Sips with shay

I have a question, do you ever really lose yourself? In this podcast I speak about how once you come to peace with knowing wherever you go there you will be, you start to treat yourself better and want to treat yourself with care.

When was the last time you made a firm decision if you lived by you no matter how scared you were? And this podcast I speak about my experience while learning that I do have my own voice and I can live with in it instead of in other peoples voices. In this podcast I speak about the power of making decisions and you find yourself when you look within yourself instead of outside of yourself.

I have seen so many people talk about the power of healing and what it looks like in feels like. Yet there is a different energy where so many people are stuck in the wheel of healing that they never really aim to be healed. In this episode I speak on if you are generally ready to heal yourself. If you are genuinely ready to become the person you see yourself as. So many of us dance with chaos that the reality of us genuinely healing scares us so we just continue to rotate in the lessons that we’ve already learned. Let’s sip on some good tea and talk about it.

So many of us get upset when we get distracted. Yet we need to be asking the question, what is this distraction teaching me or trying to tell me? Now old distractions are bad distractions. Some distractions come as a sign that you are about to elevate and you have to pass this test. While some distractions come in the form of family. Sip with me and let’s break it down.

Have you ever ask yourself what is your attachment style? I know for me I found out recently that I have a preoccupied attachment style. I will go into attachment styles at a later time but for today this episode speaks about having a pre-occupied attachment style. This opens the door to realize that when somebody leaves your life have you noticed that you just feel like you can’t function? Or have you realize that when people come you become super clingy and attached to them? If any of these apply to you then sit down bring your tea and let’s sip on this good information.

So many of us want to express how we feel to our mother about the absence we felt growing up yet we never felt like we had a safe space to do so. And this episode I have an amazing guest named Nella who comes on to share her experience with her mother and how she wish things were different. Sit down sit some tea and let’s talk about our ability to heal together.

Mothers play a critical role in the development of a child. But the question is, what happens when your mother did not provide you with the attention and care that you truly believed you deserved as a child? So many of adults believe that they have issues as adults when the reality is they have issues with their mothers that have trickled into their adult side and they are still trying to figure out how to mother them selves. And this episode we open up the door to express how important it is to have the care of the mother and the effects it has on the soul being born.

Have you noticed that you were in a psycho where every time you were about to do something amazing you fall backwards into habits that are detrimental to your growth? In this episode I will dive into how we entertain fools gold hoping it’s the real thing. Speaking on how cycles actually keep us in our comfort zone in a can interfere with our ability to grow. Let’s sip on some healing tea and break the cycle’s together.

So many of us think and believe that we have big faith yet the reality is we have big attachments. It is time to step into the power of detaching from everything and everyone which no longer serves you and you know your creator is elevating you from. Even though your creator has blessed you with the very thing you have asked for, sometimes your creator will ask you if you can detach from that very thing.

As we walk into 2021 there is so much to be mindful of for the year 2020. Some of us have lost loved ones, some of us have started a new business is, some of us have started a new relationships, some of us have gotten rid of all relationships and some of us have tapped into our healing abilities. This episode opens up the door to expressing what I have learned this year and what I hope to continue for the next year. I hope that you enjoy this podcast.