今天我们来学习“如何用中文婉拒” How to decline in Chinese
情况一、一个热情的销售,邀请你体验一个新产品 a passionate sales invites you to experience a new product
谢谢(xièxiè),我不需要(wǒbùxūyào)。Thanks. I don’t need it.
情况二、一个朋友请你帮忙 a friend is asking you for help
不好意思,我没有帮上忙
bùhǎoyìsī, wǒméiyǒubāngshàngmáng
Excuse me. I didn’t help.
我没有时间,但是我可以问问我的朋友
wǒméiyǒushíjiān, dànshìwǒkěyǐwènwènwǒdepéngyou
I do not have time, but I could ask my friend.
情况三、你很希望帮助某个努力的销售,但你并不需要这样产品 you want to help someone who tries very hard, but you don’t need this product
我不需要,但是我的朋友可能会感兴趣。
wǒbùxūyào, dànshìwǒdepéngyou kěnénghuìgǎnxìngqù
I do not need it, but my friend might be interested in.
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今天的课文:
谁都不喜欢被拒绝,因此,拒绝别人的时候,心里会有罪恶感。拒绝别人的时候,说话不要太直接,对方的感受会舒服一点。婉转地拒绝不需要的东西,或帮不上的忙,也会让你减少罪恶感吧!
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今天学了“如何用中文婉拒“,现在集中练习今天的单字:
1.帮忙 help / 帮不上忙 not able to help
2.我没有时间 I don’t have time
3.可能 might
4.谁都不喜欢 nobody likes
5.被拒绝 being declined
6.罪恶感 guilty
7.说话太直接 very direct in speaking
8.舒服一点 feeling a bit comfortable
9.减少 reduce
虽然最终还是拒绝了对方,因为说话的方式不同,感受也不大一样。
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