Smart is Sexy

Kelsi and Celeste share their perspective and preferences on heteronormative gender roles in modern dating. Is it about the money? They expand on this and detail how dynamics can change when the woman makes more money.

They also recap personal experiences and detail how they realign into their femininity. They discuss the types of men they usually date, and how they find the balance of masculine and feminine energy in partnership dynamics. 

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Kelsi and Celeste discuss the reality of hyper-independence. They open up about trauma,  loneliness, and their self-critical tendencies. They explain the weight of making every decision for both themselves and their employees and how it affects them.  They also explain decision fatigue, how willpower is finite, and how they bounce back from their lowest moments. 

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New year, same them. Kelsi and Celeste are back for season 2. They share life updates, intentions for the year, and talk about what's to come.  

The episode is broken into:
Good News Minute 
Life Updates
Sexy Sexy 

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Kelsi and Celeste wrap up season 1 with a reflective episode. They recap on their year coming out of covid and get ready for 2022. The episode is divided into 3 parts: Work, Love, And Self. 

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Kelsi and Celeste discuss the importance of non-sexual intimacy and dive into a few examples for a hearty yet intimate conversation.

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Kelsi and Celeste check up on each other's mental health and then discuss outgrowing friendships. They propose the questions: How do you navigate that growth gracefully and find new perspectives when relationships end? How do you become your own ally?

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Kelsi and Celeste discuss the pros and cons of owning a business. They discuss what it means to have a strong work ethic and the steps that go into building a brand or being a good employee.

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Kelsi and Celeste host a fun episode where they comment on dating dilemmas from 6 of their friends and give them tough love.

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Kelsi and Celeste propose arguments against settling, giving up on dreams, or "being realistic." They discuss why it's important to recognize when others are projecting their limiting beliefs onto you and how to remain an independent thinker and create the life you *truly* desire. Additionally, they briefly recap the horrific events of Travis Scott's Astroworld where 8 people were tragically killed. 

Notes and references from the episode:

• Boxt wine
• Jeeter Cannabis 

RIP to the 8 lives lost.

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Kelsi and Celeste discuss mimetic theory and competition. The duo explores how as humans, we often desire what people around us have simply because they have them; and that we compete for the same things even if we don't truly want them deep down because sometimes herd mentality validates our existence.

Notes and references from the episode:

• Mimetic theory is a concept developed and advocated for by René Girard; the key insight is that human desire is not an autonomous process, but a collective one.

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