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Raising Good Friends: What We Didn’t Learn (But Our Daughters Need to Know) 

Most of us were never actually taught how to be good friends—we were taught to be nice, to include others, and to keep the peace. But no one showed us how to handle jealousy, navigate conflict, set boundaries, or speak up when something doesn’t feel right. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about what we didn’t learn growing up—and why it matters now more than ever as we raise the next generation of girls. 

From childhood friendship struggles to adult relationship patterns, they share personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and honest conversations about how friendships shape our lives. They also break down how parents can help their daughters build strong, healthy, emotionally safe friendships—without losing themselves in the process. 

You’ll hear real talk about: 

•  Why “being nice” isn’t enough in friendships 
•  How to teach kids emotional awareness and boundaries 
•  Why conflict resolution is a skill every child needs 
•  The impact of social media on modern friendships 
•  How to help girls handle jealousy, exclusion, and comparison 
•  Why not every friendship should end when things get hard 

If you’ve ever struggled with friendships—or want to raise daughters who won’t have to unlearn what you did—this episode is for you.
 
Because friendship isn’t something we’re just supposed to “figure out.”
 It’s something we should have been taught.
 

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Friendship Bucket Lists: How to Stay Close, Make Memories, and Grow Together Over Time 

Bucket lists aren’t just for life… they’re for friendships too. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down why bestie bucket lists become essential as we get older—and why friendships don’t stay strong by accident anymore. 

When we’re younger, connection is effortless. We’re in the same places, living the same seasons, building memories without even trying. But as life evolves—careers, families, responsibilities—friendships can quietly drift… not because the love is gone, but because the intention is. 

This episode is all about changing that. 

Jennifer and Jackie share real stories (including the legendary hike up a mountain to hang their class year in their late 40s 😅), plus how creating intentional experiences keeps friendships alive, deep, and meaningful. 

They dive into: 

•  What a bestie bucket list actually is (and why you need one now) 
•  The difference between living life together vs. planning it on purpose
•  Types of friendship bucket lists: fun, connection, growth, healing, and legacy 
•  Why shared experiences matter more than just “keeping in touch” 
•  How to create memories that last into your future (hello retirement home stories 👀) 
•  Why it’s never too late to start doing life with your friends again 

Because the truth is—
 Friendships don’t fade from lack of love…
 They fade from lack of intention.
 
And a bestie bucket list?
 That’s how you choose each other—on purpose.
 
If this episode made you laugh, reminisce, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛
 
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This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

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The Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart) 

 It started as a joke… but it turned into a pact. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into their very real plan to end up in the same retirement home—and why it’s about so much more than aging, housing, or even logistics. 

Because behind the laughter, the chaos, and the slightly unhinged planning… is something deeper:
 👉 the decision to choose each other for life. 

As women get older, friendships don’t just “stick”—they require intention, effort, and a shared vision for the future. Jennifer and Jackie open up about why they’ve spent years planning their “retirement home era,” how it gives them comfort knowing they won’t grow old alone, and why this kind of friendship bond is rare—but powerful. 

They also get real (and hilarious) about: 

•  What their future living situation might actually look like (retirement home vs. friend compound 👀) 
•  Why women often outlive their partners—and what that means for friendship 
•  The importance of planning emotional support, not just financial retirement 
•  The role each bestie will play (caretaker, troublemaker, organizer… you already know 😂) 
•  Why staying connected long-term doesn’t happen by accident 

And yes… they’ve already trained their kids on what to smuggle in. (You’re welcome.)
 
Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about where they end up—
 it’s about who they refuse to lose along the way.
 
If this episode made you laugh, think, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛
 
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This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

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We Found Our Way Back: Rebuilding a Friendship After 15 Years Apart 

What happens when a friendship you thought was gone forever… finds its way back? 

In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie share the real story of how they reconnected after 15 years apart—and why rebuilding a friendship later in life is rarely instant, but always worth it. 

From high school best friends to years of silence, life changes, and separate paths… this episode walks you through the exact moments that brought them back together. It wasn’t one big conversation or a dramatic reunion—it was small steps, uncomfortable reaches, and choosing to show up again and again. 

They open up about: 

•  The first awkward reconnection (and why it matters) 
•  How vulnerability and courage rebuild trust 
•  Why consistency—not intensity—is what brings friendships back to life 
•  The emotional reality of reconnecting after divorce, distance, and time 
•  What it really takes to feel safe, seen, and connected again 
•  How to know if a friendship is worth trying again 

Plus, their Bestie Rapid Questions get real, emotional, and honest—covering what they wish they had said, what they’ve learned, and why losing each other actually made their bond stronger.
 
If you’ve ever lost a friendship, wondered if you should reach out, or hoped for a second chance… this episode is your reminder that some connections don’t disappear—they just need time, space, and a little courage to come back. 

Because the best friendships aren’t always the easiest… but they might just be the ones worth rebuilding.
 

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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

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We Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted 

What happens when someone who once knew everything about you… becomes a stranger? 

In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the 15 years they didn’t speak — and why that silence mattered more than they ever admitted. 

This wasn’t a dramatic falling out.
 No big fight. No clear ending. 

Just life… pulling them in different directions. 

But here’s the truth:
 You don’t just lose the friendship.
 You lose the person who remembers your life with you. 

Together, they reflect on: 

•  How a ride-or-die friendship can quietly fade over time 
•  The pain of losing shared memories — not just the person 
•  Why “we just grew apart” doesn’t always tell the full story 
•  The impact of relationships, life changes, and timing 
•  What it feels like to reconnect after years apart 
•  And why some friendships never fully leave you 

This episode is raw, nostalgic, funny, and honest — full of wild high school memories, late-night talks, and the kind of connection that doesn’t come around often.
 
Because sometimes…
 The friendships we lose aren’t gone.
 They’re just waiting for the right moment to find their way back.
 
🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie
 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring
 
If you’ve ever lost a friend, missed someone quietly, or wondered “what if”… this episode will hit you right in the heart.
 
And maybe… give you the courage to reach back out.
 

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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

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Same Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other 

Ever feel like you and someone you care about are speaking completely different emotional languages?

You’re not imagining it… it might be generational.

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into why friendships across different generations can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes even hurtful—even when both people genuinely care.

From communication styles and emotional expression to boundaries, loyalty, and expectations, every generation was shaped differently… and those differences don’t just disappear in friendships.

Jennifer and Jackie get real about:

•  Why generational clashes happen (and why it’s not always personal) 
•  The biggest friction points between Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z 
•  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend 
•  Real-life examples of generational misunderstandings in families and friendships 
•  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to move on 
•  How to navigate friendships when you see the world completely differently 

They also share honest stories about family dynamics, different perspectives, and the challenge of trying to connect when your emotional wiring doesn’t match.

Because sometimes…
 👉 it’s not the friendship that’s broken

…it’s the framework you’re both using.

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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

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Why You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships 

Friendship hasn’t gotten worse… it’s just gotten different. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down how friendships have evolved from Baby Boomers to Gen Z—and why every generation connects, communicates, and shows up in completely different ways. 

From the loyalty and “don’t talk about it” mindset of Baby Boomers, to the independent, low-maintenance friendships of Gen X… to the emotionally expressive Millennials and the boundary-driven Gen Z—each generation has its own friendship language. 

And sometimes… those languages don’t translate. 

Jennifer and Jackie get real about: 

•  Why different generations expect completely different things from friendship 
•  The biggest clashes between loyalty, communication, and boundaries 
•  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend 
•  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to get over it 
•  How to stop taking generational differences personally—and start understanding them 

They also share real-life stories, generational frustrations, and a few laugh-out-loud moments (including the reality of growing up with wall phones and zero privacy).
 
Because the truth is—
 we’re all using the word “friendship”…
 
👉 but we don’t all mean the same thing.
 

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Bestiemony®
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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony
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Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves 

You can insult us. We’ll probably roll our eyes and move on. 

But disrespect our bestie? 

Now we’re drafting paragraphs, standing taller, and deciding who needs to be escorted out of the group chat. 

In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the protective instinct that kicks in when someone hurts our people. Why is it easier to defend our friends than defend ourselves? Why do we forgive faster for our own pain… but hold lifelong grudges when someone crosses our bestie? 

This chapter dives into: 

Why women go full mama bear for their friends
 How loyalty can turn into fierce (and sometimes petty) protection
 The difference between healthy boundaries and permanent blacklists
 Why our “bullsh*t tolerance” drops as we age
 How childhood patterns of self-abandonment can turn into over-protection of others
 When sticking up for your friend helps — and when it complicates things 

Jennifer and Jackie share real stories from their friend group — girls’ trips gone sideways, shady behavior, teenage locker-room standoffs, Moscow Mule meltdowns, and the unspoken rule: if you hurt one of us, you hurt both of us. 

They also admit the hard truth:
 Sometimes we hold onto anger longer than the friend who was actually hurt. 

Because protecting your bestie feels powerful.
 Protecting yourself? That’s harder. 

This episode is about loyalty, love, projection, fierce devotion — and the beautiful, chaotic energy of women who refuse to let their people stand alone. 

🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie
 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. 

Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe text your ride-or-die just to say: “I’ve got you.” 

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Bestiemony®
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Rhinestone Wedding Chapel
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Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony
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Making Friends Later in Life: Episode 9 Vulnerability — How to Open Up Without Overexposing Yourself

You can’t build real friendship without vulnerability — but the older we get, the riskier it feels.

In Episode 9 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why vulnerability is essential for deep connection, why it feels scarier in midlife, and how to open up without trauma dumping or overexposing yourself.

Because here’s the truth:
If you never let people in, you’ll only have activity buddies.
But if you open up too fast, you might scare off the very connection you’re hoping for.

In this episode, we break down:

• The difference between vulnerability and trauma dumping
 • Why surface-level friendships feel safe — but lonely
 • How to “test the waters” before sharing something deeply personal
 • Healthy vs. unhealthy responses to your vulnerability
 • How to build trust in layers instead of emotional leaps

We also share real examples from our own friendship — including how we rebuilt trust after a 15-year gap and why slow vulnerability made our connection stronger.

If you’ve ever been hurt, misunderstood, or burned in friendship, this episode will help you open up wisely — not fearfully.

Because vulnerability isn’t about spilling everything.

It’s about revealing yourself slowly enough to see who can handle it.

💛 Series Reminder:
 First the work on you. Then the work on connection.

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Bestiemony®
Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.

Rhinestone Wedding Chapel
Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel.

Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony
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Making Friends Later in Life – Episode 8 Matching Effort: When You’re Doing Too Much in Friendship (And How to Stop)

Have you ever realized you’re the only one reaching out…
the only one making plans…
the only one checking in? 

And then one day you stop — and the friendship disappears? 

In Episode 8 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie dive into what it really means to match effort in adult friendships. This isn’t about keeping score or going tit-for-tat. It’s about recognizing when you’re over-functioning, over-giving, and carrying emotional weight that was supposed to be mutual. 

We talk about:
 • The signs you’re doing too much
 • Why women are conditioned to over-give
 • The difference between effort and chasing
 • How to test a friendship without drama
 • Why silence sometimes tells you everything
 • And how to protect your energy without becoming cold or bitter 

We also share real stories from our own friendships — including the 15 years Jennifer and Jackie weren’t friends — and what it took to rebuild trust, effort, and mutual investment. 

If you’ve ever felt drained instead of connected…
 resentful but saying nothing…
 or scared that if you stop trying, there will be nothing left… 

This episode is for you. 

Because matching effort isn’t about control.
 It’s about clarity. 

And the best friendships?
 They don’t need chasing — they need reciprocity. 

Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die.
 And when you're ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring. 

Chickology Podcasts
Bold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.

Bestiemony®
Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.

Rhinestone Wedding Chapel
Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel.

Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.

💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony
📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies
📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]