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  • "You're Not Lazy": The Truth About Growing Up Disabled

    Welcome to week three of Spina Bifida Awareness Month!

    In this episode, Faith and Zara dive deep into the unfiltered day-to-day experiences of living with a disability. From unpacking the stigma of using a wheelchair to navigating corporate office environments; Zara keeps it completely real. 

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review and follow us on Instagram!

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    40 min
  • Living Beyond a 18-Year Life Expectancy | 15 Surgeries, Brain Shunts & Fighting for the Right Wheelchair

    Welcome back to Sit Down With Us!

    In part two of our Spina Bifida Awareness Month series, Zara shares the unfiltered details of her personal medical journey. Born unexpectedly with Spina Bifida, Zara underwent 10 to 15 surgeries before she was three months old, was given an 18-year life expectancy, and proved medical predictions wrong at every turn.

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review and follow us on Instagram!

    Resources & Charities Mentioned
    Shine Charity UK

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    43 min
  • Spina Bifida 101 | Starting Spina Bifida Awareness Month

    Welcome to October and the start of Spina Bifida Awareness Month! 🎙️✨

    In this kickoff episode, Zara takes center stage to explain Spina Bifida in everyday terms. From her diagnosis at birth at the L5 vertebra to living with a VP shunt and driving with hand controls, Zara breaks down what the condition actually means in day-to-day life.

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review and follow us on Instagram!

    Resources & Charities Mentioned:
    Shine Charity UK

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    27 min
  • "You Don't Know Who You're Inspiring"

    It’s the final day of September, and we are wrapping up our Alopecia Awareness Month series! 🎙️✨

    In this episode, Faith and Zara reflect on the journey of finding support, navigating wig options, and building community. Faith breaks down how salon experiences have evolved through organizations like Novo Cabello, why Little Lady Locks is every 10-year-old girl's dream, and the surprising sensory reality of living without hair.

    Stay tuned as we transition into October for Spina Bifida Awareness Month with Zara!

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    🔗 Resources & Charities Mentioned:
    Alopecia UK
    Little Lady Locks
    Little Princess Trust
    Novo Cabello

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    25 min
  • Why I Refuse to Wear Wigs or "Fix" My Hair Loss

    Welcome to week four of Alopecia Awareness Month! 🎙️✨

    In this episode, Faith and Zara explore the reality of navigating life fully bald. Faith breaks down why she gave up wigs cold turkey, how she stopped fearing public stares, and why confidence isn't about being 100% happy every day, but about training yourself to set strong boundaries.

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review and follow us on Instagram!

    Resources & Charities Mentioned:
    Alopecia UK
    Little Lady Locks
    Little Princess Trust

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    26 min
  • High School Rumors, Stage Accidents & Shaving My Head

    Welcome to week three of Alopecia Awareness Month! 

    In this episode, Faith opens up about her complete shift from hiding her hair loss to shaving her head and learning to love her alopecia. 

    From school uniform headband hacks to handling high school rumours and facing a dancer's worst nightmare during rehearsal, Faith shares the raw, emotional, and empowering moments that led her to take control of her identity. 

    If you have questions or want to share your own story, leave a review or message us on Instagram! 

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    35 min
  • The Truth About My Alopecia Diagnosis

    Welcome to week two of Alopecia Awareness Month!

    This week, Faith is sharing the full story behind her diagnosis—including the shocking way a doctor broke the news to her when she was just 10 years old. We're discussing medical trauma, unhelpful GP appointments, navigating treatments like steroid creams, and the reality of being discharged from NHS dermatology while still living with active hair loss. 

    If you have questions or want to share your own experience, leave us a review or DM us on Instagram!


    Resources & Charities Mentioned

    Alopecia UK

    Little Lady Locks

    Little Princess Trust  

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    35 min
  • Alopecia 101 | Alopecia Awareness Month

    Welcome to September, Alopecia Awareness Month! 🎙️✨

    To kick off our 5-Wednesday theme, Faith is taking us back to the basics with Alopecia 101. We're opening up about what alopecia actually is, debunking big myths (like the idea that hair loss is always down to stress), and sharing the realities of navigating childhood hair loss, wigs, and autoimmune conditions.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    • The textbook definition and different types of hair loss (Areata, Totalis, Universalis, Androgenic)
    • Faith's personal story of discovering her first patch at 10 years old
    • UK & global hair loss statistics
    • The impact of social media and finding the online community
    • Incredible charities doing work for young girls and boys experiencing hair loss

    If you have questions or topics you'd like us to cover during September, leave a review or send us a message on Instagram!

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    🔗 Resources & Charities Mentioned:
    • Alopecia UK
    • Little Lady Locks
    • Little Princess Trust

    Follow us for more:
    📸 Instagram: @sitdownwithuspod @faith_hiles @zaraborji
    🎵 TikTok: @sitdownwithuspod

    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    33 min
  • Our Childhood Losses

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    37 min
  • Curiosity vs. Bullying: Where Do We Draw the Line?

    In this episode, we're diving deep into the fine line between genuine curiosity and outright bullying.

    Is it okay for strangers to ask personal questions about a disability or visible difference?

    How do we handle innocent questions from kids versus invasive or harmful behaviour from adults?

    We share our personal experiences with, navigating childhood vs. adult curiosity, confronting staring, unsolicited advice, and gaslighting.

    It’s a candid, honest conversation about setting boundaries, respecting individual differences, and understanding that disability and visible differences aren't open for unsolicited fixes. Next week, we'll be discussing inclusion and exclusion in schools, so make sure to subscribe and stay tuned!


    NEED HELP OR SUPPORT? 

    If you or someone you know is experiencing bullying, discrimination, or mental distress, please know you are not alone. Reach out to the resources below for confidential advice and support: 

    National Bullying Helpline (UK)

    Childline (Support for young people under 19) or Call: 0800 1111 

    Anti-Bullying Alliance 

    Mind (Mental Health Support) 

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    #DisabilityAwareness #Alopecia #ZaraAndFaith #WheelchairLife #Inclusion #RepresentationMatters #Podcast #ZebedeeModels

    36 min

About Sit Down With Us

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Hosted by Faith & Zara

Welcome to the conversation where we trade filters for reality. 


Sit Down With Us is a warm, honest, and fun look at disability…