In this episode the fellas are joined by a long time listener and a fellow creative Tia or Toxic T as we like to call her. We discussed cheating in a relationship and the various kinds of cheating. We also discussed reasons why people would cheat and question whether a valid reason can be used as an excuse to cheat. ENJOY!!!

As always this episode’s playlist can be found on both Apple Music and Tidal keyword search: So Here’s The Thing Ep. 35 (links below)

 https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-35/pl.u-WabZ6M3CeY9oX2m

https://tidal.com/playlist/621326b5-35e8-4df3-8594-f3f735adf345

In the last episode of 2020, the fellas are joined by a good friend and fellow podcaster Frac from the Fric and Frac NYC podcast. We discussed a wide array of sexual topics ranging from our individual sexual bucket list, any limitations when it comes to your partner as opposed to a random 1 night stand and much more. There was also talks about drinking squirt juice and salad tossing. Enjoy!!!

As always this episode's playlist can be found on Tidal and Apple music keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 34 

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-34/pl.u-NpXmzkVu476zZKB

https://tidal.com/playlist/2c270ce4-dc8b-4a96-9adb-ea281b91c6ca 

On this episode the fellas sit down and reminisce on old high school stories. We also discussed certain things we would like to change based on what we know now. And of course it wouldn’t be the So Here’s the Thing podcast if none of us talked about any old girls from High school and how they are doing now.

As always this episode playlist can be found on Apple and Tidal Keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 33

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-33/pl.u-WabZv37HeY9oX2m 

https://tidal.com/playlist/1ae17f67-40b0-43f0-959f-0df684257793

On this episode the fellas addressed the age old stigma that "boys get hurt when they're young and carry that pain throughout all of their relationships." We also discuss our toxic traits and what we've learned from each relationship. We're also joined by 2 callers who shared their experiences dealing with toxic men and taking that pain into their next relationships. 

As always this episode's playlist is located on Tidal & Apple Music keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 32 (Link located below)

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-32/pl.u-8aAVZ6Vivr6kG29 

https://tidal.com/playlist/dd7c8ae0-ab8a-44a2-82b1-ed302017878b 

On this episode the fellas are joined by one of their longtime homeboys Paris. We discussed the feelings and thoughts that most men go through when it comes to parenting and dealing with the rush of responsibilities of a young father. We also share our personal experiences along with the trials and tribulations that we've dealt throughout our times as fathers. 

As always the music on today's episode is available on tidal and apple music keyword search: So Here's The Thing Podcast EP 31

https://tidal.com/playlist/df15d857-9dd9-410e-96ba-aa1ce9c117d9

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-31/pl.u-KVXBk1JuLdy7gWq 

In this episode, the fellas discuss the upcoming presidential elections happening 11/3. We aren't by any chance political pundits, nor are we clearly educated enough to have an in depth political conversation, but we are 3 black men that grew up in the hood and slowly figured out that we don't know shit about politics.  Enjoy

As always the music on today's episode is available on tidal and apple music keyword search: So Heres The Thing Podcast

https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/4164d913-c48f-40e4-ac63-96e9f7757c98 

On this episode we sat down with Niesha from the #SipNFactuals podcast. We discussed everything from relationships and marriage and of course sex. We also explore the new nuances with dating or meeting prospective daters during the pandemic and how to navigate the dating scene. 

As always this episode's playlist can be located on Tidal and Apple music Key word search : So Here's The Thing...EP 29 (links provided below)

Tidal: 

https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/1c6266ea-a01b-4475-b56f-2028548d608a 

Apple Music:

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-29/pl.u-WabZv4jUeY9oX2m  

In this episode, the fellas borrowed an excerpt from the Trill Elevation podcast entitled "loosing your identity," We discussed how often times people end up loosing themselves while in pursuit of making someone else happy which in the end would result in them ignoring their own personal needs.  we also got a call from Cheeto and a new friend to the podcast Yolein. Enjoy!!!

As always this episode's playlist is exclusively located on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 28 (link located below)

https://tidal.com/playlist/f27a4d6c-1d9e-4c02-bbe6-fcb46bc62af3 

In this episode the fellas discuss the importance of entrepreneurship. They discuss various pros and cons of being entrepreneurs and what comes with starting up your own business. For some odd reason we jump down a rabbit hole of Youtube couples doing things for views. As always subscribe and tell at least one person to subscribe as well. 

"Support does not always have to be financial,"- SHTTPOD

As always today's playlist is exclusively on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing Ep. 27 (link Below)

https://tidal.com/playlist/d9e8355f-be98-42a2-8a6b-cf8e52c670b2 

In this episode the fellas discuss all the stupid sh*t people do or say when they want to break up with someone. They also discuss how they may use the break up to make their ex jealous as well as certain petty things exes do to "win the break up."

As always today's playlist is exclusively available on Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing EP 26 (Link Below)

https://tidal.com/playlist/c50b684f-8ee3-4acb-9640-fad59ee90621