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This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Dennis rearing his ugly head on Real Housewives of Atlanta; a reproposal and a possible marriage ending scandal on Real Housewives of Rhode Island; Kristen and Luke on the edge on The Valley; and Kenzie becoming the unexpected villain on Love Island USA.
3:26 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 17: Episode 11
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union
Sunday Sessions: 1000 Words returns for Pride Month with Arizona wrestler SOS, who shares an inspiring conversation about identity, creativity, and finding belonging in professional wrestling.
Host Roni Nicole sits down with SOS to discuss her nearly ten-year wrestling journey, from training at Arizona Wrestling Federation to becoming a coach and nationally traveling performer. Together they explore how storytelling shaped her wrestling career, what being pansexual means to her, and why authentic representation matters both inside and outside the ring.
SOS opens up about carrying the pansexual flag to the ring for the first time, blending family heritage and artistic influences into her character, and encouraging the next generation of queer wrestlers to never diminish who they are for someone else's comfort.
This episode also honors pioneering champion Sandy Parker, celebrating her groundbreaking legacy as one of professional wrestling's earliest openly LGBTQ+ world champions and her lasting impact on wrestling history.
Join us for another thoughtful conversation celebrating Pride, resilience, and the stories that continue to shape professional wrestling.
For this Pride Month edition of Sunday Sessions: 1000 Words, Roni Nicole sits down with veteran professional wrestler BH Doom for an intimate conversation about identity, authenticity, and finding the courage to live openly.
BH Doom reflects on his journey through nearly 15 years in professional wrestling, discussing what it was like to come out after establishing his career, the challenges of navigating locker rooms while hiding parts of himself, and the freedom that came from returning to wrestling as his authentic self. Along the way, he shares how community, mentorship, recovery, and representation have shaped both his personal life and his career.
The episode also includes a historical spotlight on Cassandro, the legendary luchador whose groundbreaking career transformed the role of the exotico and expanded what queer representation could look like in professional wrestling.
This is a conversation about resilience, visibility, and creating space for future generations—both inside the wrestling ring and beyond.
Guest: BH Doom
Celebrate Pride Month by listening, sharing, and supporting the diverse voices helping shape the future of professional wrestling.
Sorg checks in from Michigan while Missy recounts producing Jack Pollock's emotional "I Want a New Hip!" benefit show featuring surprise appearances from Pittsburgh wrestling legends, Wardlow, Jackson Argos, Chris LeRusso and more.
The crew also discusses Danhausen's incredible mainstream rise, WWE's King of the Ring tournaments, AEW's streaming platform expansion and closes with What We Learned.
Sorg and Katie are back on the road in Michigan, Dave Podnar joins from the Pod Cave, and Missy keeps the studio running from Pittsburgh for this travel-heavy episode of AwesomeCast.
This week, the crew talks about Niagara Falls adventures, World Cup watch parties, international visitors discovering American mega-stores, the Strong Museum of Play, Nerdvana, Google Gemini Pro, electric vehicle camouflage, and video game news from Chachi Says.
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Thanks to our supporters: Brian Crawford, Cynthia Closkey, John DeGore, and Dave Podnar.
In Part 2 of our conversation with returning guests Eamon and Merlin, we continue exploring the intersection of mindfulness, acceptance, personal growth, and human connection.
The discussion moves through deeply personal experiences involving family relationships, coming out, marriage, forgiveness, faith, and the challenges of overcoming long-held beliefs. Eamon and Merlin share how authentic relationships can challenge stereotypes and why spending time with people from different backgrounds often breaks down fear and misunderstanding.
We also discuss the role of community, the impact of isolation on prejudice, lessons learned from faith traditions, and the importance of remaining open to learning from others. Throughout the conversation, themes of compassion, curiosity, forgiveness, and acceptance remain at the forefront.
This episode serves as a reminder that understanding often begins with simply getting to know one another as human beings.
Learn more about Eamon and Merlin's podcast, A Gay and His Enby:
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This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk whether or not to fish with Kool-Aid on Real Housewives of Atlanta; Rulla’s Arabian nights party becoming her nightmare on Real Housewives of Rhode Island; too much complaining about free meals on The Valley; and Sincere’s namesake coming into question on Love Island USA.
6:12 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 17: Episode 10
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, drag queens, and anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; everything we love, on the internet, for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union
Sorg, Rizz, and Mad Mike welcome Pittsburgh pro wrestling veteran Chris LeRusso to Wrestling Mayhem Show for a wide-ranging conversation about professional wrestling, the Pittsburgh wrestling scene, and the importance of community within independent wrestling.
The crew discusses Chris LeRusso's experiences in wrestling, stories from around the industry, and the relationships that help keep independent wrestling thriving. The conversation also turns to the wrestling community coming together to support fellow wrestler Jack Pollock during his recovery.
This episode highlights Jack Pollock’s “I Want a New Hip!” benefit show, supporting Jack during his hip replacement recovery. Fans can attend or watch the event, participate in raffles, purchase benefit merchandise, and donate to help Jack while he is unable to work.
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Sorg and Dave Podnar break down a packed tech week on AwesomeCast 782, including Apple’s WWDC announcements, new Apple Intelligence features, child safety updates, and how Siri may finally become more useful across devices. The show also dives into He-Man movie nostalgia, Nintendo Direct news, video game preservation laws, and practical podcast lighting gear.
Stories & Gadgets Discussed
Returning guests Eamon and Merlin are back on Fishing Without Bait for Part 1 of a deeply personal and timely conversation about identity, community, and creating a life that aligns with your values.
Several years after their first appearance on the show, Eamon and Merlin reflect on the events that led them to leave Texas and build a new life in Pittsburgh. They discuss the importance of feeling safe, finding supportive communities, and navigating a world that often challenges authenticity and self-expression.
Jim Ellermeyer guides a thoughtful discussion about fear, prejudice, acceptance, and the ways people use faith and belief systems to either divide or connect. The conversation explores what it means to live mindfully, advocate for yourself, and build relationships rooted in understanding rather than judgment.
This episode is Part 1 of an ongoing conversation that examines identity, belonging, spirituality, and the courage it takes to create yourself rather than simply find yourself.
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