Soft Skills Engineering

By Jamison Dance and Dave SmithBusiness Technology

Soft Skills Engineering episodes

March 09, 2018Episode 99: Developer Health and Whiteboard Interviews
Dave and Jamison answer these questions:
Do you have any recommendations for maintaining physical health in a software developer role? For example, strategies to maintain good posture, reduce eye strain, etc.

Is the practice of asking interviewing developers to regurgitate 20 year old algorithms on a whiteboard a recent trend or is this something new? Can you make sense of this madness?
This is a pretty good summary of some of the health effects of sitting.
Here is the tweet Jamison talked about.
33 min
March 02, 2018Episode 98 (Rerun of Episode 57): Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers
Dave and Jamison answer these questions:
I’ve been pushed in to doing management tasks I really don’t enjoy. What do I do?

How do I handle a co-worker who I really struggle to get along with?
35 min
February 22, 2018Episode 97: A Quiet Intern and Hearts and Guts
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
We have a great intern, who is smart and has good ideas but is also very quiet.

She’s got a great deal of potential, and I want to tell her that being more vocal and assertive can help her greatly, both in her career and in life.

How can I give her this feedback, without it sounding like a criticism of her personality, or her introverted tendencies?”

Recently a team member was let go. I am the team lead so I played a role in their termination. While they weren’t a good fit for the team, I’d still like to be in touch and help them improve their skills. Should I steer clear of this? My gut says yes but my heart says no.
30 min
February 17, 2018Episode 96: Teaching Burden and Unknown Unknowns
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
I know that teaching others is important when working on a team so that the team can grow and get better. But what happens when one member of the team, despite being the friendliest person in the world, is missing so many required skills for his job that it becomes impossible for me to do anything besides teach him?

I recently heard the concept of “known unknowns” and “unknown unknowns”. It’s the unknown unknowns that get me. Sometimes I ask a question of a seasoned developer and they seem annoyed because it’s something that I could have looked up. They knew it but I didn’t. Sometimes I ask a question and they are eager to help because the question is interesting and they know it will be good for me to learn. I struggle because I don’t want to waste my time or theirs, but I want to work through things and learn. How do I do this well?
Wikipedia has a whole article on the origin of the phrase “unknown unknowns”.
Also, Gary Bernhardt has a fantastic talk called Ideology about “unknown knowns” - things we believe in software without even realizing we believe them.
Hoobastank.
28 min
February 08, 2018Episode 95: Paying For Help and Scared of Recruiters
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
When should asking a developer pal for help go from something that is free because you’re pals to something you should compensate them for in some way?

I’ve never worked with recruiters before. I’ve always found jobs from friends and other connections. Is working with recruiters worth it? What should I watch out for?
I finally found the creepy Jack and the Beanstalk video! It is still horrifying.
31 min
February 03, 2018Episode 94: Dodging Recommendations and Full Sleeve Tattoos
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
As a “less than ideal” engineer was leaving our team, he asked if he could use me as a job reference. How should I tell them no?

What are your thoughts on having full sleeve tattoos (ie, tattoos that cover the entire arm) within engineering?
35 min
January 27, 2018Episode 93: Negotiating Annual Raises and Part-Time Work
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
My job doesn’t seem to leave room to negotiate salary or raises for our year-end review. Is this normal? How do I negotiate in this process?

Can working part-time, when it’s possible to work full time, to invest in personal development look bad to a future employer?
This tweet storm by Sarah Mei is good and relevant.
This is the video about making your own font and anagraphs that Jamison mentioned at the end. It is SO GOOD.
This is a funny and enlightening video that people of taste and culture will appreciate. This one is also good. Ok fine, they are all good.
29 min
January 19, 2018Episode 92: Career Death by Friction and New Job Woes
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
A previous job involved a coworker who, over time, became very difficult to get along with.

I did my best to talk it through with him, but he would only ever say I needed to “fix my attitude”. I tried to deflect and avoid conflict, but he’d continually impose himself on the situation. (Assign himself to review my code, come into my cube and demand my help, etc.)

I had good relationships with the rest of the team, and they all agreed that he was out of line. Yet management viewed the situation as simply friction between two devs, with no clear instigator.

Being a source of team friction is career death, and I’m personally embarrassed that anyone got that impression of me.

How can I (or other listeners) handle this situation so that I don’t get painted as “part of the problem?”

I’ve started a new job. I’m enjoying the work and the culture slightly less, and I discovered my salary could have been much higher had I negotiated harder. Is it too late to negotiate for a higher salary after I’ve already joined?

Dave mentions this article on salary negotiation. It’s good!
40 min
January 11, 2018Episode 91: Job Requirements and Teams of Misfits
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
How often do candidates get hired who don’t match the requirements listed in a job posting? Is it a waste for me to apply to all jobs I come across even though I only have about 1/3 of what they want?

I’ve been moved to a newly formed team. I suspect the team consists of people nobody really wants to work with. What are my options in a situation like this?
28 min
January 05, 2018Episode 90: Upper Management Dislikes Me and Undeserved Job Offers
This week Jamison and Dave answer these questions:
Upper management has a negative impression of me because of an early manager. How do I manage and improve my reputation with mid and upper level management, who I interact with very rarely?

I have a job offer I feel unqualified for. Should I decline this offer I honestly don’t deserve, or face a massive amount of impostor syndrome and risk not delivering?
30 min

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It takes more than great code to be a great engineer. Soft Skills Engineering is a weekly advice podcast for software developers about the non-technical stuff that goes into being a great software…