Hey, there single lady! As an older single, I remember feeling at times as if all the good men were taken.

This week, I received another message from a woman who asked, where are the guys who are committed to honoring a woman, being a provider, and who believe in chivalry? Instead, all I seem to attract are men who are needy, weak men who don’t have their lives together and who are always leaning on others. There aren’t any strong men anywhere. 

So, what do you do when you feel as if all you’re attracting are guys who aren’t the kind of men you’d like to marry, the men who are needy and for a lack of better terms, don’t seem like they have grown up? 

In this episode of the Single Over 30 podcast, I want to give you several tips if you can relate.

My husband, Clark  and I also made a new video for you. It’s called, “4 Ways to Talk to Men to Get the Relationship You Want.” In it, we share 4 different common scenarios in which the words you use can help you become more attractive to men without losing your self-respect. 

To watch this special video visit singleover30.net/talk. 

Hey there Single Lady! One of the things that has come up with the onset of online dating is long distance dating. Many singles ask the question, “Should I long distance date or not?” and they have some concerns about it. So if you’re wondering, “Is this something I should do, or not?” I want to give you 4 tips that will help you decide if you should long distance date—or not—and a bonus tip.

Check out the video 4 Ways to Talk to Men (to get the relationship you want) by visiting
 singleover30.net/talk

The dream you have to love --and be loved--is possible!

In this special episode of Single Over 30 my husband, Clark, joins me to talk about the best way to draw a man to you and one way that will push him away. Women push men away in this way all the time without even realizing it. You can avoid it, and become more attractive to men. 

To learn more about how to become more attractive to men by how you talk to men, check out my new video "4 Ways to Talk to Men (to get the relationship you want)" by visiting singleover30.net/talk. 

First dates can be nerve wracking, especially if you’re shy, if you have had some relationships that ended poorly, if you feel like you don’t know how to date (you’re just getting out there after a long dating sabbatical) or if you’re anxious about a date working out. 

First dates can also be frustrating if they go poorly. After all, you’d really like to meet a trustworthy, marriage-minded man. 

In today’s episode, I am going to give you 5 positive actions you can take that will help when you're anxious about first dates, or if a first date goes badly so that dating doesn’t make you want to run the other direction. 

Download my Safe to Love Worksheet, which includes 12 Questions to help you open your heart to a marriage-minded man, by visiting SingleOver30.net

The dream you have to love-and be loved-is possible! 

Dating and relationships can be fun—and sometimes confusing. Perhaps you’ve talked with a man a few times or gone out with him a few times and he isn’t meeting your needs. Maybe he’s not doing or saying something that you want him to. 

How do you handle this? Should you mention it to him, or cut him loose? 

I will answer that question today. 

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I used to think a woman was attracted to a certain type of guy because she has particular preferences. She just happens to like someone tall, someone short, someone dark, someone blonde, someone thin, or someone husky.

But I never considered that the attractions we have—or the types of men a woman is attracted to—can say something deeper about what she feels she needs.

The type you’re attracted to can say something pretty significant about you. You’re going to find out what today and why it matters in a pretty big way in relation to the success of your dating and relationship life.

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Knowing when to become exclusive with a guy can be so confusing. 

Some people will say that you should date for several months before becoming exclusive, or for six months. There are all types of time frames that you may have heard about how long you should know a man before becoming exclusive. 

Other people say that they are exclusive from the beginning because they are loyal and how can you get to know someone if you aren’t exclusive from the beginning? 

Others say that it doesn’t matter how long you know one another before you exclusively date if you just feel that it’s right, if the chemistry is good. 

The correct answer isn’t any of these things. I share the answer on today's podcast.

Get my free download, "How Fast is Too Fast?" right here. 

Attraction can be so confusing. How much should you be attracted? How long should you wait to feel attracted? Should you immediately be attracted? In today's episode, I share an email that I received from a woman who was grappling with all of the above--and I provide several practical tips to help you answer these questions so you can date with greater clarity.

Head on over to SingleOver30.net to get more free dating and relationship advice. 

Sometimes women struggle with the fear of making a poor relationship choice. If you find yourself worrying that you're going to choose the wrong man, if you find yourself saying that your "picker is broken" or if the thought of committing makes you feel anxious because you don't trust yourself to make a good choice, then this episode is for you!

Check out SingleOver30.net for your free, 30-minute Breakthrough Session.

The dream you have to love--and be loved--is possible! 

If you want to find your Mister, this episode is for you! In it, I share the #1 Mindset to adopt to improve your opportunities to find the love you desire. 

I also share a wonderful love story about a couple that committed to this mindset and now they are happily married! 

For more free, dating and relationship advice, please visit singleover30.net.