The #1 thief of JOY and something that I see happening way too often with women in business, is COMPARISON.
It’s the number 1 thief, removing joy from successful women entrepreneurs, not just from business but also life.
It’s something that many women default to. I see it way too often, and I’ve been guilty of it!
I can fall back into the trap BUT I’ve learnt how to bounce out of it.
This thief of joy can hold many women back in progressing further, in taking action.
Because what happens when you play the Comparison Game is, you move into a dark space. In blame. Emotions start playing with us. Self-doubt sets in. Negative self-talk begins.
I’m not good enough
Why can’t I get this?
I should be better at this?
I should already be earning that much money.
Why does she get to have it?
Why does he get to have it?
What do they have that I don’t?So it often becomes not only self-comparison, but then it becomes judgment. At that point, you need to catch yourself doing it and ask yourself to stop right there.
Join me for this Episode of the Boss Ladies UNCUT Podcast for my tips on how to avoid playing the Comparison Game.
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