In this episode of SkillCast by LOSD, Nurbanu Somani speaks with Agnes Lai Ying Ng, an Australia-based speaker, coach and finance professional who supports women through major life transitions.
After losing her husband five years ago, Agnes had to rebuild her life as a single mother raising two children, including a neurodivergent son.
Although her son received support from healthcare and therapy professionals, Agnes recognised that the mother’s emotional needs could easily be overlooked.
This inspired her to establish *She Matters 2*, a community initiative for mothers caring for children with autism, ADHD, neurodivergence and other disabilities.
Agnes discusses cultural stigma, the fear some families experience when disclosing a child’s additional needs and how personal experience taught her to replace judgement with compassion.
She also shares three important lessons for navigating change: rediscover who you are, understand your goals and refuse to give up when another storm arrives.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Welcome to SkillCast Season 7
00:48 Introducing Agnes Lai Ying Ng
00:54 Clothing, colour and mood
01:40 How colour influences emotion
02:17 Dressing authentically
02:44 Agnes’s background
03:04 A career in finance
03:19 Losing her husband
03:29 Becoming a single mother
03:39 Raising two children through change
04:04 Supporting women facing major transitions
04:58 The first steps after life changes
05:20 Processing difficult emotions
05:27 Rediscovering your identity
05:53 Setting clear goals
06:00 What resilience really means
06:19 Avoiding comparison
06:28 Raising a neurodivergent child
06:38 Building resilience through adversity
07:07 Identity, goals and perseverance
07:21 Supporting her son
07:38 Accessing therapy in Australia
07:50 Who supports the mother?
07:58 Transitioning into secondary school
08:19 Creating “She Matters 2”
08:27 Supporting mothers and carers
08:40 Building a safe community
08:49 It is okay not to be okay
09:01 Support networks in Australia
09:21 Cultural attitudes towards additional needs
09:37 Fear surrounding disclosure
10:20 How openness creates understanding
10:29 Replacing judgement with compassion
11:03 Mothers sharing their experiences
11:52 Everyone has an unseen story
12:09 Choosing kindness
12:45 Welcoming international travellers
13:06 Coaching across generations
13:27 Cooking and community
14:05 Supporting young travellers
14:41 Forgiveness, fulfilment and finance
14:56 Financial confidence for women
15:06 Connecting with Agnes
15:13 Closing reflections
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