Growing and evolving is good but it's change and change comes comes with opposition. You must be prepared, recognize the signs in order to handle them . Courage determination and self-love is important to get you through the process.

Growth is not only good for individuals, it's good for society, in family units , friendships , churches, mosques etc. The person who is evolving and growing has to be aware of the consequences for this journey causes backlash and jalousy. Being aware and prepared especially having self love is important for a healthy lifestyle and outcomes. Be prepared.

Retreat from your activities to listen to yourself, your soul is good for you and the people you serve. The noise of the world is getting loud and loud. It's good to reflect, stay away from the noise and see what message your spirit have to tell you. Remember you don't look for answers outside yourself, you seek answers within.

It's difficult sometimes dealing with people who are determined to cause distractions through insults, jalousy, hate and belittling to take your focus away from destiny. It's even harder when these are your friends and family members. You have to aware, strong and not take things too personal. With difficulties people are dealing with their own problems and insecurities, so have compassion and forgiveness.

Keep maintaining your relationship or marriage. Doing things for your partner in your relationship is important in order to keep you alive , healthy, motivated and strong. With all the issues going on in this day and age it's easy to forget or neglect your partner , and or staying in the same routine. Remember the things you used to do for each other before and continue to do these things even if life is harder now and your had children.

Sensitivity is a gift and can be a curse. Just like being introverted or extroverted people have some strong characteristics that goes with these gifts and personalities. Sensitivity is a good thing if you recognize yourself with and the gift you are blessed with. Sensitive people in your entourage, family, work or church see , hear, and analyze things before you even start thinking of what to do. They are your best counselors, advisors, teachers and healers. You can be one and don't know it. Do your inner work , recongnize and develop your gift. Be an asset to the world.

Someone is always shosen in the family unit to represent and help break generations curses and to paid karmic debts. like or not they carry your burden on their heads. Sometimes these people are mistreate and outcast by their own family members. Know that by doing so you become a tool used by forces to destroy or disrupt the plan. But a wise and woke shosen will recognize that you are not their enemies but their teachers who help them with your outcasts , blames prosecutions and mistreatments to elevate and teach them how to break through and overcome. Your debt is paid if they are successful.

Karma is real, karmic payment is real. Breaking generation curses is real. It's important in order to move and live peaceful in this world, and the next. The soul has to evolve therefore karmic payments are ways to resolve what is not to be repeated in next life . Sometimes Karma is not what you did but what you inherited from ancestral linage. Recognize, acknowledge and be willing to change is important in order to start healing. People are shosen in every family to break the chains of Karma in order to allow karmic payments to be paid. Respect them their journey and destiny, don't hate or mistreate them.

Relax and let your man lead. . In today's world women are doing lot of things to survive in relationship and in marriage. Sometimes women forget their feminine side and getloss with daily life demands. It's important to let the man in your life shows you his masculinity, as provider And leader. Let your man take care of you and stop stressing yourself too much.

Thank you, for listening to my podcast Social media wahala ,on podserve FM. Social media wahala is brought to you in Ewe, one of many tribal Togolese languages. I appreciate all your supports and you taking time in your day to listen. Be blessed.