Sincerely, Future You

In this episode of the Sincerely, Future YouPodcast, Coach Jess talks about three examples of how people-pleasing is sneaking up on you and affecting your scalability. After listening to one of the podcast’s episodes, one listener was shocked by what Coach Jess discloses in her podcast. So, are we revealing salaries on the podcast now? Here, Coach Jess also talks about how vital transparency to business is, why your market shouldn’t include everyone, and how people-pleasing is wasting your time.

In this episode you will learn:

1. My truth lives in the past, present, and future
2. You should surround yourself with people who are transparent in business
3. Always saying “yes” is not scalable
4. 4 Things to Think About When Scaling Up Your Business: Money, Time, Delivery, Joy
5. Sneaky Examples of People Pleasing

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website:  https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram:       https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

The Life Coach School Podcast by Brooke Castillo:

https://thelifecoachschool.com/podcast/

The Perfectionism Project Podcast by Sam Laura Brown:

https://samlaurabrown.com/podcast

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There’s been a monumental shift in the workplace in recent years; people are quitting their jobs to start their own business. In fact, according to Google search queries in 2021 “the world searched for how to start a business more than how to get a job”. However, leaving your corporate job can be scary. Today, on the podcast Jessica speaks with Happester who just launched her own entrepreneurial journey. They talk about how coaching guided her decision-making process and helped lead her to her current role as a new CEO. From where she began to where she is now, Danielle is just one proof of how doing a total 180° is possible by simply making up your mind. Here, Danielle shares her thoughts on scheduling and how she suffered roadblocks with time, money, and mind drama.

In this episode you will learn:

1. The world wants to make you into just ‘one thing’
2. Rewiring your mind starts with a decision
3. Scheduling is a visual way of seeing where your day is going
4. Don’t beat up past self for the things that future self knows
5. Dwelling in the drama is easier than addressing it

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Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on: Website:          https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram:       https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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In this episode of the Sincerely, Future YouPodcast, Coach Jess sits down with Emily Fitzgibbon to break down how mindset plays in your branding in the digital space. Branding is what you and your clients feel about your presence on the internet or in person. If you’re having difficulty pinpointing that feeling, that may already be a signal for something. Today, Emily explains the areas of branding that you should care and not care about and the points wherein branding and thought management intersect.

In this episode you will learn:

1. Mindset affects your branding
2. Serving your client is not always pleasing them
3. Chances are your business pain points are your client’s pain points too
4. Branding yourself is an experiment
5. When to work with a mindset coach

About Emily Fitzgibbon:

Emily Fitzgibbon is a founder, creative junky, wine enthusiast, and a small-town girl with big-town dreams. She is the founder of Emily R. Fitzgibbon, LLC— a brand, web, and social design agency for the creative entrepreneur located in New York.

Connect with Emily Fitzgibbon on:

Website:          https://emilyrosefitzgibbon.com/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilyfitzgibbon/

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website:          https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram:       https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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In this episode of the Sincerely, Future YouPodcast, Coach Jess talks about three common reasons and examples why someone's thoughts aren't matching your thoughts. After giving a quick and important announcement on the closing of her Happyning Sessions, Coach Jess explains what time mastery and money mastery are and what's unnecessary to achieving them. Later, she also explains why it's important to stay neutral to efficiently tackle any source of confusion, whether in business or in general.

In this episode you will learn:

1. What happens in a Happyning Session?
2. What are time and money mastery?
3. When people are confused, it's not their nor your fault.
4. The only way to get a scalable business…
5. 3 Common Scenarios Where Someone's Confusion Might Get to You

About Jess McKinley:

Coach Jess McKinley is a Business Consultant, a Happiness Scientist, the Host of SincerelyFutureYou Podcast, and a Certified Life & Biz Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the founder of What's Happyning Coaching, which helps ambitious women make decisions today with their "Future You" in mind.

For Coach Jess, business isn't personal—but emotional. This is what entrepreneurs and corporate leaders struggle with every day. And this is also the motivation why Jessica works to demystify the role dreaded feelings play in each individual's business.

Mixing in humor with Positive Psychology and real business anecdotes, each episode of her podcast is an elixir that will leave listeners ready to master "all the feels."

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website:          https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram:       https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

Happyning Sessions closes on March 15, don't forget to grab your slot now:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

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He was 12, his mother was murdered by his father: He asked his future self for help. Today, Jessica McKinley is joined by Collier Landry, the host of the true-crime podcast, Moving Past Murder. They talk about what it means to have integrity and resilience while facing trauma. And how someone can navigate the boundaries between a personal story and business, and the angles that show how the impacts of crimes against life don't simply end with court verdicts.

In this episode you will learn:

1. Behind the murder in Mansfield
2. The point of the show, Moving Past Murder
3. How Collier found the courage to move past his trauma and start his business
4. The boundaries between trauma and business
5. Collier Landry – on growing up in front of an audience
6. There is distance between who you are and your circumstances

About Collier Landry: As the creator and subject of Investigation Discovery's A Murder in Mansfield, the documentary from two-time Oscar-winning director Barbara Kopple, a formally trained musician and photographer, he segued into filmmaking as a means to creatively express and deal with his own traumatic childhood story - the premeditated murder of his mother Noreen by his own father, Dr. John F. Boyle, Jr. - and to give a narrative voice to others in similar circumstances.  

At the age of 12, Collier witnessed the murder and chose to go to the police. After his father's arrest, he was abandoned by both sides of his family over the heinous crime and orphaned into the foster-care system. His mother's son at heart, this determined and stubborn child stood his ground and faced down his father as the prosecution's key witness during the month-long murder trial.

In the film, Collier returns to Ohio to retrace his past and confront his father, who, almost 30 years later, still remains incarcerated and in denial of his guilt. The film explores not only the collateral damage of violence and its traumatic repercussions but the beauty of human strength and resilience through seemingly insurmountable odds.

Connect with Collier Landry on:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/collierlandry/?hl=en

Listen to the Moving Past Murder Podcast:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moving-past-murder/id1551076031

 Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website: https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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Is hiring a bookkeeper still necessary if you’re already personally tracking your finance? In this episode of the Sincerely, Future YouPodcast, Coach Jess is joined with Natalie Wainger to talk about how to best work with a bookkeeper. After Coach Jess shares a toothbrushing experience that we can relate to how we handle business and finance, Natalie explains how mindset and numbers work together when it comes to managing the figures of a business and why you shouldn’t work with a pessimistic bookkeeper.

In this episode you will learn:

1. It’s easy for us to notice other people’s excuses but not ours
2. Natalie Wainger – my job is to do the backward thinking, looking, and organizing of numbers
3. How does accounting help you make advanced decisions?
4. Your bookkeeper needs to be either neutral or pro to your goals
5. As a woman, earning money and being self-supporting is feminist!

About Natalie Wainger:  

Passionate financial manager with 6+ years of experience maximizing the bottom line through innovative strategies to drive revenues, maximize profits, and improve business processes. I am a strategic, proactive problem solver who thrives when creating solutions from start to finish on complex, cross-functional business opportunities. Driven to utilize customer insights to improve the profitability of an organization.

Connect with Natalie Wainger on:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nlwainger/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliewainger/

Email: [email protected]

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website: https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

Listen to 3 Things Advanced Decision Makers DON’T Do:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/podcast/episode/e6064d53/80-3-things-advanced-decision-makers-dont-do 

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Entrepreneurs tend to fail when they set grand goals. “The model” is a tool that Jess, and other Life Coaches, use to help their clients find success. However, sometimes it doesn’t work. That’s why Jess uses a “secret 4th step.” She calls it the “let go.” In this episode, the profound topic of letting go, takes centerstage. Jess talks about how she incorporated what she learned from one of Oprah's Super Soul Sunday episodes, why she made it part of her coaching and how “letting go” can teach us all to focus on what we can control. (Not, on all the other stuff we can’t.) 

In this episode you will learn:

1. Coach Jess chooses not to work with family and friends
2. Some people get inspired and then lose the will along the journey
3. Why do you need to let go of the need for the goal to happen?
4. You are not the results you make
5. Creating results is partnering with reality

About Jess McKinley:

Coach Jess McKinley is a Business Consultant, a Happiness Scientist, the Host of SincerelyFutureYou Podcast, and a Certified Life & Biz Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the founder of What's Happyning Coaching, which helps ambitious women make decisions today with their "Future You" in mind.

For Coach Jess, business isn't personal—but emotional. This is what entrepreneurs and corporate leaders struggle with every day. And this is also the motivation why Jessica works to demystify the role dreaded feelings play in each individual's business.

Mixing in humor with Positive Psychology and real business anecdotes, each episode of her podcast is an elixir that will leave listeners ready to master "all the feels."

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website: https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

The Happter of the week: 

Ashley Ann Capone

Website: http://www.beautymarksnyc.com/ 

Instagram: @beautymarksnyc

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Sincerely, Future You is hitting a big milestone. To celebrate 100 episodes, host Jessica McKinley looks back at her favorite moments in the podcast that encapsulates the core of the show. Jess takes a moment to reflect how her life has changed and the goals she has accomplished since starting the show. We go back to the lessons that remind us of the power of podcasting, the essence of having an entrepreneurial spirit, what being determined truly means, and the type of control we have over our feelings.

In this episode you will learn:

• Running a podcast is a great way to record growth
• Coach Jess – on the revamping of the podcast
• Being an emotional leader/entrepreneur is not a bad thing
• Whether you think you can or cannot—you're right!
• Your thoughts create your feelings

About Jess McKinley:

Coach Jess McKinley is a Business Consultant, a Happiness Scientist, the Host of SincerelyFutureYou Podcast, and a Certified Life & Biz Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the founder of What's Happyning Coaching, which helps ambitious women make decisions today with their "Future You" in mind.

For Coach Jess, business isn't personal—but emotional. This is what entrepreneurs and corporate leaders struggle with every day. And this is also the motivation why Jessica works to demystify the role dreaded feelings play in each individual's business.

Mixing in humor with Positive Psychology and real business anecdotes, each episode of her podcast is an elixir that will leave listeners ready to master "all the feels."

Featured previous episodes:

Listen to episode 1:  Premium Emotions:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/podcast/episode/1c778bae/001-premium-emotions

Listen to episode 17:  From Losing Her Job to Creating Her Dream Future feat. Amanda Sannella:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/podcast/episode/1d9da896/017-from-losing-her-job-to-creating-her-dream-future-feat-amanda-sannella

Listen to episode 74: Setting Goals with Winning Intentions:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/podcast/episode/2c59d045/78-setting-goals-with-winning-intentions

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website:          https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram:       https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn:         https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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Do you miss getting dressed up for work? Ex-Google Executive turned Certified Life Coach Amy Young and Jessica McKinley have a vulnerable discussion about self-concept and self-image. In this episode of Sincerely, Future You, they discuss why getting dressed up for work, even if you're not going into the office can help ambitious women make more money. They also talk about the difference between the happiness you think you want and what makes you happy.

About Jess McKinley:

Coach Jess McKinley is a Business Consultant, a Happiness Scientist, the Host of SincerelyFutureYou Podcast, and a Certified Life & Biz Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the founder of What's Happyning Coaching, which helps ambitious women make decisions today with their "Future You" in mind.

For Coach Jess, business isn't personal—but emotional. This is what entrepreneurs and corporate leaders struggle with every day. And this is also the motivation why Jessica works to demystify the role dreaded feelings play in each individual's business.

Mixing in humor with Positive Psychology and real business anecdotes, each episode of her podcast is an elixir that will leave listeners ready to master "all the feels."

Connect with Amy Young 

Website: https://www.redefinepossibility.com/

Instagram:   

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website: https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube: https://youtu.be/fP41dgwA2lI

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess 

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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You can decide to be successful. Coach Jess shares the five things that'll help you make this year your biggest year for growth. After she gives Emily Fitzgibbon, our Hapster of the week, a beautiful shoutout, Coach Jess runs down on how you can focus more on your future and less on the present, what it means to invest in yourself, how you can commit to advanced decision making, why you need to own your time and money, and why you need to fall in love with sales in order to sprinkle in some fun, intention, and focus in your growth this 2022.

In this episode you will learn:

1. 80% focused on the future, 20% on the present
2. Investing BIG means different for everyone
3. Decision making isn't always about making the right decisions
4. Time and money should be the most important to you
5. Sales – your love letter to your client's future

About Jess McKinley:

Coach Jess McKinley is a Business Consultant, a Happiness Scientist, the Host of SincerelyFutureYou Podcast, and a Certified Life & Biz Coach for Women Entrepreneurs. She is the founder of What's Happyning Coaching, which helps ambitious women make decisions today with their "Future You" in mind.

For Coach Jess, business isn't personal—but emotional. This is what entrepreneurs and corporate leaders struggle with every day. And this is also the motivation why Jessica works to demystify the role dreaded feelings play in each individual's business.

Mixing in humor with Positive Psychology and real business anecdotes, each episode of her podcast is an elixir that will leave listeners ready to master "all the feels."

Hapster of the Week – Emily Fitzgibbon:

Website: https://emilyrosefitzgibbon.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyfitzgibbon/

Catch up with Coach Jess and Sincerely, Future You on:

Website: https://www.whatshappyning.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatshappyningwjess/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manningjessica/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Jf0PICsOH1HZJP97jrpng

Get business and life coaching by Coach Jess through:

https://www.whatshappyning.com/workwithjess

Book your FREE Mini Session now:

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/Pmcu5FLUdpOwYQLOJxfSYASkRyffKtJ

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