As a woman of a certain age, and body type, the world (read men) can expect certain things from you. The truth is, those of us that are doing it our way without any fear as to be exactly who we are can be questioned because this world hasn't made it easy for us to be who we are. But the goal is to find those who love you for exactly who you are and hold them close. Take a listen to Nicole's experiences, and know that if it sounds like you, you are not alone.