SOLACE

If you've done all you know to do and still not getting all you desire, Bible says, you should stand. This means you should not be discouraged but stand on the promises of God and never doubt. It might not be easy but stand don't listen to the devil or those with negative words or ideas. God knows it all. He loves you and can never fail you. Whatever happens, if you have the right thought, action and/or reaction, you will come out a better person, fulfilling your destiny in grand style. Stand! Don't waiver!

Walking with God, doing business with someone or relating with family members even choosing a friend, you must have a point where you agree. God created you, so, you must walk with Him and build your relationship with Him agreeing with His instructions and obey them. Business associates, colleagues at work etc you must have a meeting point and wisdom says go for those who add and give good advice and not otherwise.

Do you know why you are contentious and hate another person? It's because you are envious and jealous which isn't necessary because you can be who ever you want to be without destroying another. God has given us everything we need in life. Everyone has his or her own sphere of influence given by God,so, you don't have to bring down or frustrate another!

Are you quick to react when things happen or people do something around you or do think or ask them why they did or are doing it? A soft answer drives away wrath. Let your words be full of grace seasoned with salt so you know how to answer every man.

Why do you behave the way you do? Why, do you have to hurt another because you want take that person's position? The top is wide enough for you and others to attain any desired heights. Good relationships make life and the world beautiful

When you take decisions, who is behind it? Is it God through the leading of the Holy Spirit? Is the the society norm? Is it those around you? Is it you trying to impress others or flow with the crowd? Don't destroy yourself, your life and that of those around you because of wrong decisions.

When people talk to you or you read a piece from them, do you really listen and hear what is really being said or do you pretend to be listening just to get the person off your back? Many have died by suicide or are living but dead inside because no one really carried or listened to what is really happening but critical. Stop it! The shoes might to the other foot! Be careful! If you are the one at the receiving end and behaving you are presently, will like it? Can you cope?

You need to check and guard your heart with everything you have and stop taking decisions that destroys you, your family and loved ones. God plans something different.

There is safety in a multitude of counsel as the bible says. Be careful how you hear and what you hear. Counselling is good and sometimes you get dome that destroys you so you need to know what you hear or say to another. If lives are destroyed because wrong counsel from you, God will hold you responsible and if you take wrong counsel when given, you are guilty a d God will give His punishment to you. Be careful!

Many tell lies to coverup things thinking it is safer and they do not want to hurt their loved one or be punished! That is wrong. Tell the truth because lies is a trap of the devil and will destroy you and that person(sl you are trying to protect no matter how long it is covered up for.