Soul Grit

No one heads to the altar planning for a divorce someday. We think that as Christians we should be able to beat the odds. Our churches are not set up to minister to people going through this life-altering split. That's what our guest noticed when he was struggling through his divorce amidst the chaos of the COVID pandemic.

Todd Turner created the Unyoked Podcast and workbook to help Christians facing divorce learn the milestones towards divorce recovery. You can find him at www.toddturner.com and on IG @unyokedliving.

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When life feels out of control and the pain in unbearable, some of us turn to self-injury for a sense of relief. Rather than wanting to die, many people with self-injurious behaviors simply want a reliable way to quiet the noise. Unfortunately, like other attempts at controlling our pain, self-injury can lead to serious problems, not the least of which is shame. Brittany Tinsley is a writer and self-injury support advocate here to talk with us about how we can understand and respond to self-injury.

Find out more about Brittany Tinsley by following her on IG @brittanytinsleywrites or read her work at brittanytinsley.substack.com.

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As a therapist, one of Ann's top skills is helping anxious and panicking people learn how to regulate their minds and bodies so that a "swirly" mind and edgy body don't interrupt life. In this solo episode, Ann unpacks the "first line of defense" against anxiety and shows you how to practice three techniques that will stave off a panic attack.

If you try these techniques on yourself or with a friend, make sure to let us know how it went! Disclaimer: these are general techniques that are helpful for most people, but should not be construed as medical or therapeutic advice for your specific situation.

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Have you been told not to trust your emotions? Or have you inadvertently learned that your mind is more important to your faith than your feelings? Jesus actually has something to say about our emotions! He shows us His own emotions and shapes the emotions of His followers in the Gospels.

Becky Castle Miller is a New Testament scholar, author, and emotions coach, here to help us make sense of how discipleship and emotional health go hand in hand. You can learn more about Becky at beckycastlemiller.com and on IG @wholeemotion.

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Most Christians know that Jesus talks about fasting in the Gospels, but many of us don't have a regular practice of fasting or even understand it. Dr. Tabatha was a conventionally trained OB/GYN struggling with her own health when she went back to study functional medicine. She realized that fasting is not only a spiritual discipline, but it is a superpower when it comes to our physical health and mental well-being.

Dr. Tabatha Barber is the host of the The Gutsy Gynecologist Podcast, a triple board certified physician, and an expert in hormones, gut health, and weight loss. She teaches her patients and followers to meditate on Scripture as a way to connect with God in their health journeys. Find out more at drtabatha.com.

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"Give yourself grace" is a common phrase in our culture, but how does it fit in with the biblical concept of grace? And does the modern psychology concept of self-compassion fit within a biblical worldview? Join us, two Christian therapists still figuring it out, as we explore these concepts.

Kristina Tucker is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Christian Yoga instructor in Georgia. You can find her at https://healingroots.online/ where you can also link to her socials.

Some resources mentioned in this episode:

Aundi Kolber's Try Softer

Dr. Kristin Neff's Self-Compassion

Ann's youth group music picks from the '90s:

Newsboys Real Good Thing

MxPx I'm the Bad Guy

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From the tiny neurons that look like seedlings to the four types of soil Jesus uses to describe the conditions of our hearts, the Bible provides a lesson plan for emotional, physical, and mental health. Dr. Anita Phillips' new book The Garden Within dives into the nuances of God's design for our wellbeing.

Dr. Anita Phillips is a trauma therapist, author, and podcaster whose first language is the Word of God. You can find all her links to get connected through her website: https://www.anitaphillips.com/

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Some of us have stories of intense physical pain, while others feel broken relationally. There are seven types of pain that all humans experience at one point or another. Dr. Michelle shares with us about the types of pain and how we can reach out to God when it's just too overwhelming.

Dr. Michelle Bengtson is a Board Certified Neuropsychologist who is well-acquainted with all seven types of pain in her own life. You can find out more about her books, services, and social media by visiting www.drmichelleb.com.

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What role has trauma played in your faith? Have you ever wished that your Christian brothers and sisters (and leaders) understood trauma better as they relate to you? How can we prevent further wounding to church-goers as leaders carrying heavy burdens in the church?

Jessica Gaffney, LCSW is a therapist and expert on PTSD coming to us from Florida. After years helping people in therapy, she is now completing her doctorate looking at how some biblical interpretations are adding burdens instead of producing freedom. Find out more about Jessica and her new podcast "Trauma Pastor" at www.thetraumaexpert.com.

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When people go through difficult circumstances, they don't always need a solution. They need a kind presence. Learn why it's so important to "sit in the dirt" with people with our guest Jeremy Williamson.

Jeremy Williamson is a Storywork Coach in northern Colorado working with people from all over the world. His background in a variety of ministry roles uniquely prepares him to serve ministry leaders. His new course, "The Soul Care Course: Sitting in the Dirt," is for pastors, counselors, small group leaders, and anyone interested in caring for others well. Use the discount code soulgrit at checkout for 10% off!

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