Sisters On The Front Lines Podcast

In this episode, I am joined by Sara Brewer, a certified life coach and host of the Overcome Pornography For Good Podcast. She has helped hundreds of people break free from pornography FOR GOOD.

We discuss how to mindfully manage urges to view pornography and what long-term solutions actually work (and which ones actually...don't). Sara preaches a message that is "Shame Free and Sex Positive." (Amen?!) We discuss how to dive into the roots of pornography use to solve the real underlying problems.

Do not miss this episode! Thank you so much for coming on Sara and thank you for all you're doing to change lives!

Overcome Pornography For Good Website: https://www.sarabrewer.com/

Overcome Pornography For Good Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/390wUtw09EFJY8jFYfbqMF?si=edec5e8584244951

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Brian Willoughby, a BYU professor in the School Of Family Life focused on healthy relationship formation. He also works with the Wheatley Institute at BYU and is an associate editor at the Journal of Sex Research.How do I tell the person I'm dating that I'm struggling with pornography? Should your spouse be your accountability partner? How do we actually quantify the statistics regarding the percentage of people who "struggle" with porn use? How do we define "pornography"?Find out in this episode.Thank you for joining me Dr. Willoughby and thank you for the good work you're doing to research and educate on this topic!

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Brian Willoughby, a BYU professor in the School Of Family Life focused on healthy relationship formation. He also works with the Wheatley Institute at BYU and is an associate editor at the Journal of Sex Research.

How do I tell the person I'm dating that I'm struggling with pornography? Should your spouse be your accountability partner? How do we actually quantify the statistics regarding the percentage of people who "struggle" with porn use? How do we define "pornography"?

Find out in this episode.

Thank you for joining me Dr. Willoughby and thank you for the good work you're doing to research and educate on this topic!

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Julie Fraumeni-McBride. Dr. Fraumeni-McBride did her dissertation on “Women’s Pornography Use and Sexuality Education in U.S. Public Schools” and is extremely well-versed on this topic. She is also the Director or Research & Development, as well as a founder at The Steadfast Institute, an organization which provides effective porn recovery programs. We talk about how female porn use differs from male porn use, effective ways to treat unwanted porn use, and how different types of sex education in the U.S. correlate with porn use. It's hard to find solid data when talking about porn use, as it has not been heavily researched. I am so grateful and honored that Julie was willing to join me for this episode!

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Julie Fraumeni-McBride.Dr. Fraumeni-McBride did her dissertation on “Women’s Pornography Use and Sexuality Education in U.S. Public Schools” and is extremely well-versed on this topic. She is also the Director or Research & Development, as well as a founder at The Steadfast Institute, an organization which provides effective porn recovery programs.We talk about how female porn use differs from male porn use, effective ways to treat unwanted porn use, and how different types of sex education in the U.S. correlate with porn use.It's hard to find solid data when talking about porn use, as it has not been heavily researched. I am so grateful and honored that Julie was willing to join me for this episode!

In this episode, I am joined with Amanda, the co-founder of The Victory Collective, a Christian ministry on a mission to help girls who are struggling with pornography know that they are not alone.

Amanda dives into the "why" behind The Victory Collective and what her journey to overcome pornography has looked like. She also talks about her ministry, and the many amazing resources contained in it.

Amanda, you have such a beautiful soul and light about you! Keep up the amazing work, I love you!

Follow The Victory Collective on IG:

https://www.instagram.com/the_victory_collective/

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In this episode, I am joined with Amanda, the co-founder of The Victory Collective, a Christian ministry on a mission to help girls who are struggling with pornography know that they are not alone.

Amanda dives into the "why" behind The Victory Collective and what her journey to overcome pornography has looked like. She also talks about her ministry, and the many amazing resources contained in it.

Amanda, you have such a beautiful soul and light about you! Keep up the amazing work, I love you!

Follow The Victory Collective on IG:

https://www.instagram.com/the_victory_collective/

Get 1 Month Free of Accountable2you:

https://accountable2you.com/?code=85915913

On this episode, we take the name "Sisters On The Front Lines" pretty seriously. For one, Fynlee is my sister. And, being 14 years old and surrounded by social media and mixed messages about porn use and sexuality, she is absolutely a warrior on the front lines.

Tune in to hear about how she first encountered pornography, what the conversation about porn is like in middle school, and how she finally worked up the courage to tell someone.

Fynlee, you've got some serious guts. I'm so proud of you and so happy to call you my sister! I love you!

Things we referenced:

• Unalone Club Meeting with Geoff Steurer: https://drive.google.com/file/d/13bpOBNGAFvXtsgoEX4k1hIBWsKb1Qaml/view?usp=share_link

• There Is Only War Text: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TbVZ_CVQSrZlnv4ltfmiyr1273JOGn7OZNTlxm9jaT4/edit?usp=sharing

• Atomic Habits - James Clear

• "Knowing that the adversary could attack at anytime should not push us to live in constant fear, but with constant confidence." Instagram Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/ColCNWRPeO6/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet

In this episode, I am joined by Eliza. She is a BYU student planning to major in dietetics.

She first started struggling with sexual thoughts from a preschool age and, as she was never given the "birds and the bees" talk, natural curiosity quickly took over and led to porn use and masturbation.

We talk about worthiness and not taking the sacrament, how eating disorders and compulsive, unwanted porn use have a lot in common and what relapses after a mission look like.

Follow Eliza on Insta:

@eliza_shares

@eliza_cosette

Thank you for joining me Eliza, I love you!

In this episode, we hear from Chloe Dalton, a 23 year old who found porn at 8 years old. She struggled in silence for 7 years until she finally started speaking up to her friends, in her classes, and in her ward.

She shares how repentance has changed her for the better and references a Hank Smith talk that talks about being "rebuilt through repentance" and references a girl who struggled with pornography. For her, this was exactly what she needed to hear in order to start her path on repentance.

John Gottman 5:1 Ratio:https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-magic-relationship-ratio-according-science/

Thank you for joining me Chloe, I love you!

Keep up the good fight on the front lines.