Snake on the Table

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle a hard-hitting question: Is it biblical for a man to hand off his duty to provide while he pursues ministry training?

We confront the theological, practical, and pastoral fallout of this trend head-on. Can a man be trusted to shepherd a church if he neglects to shepherd his own home? Does seminary culture sometimes encourage men to abandon biblical masculinity in the name of ministry preparation?

We break down what it means for a man to provide, lead, and protect—starting in his own house. Along the way, you'll hear critiques of modern seminary systems, real-life experiences, and practical alternatives for those seeking theological education without compromising their calling as husbands and fathers.

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Have a question or topic? Drop it on the table—we're not afraid to deal with the snakes.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:29 - Overview of Topics

02:13 - Seminary is Defunct

07:01 - Balancing Work and Ministry

10:49 - Education Resources

11:14 - Pathways to Ministry

14:12 - Entering the Ministry Field

20:03 - Ethical Considerations in Ministry

22:14 - Importance of Responsibilities

24:33 - Final Thoughts and Contact Information

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we tackle whether Christians should use phrases that mean "man up" to challenge one another. Is it biblical to rib your brothers in Christ, or does it cross the line into sin? We dive into the balance between good-natured teasing, biblical masculinity, and the feminization of culture and the church. Can true Christian friendship include tough love and honest rebukes, or should kindness always rule the day?

Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss the role of gender roles, spiritual accountability, and how men can build real, meaningful friendships rooted in faith and strength. We react to cultural trends, reflect on personal experiences, and share what Scripture reveals about authentic Christian masculinity.

We want to hear from you! What are your thoughts on this topic? Send us your questions or ideas for future episodes—we’re building this conversation together. Catch the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or right here as we continue exploring faith, relationships, and life through a biblical lens.

#redpill #toxicchurchculture #culturalrevival #churchimpact #masculineresponsibility

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:59 - Male Name-Calling: Gay, Pansy, Sissy

02:06 - Context of Ribbing Among Friends

08:15 - Friendship Dynamics: True Friends and Name-Calling

11:02 - Understanding the Term Pantywaist

17:00 - Outro

Is avoiding kids unbiblical? In this episode, we tackle this tough and thought-provoking question head-on. Join us as Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, discuss the biblical purpose of marriage, the command to be fruitful and multiply, and the modern cultural trends like "dinks" (dual income, no kids). We dive into topics such as Christianity, biblical masculinity, parenting, gender roles, and how faithfully raising children impacts the next generation and brings glory to God.

We also explore the challenges of family planning, biblical perspectives on contraception, and the sovereignty of God for couples struggling with infertility. Are children a blessing or a burden? Can Christian couples purposefully avoid children and still honor God? Let’s unpack these deep truths together.

Got questions or topics for us? Send them through the form at snakeonthetable.com—we’d love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions. God bless!

#theologyofthebody #naturalfamilyplanning #christianfamilyplanning #familyplanning #biblicalmarriage #dink

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:02 - Biblical Perspective on Avoiding Children

05:09 - Spacing Children: Is It Acceptable?

09:54 - Financial Considerations for Avoiding Children

10:32 - Children as an Asset: Understanding Wealth

12:31 - Building Generational Wealth Through Family

15:02 - Contact Us

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, explore The Role of Fathers in Guiding Relationships—but this isn’t just about fathers. Pastors also play a crucial role in shepherding young men and women toward godly marriage.

We discuss how Christian men should pursue relationships with confidence, leadership, and spiritual maturity, and how young women can present themselves in a way that aligns with biblical femininity—without falling into worldly distortions. But where do young believers meet a godly spouse? That’s where fathers, pastors, and the local church come in.

Should pastors be more proactive in helping young people find a faithful spouse? What role does the church community play in fostering biblical relationships? We tackle these questions and more, offering practical, scriptural insights drawn from years of pastoral ministry.

Whether you’re a parent, a single believer looking for direction, or a pastor wondering how to encourage godly marriages in your church, this episode has something for you.

📩 Have questions or topics you want us to address? Reach out through the form at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to subscribe and check out Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts to stay connected. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:01 - Finding a Christian Man for Women

07:56 - Attracting a Godly Man: Key Traits

12:33 - Importance of Weight in Relationships

16:48 - Traits Men Are Attracted To

18:01 - Where to Meet Good Men

21:06 - Tanner and Laura's Meeting Story

24:05 - Involving Friends in Relationships

25:50 - Singleness vs. Divorce: A Perspective

28:12 - Reformed Singles Mixer Event

32:23 - Tips for Finding a Christian Man

36:08 - Submitting Questions for the Show

36:16 - Closing Remarks

Can Christians speak like Jesus did? In this episode, we explore that question by examining the bold, loving, and often confrontational way Jesus spoke.

Join Reformation Church pastors Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, along with special guest Jon Harris, as we discuss how Christians today can follow Christ’s example in speech and action. This conversation is built on Jon’s new book, Against the Waves—a deep dive into biblical communication, standing firm in truth, and challenging cultural compromise. You can get your copy here: https://amzn.to/4bpZ3dv

From biblical masculinity to parenting with wisdom, we cover the principles of effective communication, the necessity of godly confrontation, and the misconceptions about love in today’s culture. Whether it’s engaging with opponents, leading your family, or fostering spiritual growth, this discussion will challenge and encourage you.

Got questions or topics you’d like us to cover? Send them our way, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes of Snake on the Table. Listen now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and join the conversation today!

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:30 - Speaking Like Jesus: Christian Perspectives

07:55 - John MacArthur’s Upcoming Book Insights

11:17 - Addressing Women's Roles in the Church

17:00 - Understanding the Concept of a Nation

17:54 - Perspectives on Paul Washer's Teachings

18:20 - Church's Distance from the Community

20:00 - Defining a Masculine Church

25:20 - Emulating Jesus: Actions We Should Take

26:13 - Immigration: A Christian Perspective

30:18 - Book Recommendations and Insights

32:53 - Submit Your Questions for Discussion

33:27 - John Harris Podcast Overview

33:39 - Engaging Conversations That Matter

In this episode, we discuss our fight for equal protection under Kentucky law, focusing on HB523—the Equal Protection Act for unborn children. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we navigate the challenges of advocating for justice while exposing the political games that stall meaningful change.

We tackle questions like: Why do our laws value some lives differently? How can Christians stand firm in faith while engaging with the political process? Together, we unpack how HB523 aims to defend the most vulnerable, protect women from coercion, and uphold a consistent biblical ethic.

Your voice matters! Contact your representatives and demand action. Let’s hold our leaders accountable for protecting life and ensuring justice. Have thoughts or questions? Reach out to us on Twitter or Facebook. Don’t forget to follow us for more discussions on Christianity, spirituality, and biblical values. Let’s fight for truth together!

#legislativepriorities #kentuckylegislation #publicsafety #whas11news #legislativeagenda

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Introduction

00:50 - HB 523 Overview

03:20 - Fearmongering Tactics

07:20 - The Mother as a Victim

09:33 - Contact Your Representative

10:42 - Exposing the Legislative Game

16:38 - Adjacent Political Pressure

19:14 - Closing Remarks

When should you leave your church? 🚶‍♂️ In this episode, we tackle this important question from a biblical and practical perspective, exploring when it’s time to move on and how to do so with grace. From concerns about shallow teachings to doctrinal issues and cultural pressures, we share personal experiences and offer insights into maintaining unity, pursuing reconciliation, and prioritizing covenant membership.

We also discuss the pitfalls of church hopping, bad reasons to leave a church, and the key qualities to look for when joining a new one, including confessional beliefs, cultural engagement, and a heart for evangelism. Does your pastor’s teaching align with Scripture? Are you feeling called to re-evaluate your role in your church? Let’s dive into these tough but necessary conversations.

Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we share wisdom from our own journeys and encourage you to take a thoughtful, gospel-centered approach to your church decisions. Got questions or topics you’d like us to explore? Send them our way, and let’s keep the dialogue going!

#membershipcontracts #churchmembership #thelocalchurch #gracecommunitychurch #whatischurchmembership

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Jerry’s Church Experience

01:07 - Introduction to Church Dynamics

01:36 - Importance of Church Community

06:10 - Leaving a Church: A Serious Decision

10:38 - Valid Reasons to Leave a Church

18:25 - Invalid Reasons for Leaving a Church

24:41 - Joining a Church: What to Know

29:45 - Finding the Right Church for You

32:20 - Steps to Join a Church

33:19 - Initiating Conversations in Church

When does life begin, and how do faith, law, and hard choices shape our understanding of this pivotal question? In this special edition of Snake on the Table, Pastor Jerry Dorris of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, is joined by three women from the church to share their powerful testimonies and discuss the urgent need for legislation that upholds equal protection and equal justice for the pre-born.

This episode dives deep into one of the most challenging and emotional topics of our time: the sanctity of life in the womb, the transformative power of Christ, and the role of legislation in shaping cultural values. Through raw, heartfelt testimonies, we explore how personal struggles, societal pressures, and faith intersect. From stories of redemption after abortion to the strength found in God's grace, these conversations expose the realities of sin, the hope of forgiveness, and the lasting impact of the gospel.

We also confront cultural norms that have long misled the pro-life movement—challenging the false idea that mothers who abort their children are always victims, addressing the biblical view of justice, and discussing how faith-based legislation must reflect the truth that all human life is equally valuable.

Join us for this crucial discussion, grounded in Scripture and framed by the hope of Christ. Share your thoughts and questions—your voice matters in this fight for justice. Don’t forget to subscribe for more candid conversations on faith, morality, and biblical truth. Let’s keep the conversation going!

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:30 - What is Snake on the Table

06:38 - Wendy’s Story

11:41 - Katie’s Story

15:47 - Sins of Women

20:37 - Delane’s Story

24:40 - Processing Trauma Over 30 Years

25:55 - Impact of Pastor Keeler's Preaching

29:38 - Disassociating that the preborn have value

29:58 - Suppressing the Truth

32:29 - Navigating Pastoral Teachings on Abortion

41:10 - Church Support for Single Mothers

42:18 - Miscarriage and Gospel Hope

44:50 - Final Thoughts and Reflections

45:16 - Submit Your Questions

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In this episode of Snake on the Table, we tackle the complex question: Should Christians support mass deportations? Join Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Doris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we explore the intersection of Christianity, immigration, and national identity. Are mass deportations un-Christian? How should believers balance compassion with the rule of law? What does the Bible say about nationhood, assimilation, and justice?

We dive deep into these pressing issues, sharing biblical insights, personal convictions, and practical perspectives on how to approach this hot-button topic as faithful Christians. Should Christians prioritize helping illegal immigrants, or does stewardship of national resources take precedence? How do we navigate the tension between extending grace and upholding the law? We also discuss the role of the church in ministering to immigrant communities while respecting legal frameworks.

Got questions or thoughts? We’d love to hear from you! Send us your topics and questions through the anonymous form at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to check out the podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions about Christianity, biblical masculinity, spirituality, and more. Let’s wrestle with the tough questions together. God bless!

#donaldtrump #news #deportation #presidenttrump #trumpimmigration

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:41 - Christian Perspectives on Mass Deportations

04:41 - Immigrants' Intentions: Becoming Americans

08:15 - Global Responsibility: Taking in the Needy

13:41 - Worship Rights for Illegal Immigrants

19:00 - Misusing Proverbs 21:13 in Christian Context

21:06 - Balancing Personal Compassion and National Policy

25:36 - Consequences of Deportation

28:37 - Natural Segregation of People Groups

33:03 - Governance: National Self-Regulation

34:53 - Q&A Session

What does true biblical servant leadership look like? In this episode, we tackle the misconceptions surrounding servant leadership in Christianity and discuss how leaders can serve while maintaining authority. Drawing insights from Mark 10:42-45, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright explore the balance between humility and strong, Christ-centered leadership. Is modern servant leadership too passive, or have we lost the essence of what Jesus modeled?

We reflect on biblical masculinity, gender roles, and the importance of setting a vision in the home, church, and beyond. How can husbands, pastors, and leaders serve best without forfeiting their God-given responsibility to lead? With real-life examples and scripture, we challenge the cultural shift away from biblical principles.

Have questions or thoughts? Share them with us at SnakeOnTheTable.com, where you can also submit topics anonymously. Tune into the "Snake on the Table" podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions on Christianity, parenting, and spiritual growth. Join us as we seek to lead with integrity and follow Christ’s example of servant leadership.

#faithfamilyfinance #servantleadership #examplesofservantleaders #principlesofservantleadership #servantleadershiptenprinciples

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:40 - What’s the Snake

01:37 - Mark 10:42-45 Analysis

04:08 - Exegeting Off the Top Insights

05:39 - Understanding Servant Leadership

09:56 - The Lazy Husband Explained

10:36 - Characteristics of a Domineering Husband

12:33 - Leading by Serving Principles

19:43 - Elders Leading by Example

21:55 - Transitioning to Once a Week