Guide by Rebekah Lyons – assess your life patterns
• The Best Yes by Lysa Terkeurst – choosing what matters most

 Scripture Highlight…

Galatians 6:4‑5 (MSG) – “Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others.”

_ _

Resources/ Links:

Dream Guide- Jennie Allen
https://www.jennieallen.com/freebies

Inventory Guide- Rebekah Lyons
https://www.rebekahlyons.com/takeinventory

The Best Yes- Lysa Terkeurst book
Quote- " When a woman has an overwhelmed schedule, then she often has an underwhelmed soul."

Scripture Mentioned: 
"Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don't be impressed with yourself. Don't compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life."
Galatians 6:4-5 (MSG)

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

In this episode, Amanda and Ashley unpack the tension every believer feels between control and surrender. With Gospel-centered insight, they explore how our grip on control often stems from fear and insecurity — a struggle that dates all the way back to the Garden of Eden — and how true freedom is found when we surrender everything to Christ.

They reflect on motherhood, daily responsibilities, and the everyday moments where we try to hold tightly to outcomes… and where God invites us to release our grip and rest in His sovereign goodness.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode…

• Why we instinctively try to control our seasons of motherhood.
• How control can be an illusion — and what that means for our faith.
• The connection between surrender and trusting God’s character rather than our own strength.
• Practical ways to notice where we’re holding on too tightly — and how to shift toward surrender.

Things We Have Influence Over…

(As discussed in the episode)

• Our thoughts
• Our boundaries
• Our words
• Our behavior
• Asking for help
• Our choices
• Our friends
• Expressing our feelings

Things We Do Not Have Influence Over…

(Also discussed on the episode)

• The future
• Other people’s ideas
• The past
• Other people’s feelings
• The weather
• Other people’s thoughts
• Other people’s mistakes
• Other people’s actions or opinions

_ _ _
 
Resources: 
Ben Stuart quote- "When you cant see his hand, you can trust his heart."

Alyssa Bethke book, When Doing It all in Undoing You chart mentioned initially from Raising boys and Girls Podcast...
 
"THINGS I HAVE INFLUENCE OVER"
* my thoughts
* my boundaries
*my words
*my behavior
* asking for help
* my choices
* my friends
* expressing my feelings
* my goals

"THINGS I DO NOT HAVE INFLUENCE OVER"
* the future
* other people's ideas
* the past
* other people's feelings
* the weather
* other people's thoughts
* other people's mistakes
* other people's actions
* other people's opinions

Quote from "Risen Motherhood" book-
“Even when well-meaning plans fail, we can surrender our will, our desires, and our dreams to embrace whatever it is he’s doing in and for us. This kind of submission will move our hearts from drudgery to delight. What if we accepted the beauty that God, in his sovereignty, wants to cultivate something different than we expected in the hours of that missed nap? We might have a fussy toddler on one hip and a screaming baby on the other, but circumstances like these press us into the joy of sanctification that the Lord graciously ordained in order that we might look more like his Son. He isn’t asking us to go anywhere that he himself hasn’t been. Isn’t this what Jesus did for us over 2,000 years ago as he prayed, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done” (Luke 22:42). By his example, Jesus enables us to surrender everything about our lives for the sake of those around us (1 John 3:16).
This kind of sacrificial surrender involves prioritizing God’s agenda above our own, which often includes prioritizing the needs of those he has put in our homes above our own. As mothers, we know this isn’t always glamorous. But our Father orchestrated each of our lives—both the hard and the effortless— to remind us that every single thing on this earth is under his ultimate control (Ps. 103:19). And because of who he is—holy, good, merciful, just, loving, kind, omniscient, faithful, and wise, to name a few—we would do well to lose our lives for Christ’s sake, so that we might really find life (Matt. 10:39). Muc

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

This episode takes a deeper look at mom guilt — what it actually is, what tends to fuel it, and how to respond when those feelings show up. The hosts connect the topic with Gospel truths and biblical encouragement.

In This Episode…

In this episode, we dive into the tricky feelings of mom guilt that so many mothers face. We talk about:

• What mom guilt really is and why it shows up.
• How guilt can sneak into your daily routines, even in small moments.
• Real-life examples and experiences from everyday motherhood.
• How to connect your feelings with truth from the Gospel.
• Encouragement to stop letting guilt define your worth as a mom.
• 
  

What You Will Learn…

By the end of this episode, you’ll have:

• Practical ways to recognize and respond to mom guilt in your life.
• Biblical reminders about your identity and worth in Christ.
• Strategies to replace shame with grace and confidence.
• Inspiration to embrace imperfection without feeling like you’re failing.

- -

Gospel Mom quote- Risen Motherhood

Scripture References:
2 Cor. 12:9
Isaiah 43:1

The gifts of Imperfection quote:
“Shame hates it when we reach out and tell our story. It hates having words wrapped around it- it can’t survive being shared. Shame loves secrecy. When we bury our story, the shame metastasizes.”

Stats from Discipleship Parenting questionnaire on website 

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

In this special episode, we finally get to sit down with the woman who started it all — Kim Skinner, affectionately known as the original Silly Sheep! 🐑✨

Kim joins Amanda and Ashley to share her heart, her story, and the wisdom she’s gained over the years — from faith and family to the journey that inspired the Silly Sheep community. This conversation is full of encouragement, laughter, and Gospel truths that will bless your heart and inspire your walk with Christ.

Whether you’re a longtime listener curious about the roots of the podcast or a new friend looking for authentic encouragement in motherhood and faith, this episode is for you!

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

The holidays are quickly approaching, and this episode helps prepare your heart and mind for the season. The hosts focus on how to experience true joy and keep “the main thing the main thing” during the holidays — centering on spiritual preparation, perspective, and the Gospel rather than just seasonal busyness. 

In This Episode…

We dive into how to approach the holiday season with intentionality, peace, and perspective. Instead of letting busyness, stress, or holiday expectations steal your joy, we explore practical ways to keep Christ at the center and navigate family, traditions, and emotions in a meaningful way.

We also touch on how to manage overwhelm, guard your heart, and maintain the real purpose of the holidays in the midst of the chaos.

What You’ll Learn…

• How to prioritize your spiritual and emotional well-being during the holidays.
• Strategies to avoid holiday stress traps and manage family expectations.
• Ways to celebrate meaningfully without feeling pressured by perfection.
• How to center your heart on gratitude and the Gospel rather than just meals, gifts, or traditions.

Scripture mentioned: 
James 1:5 
Psalm 16:11
Ephesians 3:20

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

In this encouraging episode, Amanda and Ashley unpack one of the most common struggles moms face: comparing ourselves to others. They dive into the root insecurities that often fuel negative comparison and explain why it sneaks into our thoughts, especially in the day‑to‑day realities of motherhood. Through heartfelt conversation and Gospel‑centered perspective, the hosts identify practical pitfalls of comparing ourselves to other moms and offer daily‑life solutions that help shift our focus back to truth.

Throughout the episode, they remind listeners of who we are in Christ and who we’re made to be — grounding their insights in spiritual truth rather than cultural pressure. 

What You’ll Learn / Key Takeaways:

• Why comparison creeps into motherhood — the insecurity and expectations that fuel it. 

• Common pitfalls of comparison — how looking at other moms can lead to discouragement or self‑doubt. 

•  Truth‑based solutions — practical ways to fight comparison through your mindset and daily habits. 

• Identity focus — how remembering “who you are and who you’re made to be” helps silence unhealthy comparison. 

• Mentioned resources include a Desiring God article on comparison and Tim Keller’s The Freedom of Self Forgetfulness (with scriptural grounding in Phil. 2:3‑4). 

Why It Matters:

Comparison can subtly erode a mom’s joy and confidence, but when we anchor our identity in what’s true — not what culture, social media, or other moms seem to be doing — we find freedom, peace, and a healthier way to parent.

_ _

Sources/ Links:
Desiring God article:
"Comparison is Not the Thief of Joy"
https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/comparison-is-not-the-thief-of-joy

"The Freedom of Self Forgetfulness" book by Tim Keller

Scripture mentioned: 
Phil. 2: 3-4

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

Feeling overwhelmed as a mom can feel like a burden—but what if it could actually be a gift? In this episode, Ashley Skinner Hassel explores how moments of overwhelm can point us to deeper trust in God, greater humility, and spiritual growth. Instead of trying to power through, we can learn to lean into His strength and discover meaning in the messiness of motherhood.

In This Episode…

• Why overwhelm is a common experience for moms and why it isn’t a sign of failure.
• How societal and cultural expectations often fuel feelings of stress and inadequacy.
• Ways to reframe overwhelm as a spiritual signal, not just a personal limitation.
• Practical tips for leaning into God’s strength during busy and chaotic seasons.
• Biblical truths that remind us that weakness can be a doorway to spiritual growth.

What You’ll Learn…

• How to recognize overwhelm as a potential gift rather than just a challenge.
• How dependence on God can transform feelings of stress into opportunities for growth.
• The importance of pausing, reflecting, and connecting with faith when life feels too full.
• Practical ways to integrate Scripture and spiritual practices into your everyday mom-life.

Links/ Resources:
Ellie Holcolm song- "Fighting Words"

The concept of daily bread provided in Exodus represented by the miracle of manna from heaven. 

Bible Verses: 
2 Cor. 3:5-6
Psalm 46:1-2
Matt. 11:28-30
Psalm 55:22
Phil 4: 6-7
Psalm 139

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected]. 

In this episode, hosts Amanda & Ashley explore the idea of rest in the context of motherhood — something many moms feel they can’t afford. They dive into how our culture pushes hustle and productivity, why that keeps mothers overwhelmed, and how true, soul‑level rest is vital for emotional and spiritual health. 

In This Episode…

• A discussion on how “rest” and “motherhood” often feel incompatible — and why that’s not true.  
• Reflection on societal expectations that keep moms overly busy and stretched thin.  
• Encouragement to press pause — slowing down instead of powering through the to‑do list.  
• References to helpful books on boundaries, wise decisions, and emotional fatigue (like When Doing It All Is Undoing You and The Best Yes).  
• Scripture woven into the conversation (e.g., Mark 6:31 about Jesus inviting the weary to rest).  

What You’ll Learn…

1. Why rest matters in motherhood

You’ll hear why pushing through exhaustion isn’t sustainable, and why intentional rest is essential for a healthy mind, body, and spirit. 

2. How societal expectations affect moms

The hosts talk about how modern culture glorifies busyness and makes moms feel like they must “do it all.” 

3. What true rest really looks like

This isn’t just about sleep — it’s about soul rest, setting healthy rhythms, and letting go of the pressure to constantly perform. 

4. Practical encouragement you can apply now

Although they don’t give a strict checklist, you’ll come away encouraged to intentionally slow down, reframe rest as necessary (not optional), and lean on spiritual practices and supportive resources. 

_ _ 

Resources/ Links:
Alyssa Bethke book - "When Doing It All Is Undoing You" 
Lysa Terkeurst book- "The Best Yes"
Jess Connolly book- "Tired of Being Tired"

Scripture mentioned: 
1 Peter 4:10
Mark 6:31

_ _

Connect with us through instagram @sillysheeppodcast

_ _

Reach out with any questions or topic suggestions by email [email protected].