How well do you really know your spouse?

This week we're playing a game that asks one big question:

Can our marriage survive these scenarios?

From hypothetical situations to everyday marriage frustrations (including Jonathan's ongoing battle with Amanda's Apple Watch), we laugh our way through the questions while discovering what really matters in a relationship.

If you enjoy honest conversations, relatable marriage moments, and plenty of rabbit trails, this episode is for you.

Is watching a TV show without your spouse basically cheating?

This week, we're settling one of marriage's most ridiculous (and surprisingly serious) debates.

We also talk about Amanda falling asleep during every show, Taylor Swift's wedding, Adam Sandler, listener questions, and a handful of rabbit trails that somehow all make sense by the end.

If you've ever argued over Netflix, this episode is for you.

This week, we're talking about something we've both been thinking about lately:

Do kids really need us to entertain them all day?

We talk about boredom, creativity, Bluey, social media, parenting expectations, and why maybe our parents were onto something after all.

Plus, we somehow end up discussing fireworks, video games, holidays, and whether married couples should cuddle all night.

Before we got married, there were a lot of things we assumed were completely normal.

Then we compared notes.

In this episode, we talk about the family habits, traditions, and everyday routines that seemed perfectly normal growing up—but turned out to be surprisingly uncommon. It's a conversation about marriage, family culture, weird assumptions, and the funny moments that happen when two people realize they were raised very differently.

Because sometimes getting married is discovering that your spouse's family did everything differently than yours.

Can two people love each other deeply and still feel unloved?

In this episode, we talk about love languages, quality time, personality differences, and one of the biggest misunderstandings we've faced in marriage.

For years, we were both trying to show love. The problem was that we weren't showing it in a way the other person could actually receive.

We also discuss:
• What really counts as quality time
• Being "alone together"
• Personality differences in relationships
• Why good intentions aren't always enough
• Learning to love your spouse the way they need

If you've ever thought, "I'm trying my best, so why isn't this working?" this conversation is for you.

What actually counts as quality time?

In this episode, Jonathan and Amanda discuss one of the most common relationship questions couples ask: what does quality time really look like? Does working out together count? Running errands? Watching a show together?

Along the way, they talk about communication, parenting, making friends as adults, apologizing when you're wrong, and the random conversations that somehow happen when you've been married long enough.

A fun, honest conversation about marriage, family, and figuring out life together.

Should your kids see you argue?

This week, we discuss healthy conflict in marriage, what children learn from watching their parents, raising sons and daughters differently, apologizing when you're wrong, and why trusting your spouse is one of the most important parenting decisions you'll ever make.

Plus: water parks, squirrel hunting, birthday parties, and Jonathan's ongoing battle against internet comments.

This week on Somehow Married, we talk about the lessons, habits, and weird personality traits we picked up from our parents without realizing it.

From learning how to handle criticism and conflict, to why Amanda’s parents always had the “house with all the bikes in the driveway,” this episode turns into a funny and surprisingly honest conversation about marriage, parenting, family dynamics, and becoming adults.

We also discuss:
• bad YouTube comments
• deer season arguments
• why Jonathan refuses to quit anything
• American Ninja Warrior audience secrets
• conflict in marriage
• what kind of parents we want to be

Somehow Married is a comedy marriage podcast about relationships, parenting, adulthood, and trying to figure life out together.

This episode starts with an embarrassing dating story and somehow turns into conversations about shower oranges, cult documentaries, rabbit holes on the internet, softball injuries, milk debates, and getting older together.

Basically: marriage gets weird after awhile.

What are the biggest things we wish we knew 10 years ago?

In this episode of Somehow Married, we talk about the lessons we learned the hard way through marriage, parenting, friendships, stress, money, and growing up.

We discuss:
• choosing your battles in marriage
• why some arguments aren’t worth winning
• parenting kids who think differently
• feeling overwhelmed as new parents
• relationship resentment
• and the dumb decisions we made in our 20s

Some serious moments, some ridiculous moments, and a lot of honesty in between.

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