Is setting New Year's resolutions disempowering?

Today I explore why traditional New Year's resolutions often fail and introduce a more intentional, emotionally connected approach to goal-setting.

I agree with the pundits. Ditch the resolutions and use your birthday as a personal milestone for creating meaningful goals.

Why Resolutions Fail (00:01 - 03:45)

• Resolutions are often vague, unrealistic, and driven by societal pressure.
• Only 9-12% of people stick to their New Year’s resolutions.
• Emotional connection is key to lasting goals.

Personal Milestones Over Resolutions (03:46 - 07:15)

• Birthdays serve as a natural reflection point for intentional goal-setting.
• Shifting focus to personal growth instead of societal norms.

The Power of Emotion in Goals (07:16 - 11:30)

• Emotions fuel motivation and inspire consistent action.
• Goal-setting aligned with personal dreams and unique circumstances is more effective.

Goal-Setting The Power of 3: (11:31 - 16:45)

• Write down three big goals.
• Identify three actionable steps for each goal.
• Break down those steps into 3 tasks to do today.

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Summary

What do dreams, fulfillment, and personal growth mean to you?

Today, I share insights from my experiences and emphasize how important it is to align with your core values.

I share tips to engage in self-reflection and build meaningful connections. For me, this is a journey towards joy and fulfillment. So I encourage you to set personal goals and embrace your authentic self.

Key Takeaways

• Dreams can provide guidance and insight from God.
• True fulfillment comes from living in alignment with core values.
• Self-reflection is essential for personal growth and understanding.
• It's important to celebrate small wins and progress.
• Building connections with others enhances our sense of fulfillment.
• Mindfulness helps us appreciate the present moment.
• Setting personal goals is crucial for creating a meaningful legacy.
• Joy and fulfillment require intention and commitment.
• Gratitude and kindness are foundational for a fulfilling life.
• Living authentically leads to greater satisfaction and joy.

Chapters

00:00 Dreams and Divine Guidance

02:59 The Journey to Fulfillment

05:55 Aligning with Core Values

08:48 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

12:11 Joy and Fulfillment Defined

15:00 Building Connections and Community

17:54 Mindfulness and Living in the Moment

21:00 Setting Personal Goals and Legacy

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What would you do if you woke up tomorrow morning and it was still 2024? What if you had a do-over?

Today, I share three transformative secrets for setting and achieving your goals in 2025, even if 2024 didn’t go as planned. With inspiring biblical insights and actionable strategies, I encourage you to embrace vision, resilience, and community for a fresh start.

So even if you can't go back 12 months in time, here are some actionable steps you can take to move you closer to your dreams in 2025.

Key Takeaways:

1. Life Doesn’t Always Go as Planned (00:30) Life is unpredictable. I encourage you to keep going even when you have setbacks. Don't give up on your dreams.
2. Three Secrets for Goal Achievement in 2025 (02:00)

• Have a Vision: Know what you want and set your sights on it. (Proverbs 28:18)
• Write Your Goals Down: Clarify your dreams and put them on paper. (Habakkuk 2:3)
• Visualize and Believe: Picture your goals and believe in their realization.

3 Find Strength in Faith (03:50) Isaiah 40:31 offers encouragement and reminds us that we're not alone in our struggles.

4.The Power of Accountability (05:00) Surround yourself with supportive individuals who align with your goals and values.

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This holiday season, I want to remind you of your inherent worth and strength. I encourage you to practice self-love, reflect on your identity, and set goals for the upcoming year.

This message also highlights the value of connection and support through the Solo Moms Connect community.

1. The Power of Self-Worth and Reflection (00:34 - 03:32) It's important to recognize your inner strength and worth independent of external validation. I encourage you to reflect on your identity as a woman, mother, and individual and to embrace self-love without guilt.
2. The Value of Community and Connection (04:16 - 05:05) Raising children alone is challenging, but solo moms are not truly alone. The Solo Moms Connect community is a free resource for building connections, accessing support, and finding mentorship to help achieve your goals.
3. Practical Encouragement for the New Year (03:32 - 04:16) I encourage you to set goals for the new year while taking time for yourself during the holiday season. I lift prayers for healing and provision for you. I also want to remind you that your worth is intrinsic and not dictated by external circumstances or others.

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Could prayer calm the chaos of your life?

In this episode, I talk about the importance of prayer and how it may help you calm daily chaos and stress. I also invite you to seek out connections with others for support and encouragement.

I share my own story of finding peace through prayer during sleepless nights and emphasize the need for ongoing communication with God our Father.

Finally, I highlight the significance of community and connection among solo moms, and I encourage you to join support groups such as Solo Moms Connect for shared experiences and encouragement.

Takeaways

• Prayer can be a powerful tool for stress relief.
• Connecting with God can provide peace during chaos.
• Building a community can help alleviate feelings of isolation.
• Communication is key to maintaining a relationship with God.
• Finding time to pray can be flexible and doesn't require a specific setting. It also can result in miraculous experiences you never thought possible.
• Encouragement from others can help you navigate your struggles in a space that allows discussions that foster healing and friendship.
• Prayer can empower you to live a fulfilling life.

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Prayer in Chaos

09:51 Finding Connection Through Prayer

11:57 Building Community for Solo Moms

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Listen as I emphasize the importance of connection among solo moms, sharing personal experiences and insights on how to be a part of a supportive community.

Your need for a safe space where you can share your challenges, set goals, and find solutions is sometimes hampered by other people's opinions.

I also highlight the significance of goal setting and the power of shared experiences in overcoming feelings of isolation and loneliness.

So if you're feeling abandoned and isolated, this episode is for you.

And as we approach the holidays, I invite you to connect with our community.

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In this episode, I discuss the importance of healthy sleep rituals, particularly for solo moms.

I share my struggles with sleep and introduce seven effective rituals to improve sleep quality.

Additionally, I provide actionable tips for improving your sleep hygiene, emphasizing the positive effect of a consistent bedtime routine and a comfortable sleep environment.

Takeaways

• Healthy rituals can significantly improve sleep quality.
• Reading can help quiet the mind before bed.
• Prayer is a powerful tool for sharing what you care about with God.
• Yoga promotes relaxation and calmness.
• Meditation can ease anxiety and racing thoughts.
• Gratitude journaling fosters a positive mindset.
• Adult coloring can be a meditative practice.
• Infrared saunas may enhance sleep quality.
• Avoiding technology before bed is crucial.
• Consistency in sleep schedule leads to better rest.

Also Listen to: How to Transform Your Health Through Better Sleep w/ Bijoy John

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healthy Sleep Rituals

02:11 Seven Healthy Rituals for Better Sleep

11:55 Tips for Enhancing Sleep Hygiene

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In this episode, I discuss the importance of embracing solitude and learning to love ourselves.

For solo moms who find themselves alone at various stages of life, this is a reminder that there's nothing wrong with being alone, sometimes.

I emphasize the need for intentional self-reflection, self-care, and building inner peace, and encourage you to connect with others who understand your journey by joining the Solo Moms Connect MeetUp

Key Takeaways with Timestamps:

02:11 - 02:50: Craving Solitude as a Solo Mom 

03:40 - 04:10: Loving Yourself First 

05:30 - 06:30: Self-Reflection for Personal Growth 

08:20 - 09:00: Prioritizing Mental and Physical Health

13:00 - 13:30: Invitation to Join Solo Moms Connect 

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Summary

In this episode, I talk about the challenges faced by solo moms and introduce my S.H.E. framework, which stands for Shift, Heal, and Empower.

If you want your life to change, you will need a shift in mindset, healing from past traumas, and the resources to empower yourself to live a fulfilling life.

S.H.E. is designed to help solo moms navigate transform their lives.

Takeaways

00:00 The S.H.E. (Shift, Heal, Empower) framework helps solo moms let go of past hurt and societal norms and focus on personal transformation.

03:17 Many solo moms lose their personal dreams and identity due to societal conditioning, which stifles their true growth and potential.

05:42 The S.H.E. program encourages solo moms to embrace their strength and see themselves as God sees them.

08:07 The six-month program is aimed at helping solo moms shift their mindset, heal from past wounds, and empower themselves to live abundantly.

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Key Takeaways:

On this episode, I chat with Jeff Patterson, a meditation and martial arts expert with 30 years of experience, about how meditation can transform your life. Jeff shares the profound impact of the five regulations on mental health and overall well-being, offering practical advice for solo moms to reduce stress and find balance.

00:45 Meditation offers immense benefits for everyone, and Jeff quotes the Dalai Lama: “Everyone should meditate for 20 minutes a day, unless you’re too busy; then you should meditate for an hour.”

02:00 Jeff introduces the concept of the "five regulations" in meditation—body, breath, mind, energy, and spirit—which serve as the fundamental tools for any meditation practice.

03:00 Regulating the body and breath is essential for managing stress and anxiety and can enhance physical and mental performance.

45:00 Jeff emphasizes the importance of a consistent meditation practice and having a clear "why," as well as finding a good guide or teacher to help you benefit from meditation practice.

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SoloMoms! Talk Connect MeetUp

SoloMoms! Talk Connect is a private meetup group that connects solo moms globally. This group provides a welcoming and supportive environment for single mothers to connect and share their experiences.