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This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk a scheme that Todd didn’t set up on Real Housewives of Atlanta; the discovery of the term slam-pig on Real Housewives of Rhode Island; Danny’s need for sobriety becoming more evident on The Valley; Bracket 2 bringing the drama on RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 11; and a new batch of islanders descending on Fiji on Love Island USA.
6:04 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 17: Episodes 07-09
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union
This week on AwesomeCast 781, Sorg, Katie, and Podnar are recording from the road in Ann Arbor, Michigan, while covering the AutoDrive Challenge and breaking down a packed week in tech, gaming, AI, gadgets, and local Pittsburgh creativity.
Stories & Gadgets Discussed:
He-Man movie excitement and Denny’s tie-in menu
Sorg is on the road in Ann Arbor, Michigan, but Wrestling Mayhem Show rolls on with Rizz and Mad Mike for episode 1006.
The crew spends much of the episode unpacking AAA’s Mask vs. Mask match and the unexpected rise of Chad Gable through the El Grande Americano story. What started as a strange masked character has become one of the most exciting wrestling stories of the year, leading to a debate over whether WWE should immediately elevate Gable into a major championship program.
The conversation also covers WWE’s international shows, Clash in Italy, the future of Brock Lesnar and Oba Femi, and possible King and Queen of the Ring outcomes. Chelsea Green gets strong support as a potential Queen of the Ring winner.
Sorg also praises AEW Double or Nothing, especially Stadium Stampede, Okada vs. Takeshita, and Lio Rush’s new character direction. Mad Mike celebrates Lucha Underground returning to YouTube, while the crew reflects on why lucha storytelling still feels so special.
The episode wraps with “What We Learned,” including Sorg’s production tip for indie wrestlers: buy a simple wireless lapel mic and make your promo audio better.
This week on Wrestling Mayhem Show 1005, Sorg, Rizz, and Mad Mike are joined in studio by pro wrestler Some Guy Named John for a chaotic, hilarious episode covering the Wrestling Mayhem Show presents April Fools spirit, May 19 wrestling lore, indie wrestling madness, WWE Films deep cuts, AEW and WWE weekend previews, and the ongoing saga of Leaders By Example.
The crew celebrates May 19, the 20th anniversary of WWE’s See No Evil, with Some Guy Named John delivering an increasingly detailed breakdown of Kane’s horror movie legacy. Rizz celebrates becoming an elected official, Mad Mike shows off wrestling collectibles, and the conversation spirals through WWE Films, NXT on YouTube, Saturday Night’s Main Event, AEW Double or Nothing, 880 Wrestling, RWA, VCW, and more.
Breakdown:
Sorg and Dave Podnar are back for AwesomeCast 780 with a packed tech talk covering retro cameras, AI announcements, accessibility breakthroughs, gaming news, and a little 1986 Transformers nostalgia.
This week, Sorg dives into the new Dungeon Crawler Carl graphic novel release and how the series has become a multi-format obsession across audiobooks, print books, Webtoon, and comics.
Dave shares Dazz Cam, a retro iPhone camera app that recreates vintage film, disposable camera, VHS, and analog looks for photos and video.
They also spotlight Ajay Bhatt for AAPI Heritage Month, recognizing his role leading Intel’s USB development team and how USB changed everyday computing.
Stories and Gadgets Discussed
In Part 3 of our continuing conversation, Jim Ellermeyer welcomes back returning guest Joanna Lowe for an unfiltered discussion about grief, anger, trauma, survival, and the complicated reality of healing after profound loss.
Joanna opens up about the experience of widowhood, the emotional isolation of grief, and the well-meaning things people say that often miss the mark. She discusses the importance of allowing yourself to fully feel emotions instead of hiding them, how friends and family supported her during suicidal ideation, and the ways grief reshaped her relationship with her daughter.
The conversation also explores:
How to support someone who is grieving without smothering them
Joanna also discusses her one-woman show Widow, which she is bringing to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, and how storytelling can help teach people how to truly love and support those who are grieving.
Joanna’s work:
The Occasional Epiphany by Joanna Lowe
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This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the long awaited return of 50 Cynt on Real Housewives of Atlanta; Jo-Ellen obtaining damning information on Brian on Real Housewives of Rhode Island; the return of the Lala that we love on The Valley; and Bracket 1 duking it out on RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 11.
5:35 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 17: Episode 06
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union
Sorg is on the road in Michigan for Wrestling Mayhem Show 1004, joined by Rizz, Mad Mike, and Producer Missy for a chaotic week in pro wrestling.
The crew breaks down WWE Backlash, Asuka’s possible farewell, Danhausen and Minihausen’s breakout WWE moment, Lil Yachty’s surprisingly great wrestling energy, the John Cena Classic announcement, WWE/TKO roster cuts, creator reaction-stream takedowns, and AEW’s golf course wrestling experiment with Darby Allin and PAC.
In Part 2 of our conversation with Joanna Lowe, we move into a deeply personal and profound discussion about grief, trauma, and what it means to rebuild a life after devastating loss.
Joanna shares the story of losing her husband just months after their marriage—a loss that didn’t just take a partner, but reshaped her entire world. She opens up about experiencing prolonged grief disorder, losing years of her life to trauma, and the physical, emotional, and neurological effects that followed.
This conversation explores:
The reality of grief beyond what society expects
This is not a conversation about “moving on.” It’s about learning to exist again.
Beyond her personal journey, Joanna continues to create across multiple platforms:
🎶 The Occasional Epiphany:
🎙️ The Grin Reapers Club Podcast:
🎬 Cup a Joe Productions:
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