Delonix Tan’s story is one of transformation. In Singapore’s high-pressure academic landscape, grades are often a primary measure of self-worth. When school failed to provide Delon with that sense of value, he looked for belonging elsewhere: in gangs.
For a time, Delon felt "really lost" and didn’t know who he was anymore, drifting between gang life, startup business attempts, and unfulfilling sales jobs. It wasn't until he stepped into the world of his family’s fishball business that he finally found himself.
The life of wet market vendors and hawkers in Southeast Asia is notoriously tough; they often start work at 1 or 2 o’clock in the morning, doing physical work in tropical heat. Yet it was in this challenging environment that Delon found his purpose.
“When I first joined [the business] I thought I want to make money,” says Delon. He soon realised that it wasn’t the cash, but the great personal growth he experienced that gave him the desire to continue in this tough industry. “It’s not about the money, it’s about the person you’re becoming.”
Today, Delon’s life is defined by discipline - a far cry from his early years, where he struggled to even wake up on time. He views his health (maintained through meditation, exercise, and diet) as an investment in the business' longevity.
One of his goals is to preserve our fast-declining wet market culture, so he documents his daily life as a modern-day hawker, sharing routines and traditional ways of working unique to his trade. Through his work, he also advocates for Singapore’s hawker industry, and believes that craftsmanship deserves more respect.
His other goal? To ensure Sandai Fishball reaches its 100-year milestone. “If I work till I retire I can do it,” he smiles.
If you’ve ever felt directionless or unsure about your own future, this episode is a meaningful example of finding purpose in the most unlikely places.
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